Who's fooling who? What's the truth behind this?

[blu bizcuitz]

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please don't add some adjective before my handle like sir, boss or bro...I like it plain and simple.

[kimleeKINO_choi]

ayaw nlng pag sakit2x sa imong boot TS mangutana ka unsay reason nya inig pangotana nimo d kaha ka masakitan looy lang kaayo ka may pa kalimtan nimo

I'd rather hear the honest and painful truth than go around in circles having no enough reasons to finally bid goodbye. LOL I even told my close friends na dawat ra kaayo nako bisag unsai nkbutangan sa iyang life karon, happy ba kaau xa or sad or very fulfilled or contented to hav some1 new as long as honest xa sa paglayu or pg cut-off sa commu namo..hehe

Balewala ra ang sakit honestly kai anad na kaau ko na pirmi niya na buhaton sauna pa (lahi na situation ha dili ang paglayu...naa pa dghan..hahaha). Bisag ang girls after nko worst pa iya gpngbuhat nla so it's nothing new to me. When every1 else close to us talks about him I always thot of the equation of he+him = pain.

mao nang paet kanang kalit lang kawagtang na walay reason hehehe...i mean makalagot na oi hehehe..bisan unsaon pa nimog huna huna na pasagdan na, di dyod nato malikayan maglagot everytime makaremember ka sa iya gibuhat...hehehe..aw tagda lang na pinataas kilay gud hehehe...

LOL dili mn ko rash jud ug approaches bro...hehe ganahan unta ko pro dli ko ana na type jud..hehe Pero if ever that tym comes, smile nalang and avoid him for good.

[aysegkoan]

dugaya na diay ninyo wala nag istorya noh, naa na gud siya baby so more than nine months na.

dili nana kinahanglan ug closure inyoha sauna oi.. kung sa tambal pa expired na to..

say hi na lang para madali..

[kimleeKINO_choi]

dugaya na diay ninyo wala nag istorya noh, naa na gud siya baby so more than nine months na.

dili nana kinahanglan ug closure inyoha sauna oi.. kung sa tambal pa expired na to..

say hi na lang para madali..

Dili bro/sis oie..WHAT IF he already has a baby raman. Pero true 'to ang walay closure. I stated it in the first page. hehe

To tell u the truth long time b4, around year 2008 (nkalimot nko) he confessed to me naa xa npmabdusan (I don't know about the girl kai murag fling2 rto pero gnhan xa panagutan unta pro ang girl ni ingn mn iya pangayuon sa ako ex kai baby ra..hahaha gihimo syag paliwatan)..cguro mga 3 or 4 y.o na karon ang bata. Lahi pod na ako gi ingn na WHAT IF. Long story nmn gd. Daun kng ako edetalye dri liku na kaau ang story. LOL kto tyma xempre duha2 kog dawat oie..bisag pa ingnon dli mgdaku ang bata niya still he's the dad...diba?hehe pero gkalimtan nalng to a2 tyma kai on and off mn to a2 tyma pud..hehe ah basta too complicated..hehe

[Chel Fernandez]

I tried this gyud... and now nagkatawa nalang ko....

It was so weird...
well ako man sad tung sala... i left without a clue... well when i left... I love him man pero naa lang gyud ko lain priority... binogo sad kaayo tuh coz i was expecting that he would understand because he knows most of the things... I just did not bother to tell him the entire situation before I left...

so after a year... there was a part of me that was hoping that I would get him back but then i was also expecting otherwise.... but then never expected nah magkababy siya dayon... like i think a month after i left he made someone preggy...

mao tuh nagkita mi on a common friend's party...
like nashock gyud kow.. coz nobody told me what happened...
then nagpabuta buta kow... I told myself probably this is what i deserve... pero deep down i just wanna run... never thought it would still hurt despite me being somewhat ready for the worst...

pero iya kong giapproached and he started making a conversation... then mao nagtalk mi pero we never bother to discuss what happen nagstorya kinumustahay lang mi... tan.aw nako happy man siya ato... pero after that night.. ni sulti akong cousin nga disgrasya rah daw tuh kai pero daw niyang guola paglakaw nakow...
we became friends again but never discussed what happened before but after 2 years pagkita namo nagbulag nah sila sah girl and he is getting married with another one.. hehehe...

[clyde2586]

grab the nearest hot girl and pretend that i am really happy wahaha.. then inig agi,, explain sa girl na sorry and then explain the situation,, who knows basin makatawa pa cya then magka miga pa mo !!

[SmartAssChic]

lisod kaayo ang walay closure oi, but i think seeing him with someone else plus a family of his own, i think is closure enough. he has moved on and so should you, even without saying a word to the guy. in my case, i would just try to smile at him or maybe a nod and keep my composure until either of us is out of sight. it's totally uncool if i lose it right then and there knowing he already has a family. there is no need to talk to him because that will just bring up old scars, old stories. useless na. you don't want to ruin a family, di bah? bisan unsa pa nimo ka love ang person, you have to learn to let go.

[kimleeKINO_choi]

I tried this gyud... and now nagkatawa nalang ko....

It was so weird...
well ako man sad tung sala... i left without a clue... well when i left... I love him man pero naa lang gyud ko lain priority... binogo sad kaayo tuh coz i was expecting that he would understand because he knows most of the things... I just did not bother to tell him the entire situation before I left...

so after a year... there was a part of me that was hoping that I would get him back but then i was also expecting otherwise.... but then never expected nah magkababy siya dayon... like i think a month after i left he made someone preggy...

mao tuh nagkita mi on a common friend's party...
like nashock gyud kow.. coz nobody told me what happened...
then nagpabuta buta kow... I told myself probably this is what i deserve... pero deep down i just wanna run... never thought it would still hurt despite me being somewhat ready for the worst...

pero iya kong giapproached and he started making a conversation... then mao nagtalk mi pero we never bother to discuss what happen nagstorya kinumustahay lang mi... tan.aw nako happy man siya ato... pero after that night.. ni sulti akong cousin nga disgrasya rah daw tuh kai pero daw niyang guola paglakaw nakow...
we became friends again but never discussed what happened before but after 2 years pagkita namo nagbulag nah sila sah girl and he is getting married with another one.. hehehe...

Ka funny diay sa imo situation sis..hehe In my part I also know that I deserve this, becoz of so many reasons as well (Bisag sa kdghan rason I NEVER CHEATED ON HIM, yah naa ko pgkukulang sa kami pa ktong wala p xa nilayu pro sobra rapud ang kalit mwala xa oie). We're not hiskol anymore pra mgbinatag biya2x na walay pasabi pero mao lagi reality dawat raman pud..hehe .

grab the nearest hot girl and pretend that i am really happy wahaha.. then inig agi,, explain sa girl na sorry and then explain the situation,, who knows basin makatawa pa cya then magka miga pa mo !!

Toinks..wala pjud xai na uyab na nahimo nkong amiga...LOL
Ang girls b4 and after me puro ko kaila pro wla jud niabot ang time na ni-cross sako mind nga mgka friends me. Hahay kong pwde ko lng e-detalye ang gpangbuhat iyan mga nauyab nako ma windang mo sa mga batasan. hehe

lisod kaayo ang walay closure oi, but i think seeing him with someone else plus a family of his own, i think is closure enough. he has moved on and so should you, even without saying a word to the guy. in my case, i would just try to smile at him or maybe a nod and keep my composure until either of us is out of sight. it's totally uncool if i lose it right then and there knowing he already has a family. there is no need to talk to him because that will just bring up old scars, old stories. useless na. you don't want to ruin a family, di bah? bisan unsa pa nimo ka love ang person, you have to learn to let go.

Tama bro..that's the best thing to do. Pero to be honest wla nko ga xpect nga balik pami, I know hopeless na kaau...dghan na kaau nanga happen pod sa tagsa2x namong kinabuhi. Nilarga xa nistorya xa nko about it pro kalit nwala ang commu and ako pud nilarga ko (he knows that very well too), until naai incident na happen nga maka ingon ko, nklimot nmn unta ko pro naay memory nibalik..LOL

For now, OK nman ko. Yes sis..dko gnhan makaguba sa family kai I understand the feeling nga naai misunderstandings sulod mismo sa pamilya. He can't even trust me, mao wala najud. His dad has a mistress (he told his bestfriend and his bestfriend told his sister and the sister told me..hahaha relay kaau ang mesej sah?) and he can't even tell me his probs wyl kibw xa na maminaw mn unta ko. Pero cge lng iya pud to desisyon dli musulti nko. That's his ryt to protect his family too.

[PseudoSurgeon]

Murag di nalang guro nako sturyaon. Mao na toh ang closure nga nakit-an nako siya nga nay anak.
Wa naman say dapat iexplain. Crystal clear naman kay tong nay bata.
Forgive, charge to experience nalang tong nahitabo and move on.