Monitored 24hrs/7days a week!

[sarge]

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Have you experienced a partner who always asking your whereabouts? That you can imagine he/she is just like a CCTV camera watching over you all day long?

I've been into this relationship and it did not last long. I feel annoyed with him. He always check where am I, who is with me. Freak!!

To those who are into this relationship, how did you deal with it?

[yandz]

How to deal with it? Break it down

[kageron]

Sa permero raman nang paranoid depende gi unsa nimo pag evolve sa imong trust kyog ra gud mo bisan asa para sad ma mingle imo partner sa imo mga barkada. Then ma dugay ana musalig naman na xa sa imo mga kuyog. Then naa man sad uban tao nga dugay maka adjust so you need time and patience og imo pasabton nga kung mag cgeg duda way au na ing ana.

Kung di jud kasabot hala buhatang ikog pa kyog baboy nimo permi.

[cliff_drew]

Two reasons behind this. Its either you or your bf cheated in your past relationship(s) thus there's constant monitoring or your bf is that totally insecure. For me, I wouldn't deal this for last long, its good to say goodbye to each other.

[sarge]

at first i understand because of his line of job. but it keeps me annoyed every now and then asking where the hell i am. it didn't work

[cliff_drew]

What's his job diay? I thought imong job ang reason maong monitoron gyud ka nya every now and then.

[yvonne6]

case to case basis mani. depends kung unsa imong background, background sa imong partner, diin mo nagkaila, unsa namo kadugaya. for example, he/she met you nga naa pakay ka relasyon pero siya imong gipili, nag break sila sa usa, ma paranoid jud ang taw. mahadlok baya ang kawatan sa kapwa kawatan. kung easy ra kaau nagka kamo, feeling sa imong partner, dali ra sad siguro kaau ka makagusto sa lain. kung ang imong partner gikan sa relasyon nga gilimbungan siya, dili nimo ma blame ang taw. para nako, takes a bit of time before you can convince someone that you are trustworthy. there is always a reason for everything. para nako, ug secured ko sa love sa akong partner, there is no need for me to monitor him/her. usahay we fail to look into ourselves pud ug nganong ga ingon ana ang atong partner. in the first place, ug dautan siya nga taw, wala unta jud ka nakagusto niya

[sarge]

he is a salesman by profession and assigned anywhere of the country. ma paranoid ta, lupig pa niya akong mama

What's his job diay? I thought imong job ang reason maong monitoron gyud ka nya every now and then.

[dangelndisguise]

Have you experienced a partner who always asking your whereabouts? That you can imagine he/she is just like a CCTV camera watching over you all day long?

I've been into this relationship and it did not last long. I feel annoyed with him. He always check where am I, who is with me. Freak!!

To those who are into this relationship, how did you deal with it?

nakasulay ko ani TS i was with this kind of relationship.. almost 4 years pa jud mi ato

like ug gikan ko sa work. 7pm ko out. dapat by 7:30 naa na ko sa balay or else daghan jud manggawas kasaba gikan sa iya unya ug naflatan ba akong gisakyan or naay kakulian nahitabo? hahaha by 7:30pm manawag na na siya sa balay as in sa landline jud dili gyud sa cellfon... kng motext siya dapat reply dayun or else mag.away napds mi

naa gani to sitwasyun na. ang akong amiga na gikan canada naabut. ng.rent mi apartment. ang place doul man sa akong childhood sweetheart (wla na gud mi ngcommunicate guds) ug doul sa isa ka friend na nanguyab nko for almost one year (pero wla jud gihapon ko ngcommunicate na guds).

so we stayed there for a week. ninglakaw mana akong amiga kay naa siya gipalit. ako ray nahibilin sa apartment. kahibalo akong x ug asa dapit guds.. wala jud siya ngpahibaw na moadto siya sa apartment. nakatulog man ko. then mantikaon biya ko matug. as in hagok jud ba. pero ngpasounds pa jud ko.. pwerte man diay niyang tuktuk sa room, wla jud ko kadungog as in.. ngstay siya sa gawas for one hour. he keep on calling me daw.. pgmata lagi nko.. pwerte jud niyang kasaba nko.. ning.adto pa jud diay siya sa balay sa akong childhood friend nangutana bahin nko.. ug naa ba ko didto.. giahak tawhana. naulaw noon ko..

nausab ra jud siya TS pg long distance na namo.. wala naman siyay mahimz kay long distance ug siya man ang dili na kahatag ug oras nako.. ngbuwag ra jud mi TS.. siya ra pd ang hinungdan ug ngano

[Crimson_Viper]