Is it considered an illicit affair?

[naftal]

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I think so. I know the story of their marriage. She was got pregnant out of wedlock when her hubby still an apprentice. Because of the baby, they sealed the knot in the church.

She has already fallen into temptation when she had a lover other than her husband. Obviously, she NEVER loved her husband.

[walker]

I think so. I know the story of their marriage. She was got pregnant out of wedlock when her hubby still an apprentice. Because of the baby, they sealed the knot in the church.

That is a very common mistake people make, especially here in PI.

Ma preggy gani, kasal dayon. Kadakong sayop. A huge mistake gyud.

[vahnhelsing]

maayong gabie kanimo ts.
Boot ko modalit sa akong panahom kabahin niining imong kutay.
Boot mo matugkad kun ang pakighilambigit sa laing binuhat pinaagi sa text o hangtod sa text usa ba ka pagluib?
Tataw ug klaro ang tubag nga kini usa ka paglingla ngadto sa iyahang kapikas karon busa kini pagluib usab.
Sa higayon nga imong hatagan ug kahigayonan nga ang tentasyon imong sugalan bisan gamay lamang ngadto sa
imong kasing-kasing ug alimpatakan nakabuhat ka na ug salaod ngadto sa imong kapikas.
Nganong tuyoan man gayud nga makigkukabildo ug laing binuhat kun may dakong kahigayonan nga makabuhat ug
sala?

[bitchybutsweet]

such kind of girls doesn't deserve a happy ending.. tsk

[mio]

Mao diay nakig commu ug lain, wa na nalingaw sa iyang pagka dalaga kai na mabdos.

[Lex Sander]

maayong gabie kanimo ts.
Boot ko modalit sa akong panahom kabahin niining imong kutay.
Boot mo matugkad kun ang pakighilambigit sa laing binuhat pinaagi sa text o hangtod sa text usa ba ka pagluib?
Tataw ug klaro ang tubag nga kini usa ka paglingla ngadto sa iyahang kapikas karon busa kini pagluib usab.
Sa higayon nga imong hatagan ug kahigayonan nga ang tentasyon imong sugalan bisan gamay lamang ngadto sa
imong kasing-kasing ug alimpatakan nakabuhat ka na ug salaod ngadto sa imong kapikas.
Nganong tuyoan man gayud nga makigkukabildo ug laing binuhat kun may dakong kahigayonan nga makabuhat ug
sala?

dugaya nako nahuman ug basa ani oi

[quirkychinita]

Hmmm...

If I'd tell you na dili maayo ang cyber relationship, I'd be an hypocrite... I've been there, I've done that but quit it after I graduated from college.....

Cuz I don't see any sense in having a relationship through texts, chat, fb etc.... what happened to intimacy?

Even from the movie "City of Angels" wala nakapugong si SETH from the woman she fell in love with, he gave up his being an angel and suffered a life of a human just for the mere breath of her hair, one kiss of her mouth and one touch of her hand.... Heehehehe, still getting a hang of the movie I watched for the Nth time!

But yeah! unsa lugar? ang wife lugar dili makuntento sa mere emotional contact with her husband? Dili kahulat na muoli si hubby busa nangitag cybermate? Haaay..... naa jud tao na dili kuntento sa isa....

If it's out of boredom, naa ma'y gitawag na social life. Barkada, family, officemates, sports, nature trips, foodtrips, art, etc... We're in Cebu, dude! there's so much to enjoy here.... I guess she just needs to start by appreciating the simplest things... kay kanang boredom kasagara raba kay sa GARBO raba na gikan usahay.....


Putting my self in her shoes though, If I were married to a seaman na once every two years ra muoli sako, well, I'd be bored of course, but I'd find ways to distract myself.... I'd find friends to hang out with and things that I'd make a hobby out of....

I really don't know why some people can't realize how to get distracted.... but perhaps not all people are that passionate and open minded pud.... well, dili tanan tawo pareho, so... ces't la vie....

For now, all you can do is forgive her kay at least she didn't actually cheat on you.... she just chose the lesser evil and nagtug-an bitaw xag tinuod.....


Good vibes!

[jack_bauer]

What if you have a text mate or chat mate whom you have a relationship but never meet in person. You already build a good foundation thru exchanging of messages. The problem is you are already taken. Is it considered an illicit affair?

kujaw mgdula sa kalajo....

[naftal]

what if, because of boredom, one of your Barkadas, officemates while having involved in sports, nature trips, foodtrips, art, etc.. will show interest on you? is the activity not prone to temptation?

If it's out of boredom, naa ma'y gitawag na social life. Barkada, family, officemates, sports, nature trips, foodtrips, art, etc... We're in Cebu, dude! there's so much to enjoy here.... I guess she just needs to start by appreciating the simplest things... kay kanang boredom kasagara raba kay sa GARBO raba na gikan usahay.....

[kageron]

What if you have a text mate or chat mate whom you have a relationship but never meet in person. You already build a good foundation thru exchanging of messages. The problem is you are already taken. Is it considered an illicit affair?

The problem is nganu gi sugot man nga taken naman d i?