Tell Tale signs you are being played (pls post your advice and insights)

[cyareful]

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trust your gut insticts..if daghan xa excuses, that's one of the signs..

[kishi_valora]

pangwartahan ra ka. gamiton ra ka for pleasure. and dili magparamdam kung xa ng nay kwarta. ana ra ang cycle.
bitaw.

naa pud uban nga nay ikalibre, gentleman, paingon2x single pero dili jud mo.commit.

dali ra man nah bantayan TS. ayaw lang jud pa.blind. ayaw pada sa sweet talks. di ba makabantay ka. haha

[SmartAssChic]

kung mo ingon siya busy siya mao dili siya ka call or text. hapit usa nalang ka semana busy gihapon...
nya dili ma contact ang phone, dili sad pakita hehehe kana

[SUEper.braces]

This is kinda hard bya kay it took me 2 years to confirm kung gibinuangan ruh jud ko sa girl...

Realized that genuine and sincere jud diay siya...

But for me...

Dili ko mention sa tanan mga signs pero Imma give some of which na akong pirmi bantayan jud...

1. If inconsiderate towards your feelings - this is the part where you feel insulted sa mga things she does and she doesn't even care

2. Doesn't trust you - this is the part where she chokes you to death by being overly possessive of you... No freedom...
Unsaon man nimu pagtrust niya if dili siya mutrust nimu?

3. If not willing to listen - if you are trying to change something wrong in her and she doesn't listen? sign na na na dili sha willing to change for you... people like that are hard to get a long with and are a recipe for disaster...

4. Money talks - she's with you because datu ka... or kai libre ra... it's a sign that she's using you... gastador pud kaau ning type of girls...

5. Naughty girl - girls like this are girls who don't respect themselves... if they can't respect themselves, what makes you think they'll ever respect you? (aka bitchy)

6. Self centered - relates to what i've previously said... This is when the girl only thinks that she's the only responsibility you have...

7. Whinny - yung magsige'g reklamo... mga galit sa mundo... sign ni siya na future naggers ni sila... sila pud nang mga arte kaau ug tapolan...

8. No Faith - For me faith is a very strong sign to the upbringing of the girl... Kung wala siya'y faith... wala siya'y gikabarugan na guiding principles that helps her get through in life... this type of girls are very easily swayed making them easy to get sa uban laki...

dong, please pasabta ko kung unsa ang mga characteristics ang ganahan sa mga boys kuno beh? kay sa tinuud lang, igo ko ani imung mga points to ponder dah.... i guess, kelangan jud mubasa ang mga followers sa book ni john gray, men are from mars, women are from venus.

the books tells us na men have different needs and wants from women. To make the long story short, it is best that we KNOW and after knowing, UNDERSTAND the differences between the two sexes. Ang theory pa ni John Gray is that men have different values because men are not from earth, they are from mars (this is a hypothetical analogy), and women are form venus that's why they have a different set of values pud.

So, boys and girls, angay magsinabtanay ta harun naay world peace. if there is peace, there is love. i guess mao ni akong tumong. peace&love

[SUEper.braces]

OT man ata to akong gi-post oi. lol

anyways, when i got cheated on by my boyfriend, what he did was the entire opposite thing na usually na ginabuhat sa mga boys. instead na maglagot siya nako or mg-away mi,
1. cge ko niya palaagon
2. gusto siya na mu-spend time ko with my girlfriends
3. gusto siya na mag-cge kog adto sa salon
4. gusto niya ipabuhat nako tanan akong gustong buhaton,
5. kani ang pinaka-kuyaw sa tanan, he wanted me to see other guys!

PAK XET. kai siya diay, naay laing ka-date2x. and suportado pud sila and ilang relationship sa ilang mga office mates. so nagpaka-single nalang pud siya sa office nila. ahay...girls, watch out

[seppuku]

kanang..mukalit lng og paramdam nya mawa napd...no constant communication..hehehe

[glinkho]

- if kalit xa mausab d na xa reha ug treatment sa imuha b4...
- dghan au excuses...
- makaduda pud ka usahay nganu sweet kaau or sobraan ka buotan nga d mn unta na xa inana b4 ( bsn naai gitago)

[kimleeKINO_choi]

Wala mn ta malikayan dri sa kalibutan jud TS. Ang maayo ani ktong PADUNG PALANG MUAGIG SAKIT KAAYO NGA EXPERIENCES kai paandamon sila sa pain besides in every pain you will gain. Just like us...LOL

[DizCyple]

dong, please pasabta ko kung unsa ang mga characteristics ang ganahan sa mga boys kuno beh? kay sa tinuud lang, igo ko ani imung mga points to ponder dah.... i guess, kelangan jud mubasa ang mga followers sa book ni john gray, men are from mars, women are from venus.

the books tells us na men have different needs and wants from women. To make the long story short, it is best that we KNOW and after knowing, UNDERSTAND the differences between the two sexes. Ang theory pa ni John Gray is that men have different values because men are not from earth, they are from mars (this is a hypothetical analogy), and women are form venus that's why they have a different set of values pud.

So, boys and girls, angay magsinabtanay ta harun naay world peace. if there is peace, there is love. i guess mao ni akong tumong. peace&love

Well ma'am, first and foremost i sincerely meant no offense to whoever read my post and felt offended by it. Second, I've read John Gray's books and I've based some of my philosophies from it. Third, this is my honest opinion on how I looked at my current girlfriend when we were starting out.

Honestly, I may have posted a lot but it doesn't mean I follow almost everything word for word. It's just something bantayunun lang jud nako pero naa ruh pud sa ako kung I'd be considerate enough to let her get away with it and so far my girlfriend does sometimes hit some of those traits I've mentioned. In that case, muconsider pud ko sa iyang actions coz i know di man siya perfect and I've learned to get a long with it.

So, if naoffended ho kayo, I would like to sincerely apologize...

And I do strongly agree with what you said about differences between genders thus my motivation to post something such as what i posted earlier...

[SUEper.braces]

Well ma'am, first and foremost i sincerely meant no offense to whoever read my post and felt offended by it. Second, I've read John Gray's books and I've based some of my philosophies from it. Third, this is my honest opinion on how I looked at my current girlfriend when we were starting out.

Honestly, I may have posted a lot but it doesn't mean I follow almost everything word for word. It's just something bantayunun lang jud nako pero naa ruh pud sa ako kung I'd be considerate enough to let her get away with it and so far my girlfriend does sometimes hit some of those traits I've mentioned. In that case, muconsider pud ko sa iyang actions coz i know di man siya perfect and I've learned to get a long with it.

So, if naoffended ho kayo, I would like to sincerely apologize...

And I do strongly agree with what you said about differences between genders thus my motivation to post something such as what i posted earlier...

lol, you dont have to apologize, DizCyple. But i appreciate your thoughtfulness. I do not mean to come to assertive, ing-ani ra jud ko, hehehe. sabta lang ko ha? And just so you know, wa man ko ma-offend oi, choz. maka-feel lang ko ba na murag uban sa mga traits sa girls kai halos in-ani man jud. anyways, darling, please dont describe your girlfriend as described in point #5 coz mu-hurt pud baya siguro siya ani if maka-basa siya. I guess naa ra moy communication gap. sometime, if not most of the time annoying jud ming mga girls, i guess that's why we all need to adjust to each others differences, ingna lang imung gf na attractive ang mga bitchy na girls (if she really is being naughty) pero tell her na mas ganahan jud kag demure na girl. lol...

and hey, it's really nice to know that you have john gray's book. at least nagka-relate ta.