When Enough is ENOUGH

[zero_cool]

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I think it's enough when you feel okay without his/her presence, kanang dili ka mangita niya...

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

You said studyante pa ka sa?

Then you said you don't have much friends.

Dili kaayo mu-make sense para nako.

Focus na lang sa imong studies, visualize your career.
Makakita ra niya ka og someone nga para gyud nimo.

Unya daghan kaayo diri andam mag tagay sessions.

haha tagay jud.. bitaw wala naman ko anang tagay karon oi.. --OT

yeah student pa ko karon but ang akong age dli a angay pang student lol... say late 20's ..
i have a huge circle of friends pero i only have few close friends that i consider talking to but they have their own families na and super busy na pod.

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

bitaw noh.. enough na jud unta para nako

[baghag]

if wla shay lain unsa man kaha ya reason nga kalit lang sha ingana og treatment nmo g tak for granted ra guro ka nya; kay f naa shay lain hagbay ra unta sha nibiya nmo? if ok lang ya tubag nmo den yaw nalang jud ana nya yep mu change jud na ang taw i understand jud how u feel if bag o palang mo gabuag sakit pa kayo na bt after days , months ,years try ur best jud nga dli ka magthnk nya i think nmo mga bad thngs ya nabuhat nmo and never think bt the past nga maayo sha nmo cz past naman na sauna raman to ang ithink nmo ang present ang karon nga ya g buhat nmo

[Wynna]

There was this guy i fell in love with. He was so loving caring and thoughtful kaya
cguro na fall jud ko. Things went smoothly for the first year, we decided to live in
the same roof, bought things for our little family, going out for date but after that
things started to change.

First few lines, nakarelate nako (wala pa nanimbawt ako balaihibo)

There was one time i caught him trying to hook up with a girl sa internet. He had
multiple accounts of email. He was even on a dating site!
Bisan sakpan na deny to death kaayo cya. But i still forgave him.

nisamot ko og ka relate (MDD pa)

Then i caught him texting with his Xgirlfriend planning on a date. WTH
Daghan jud kaayo xa rason and nadala ra pod ko.

BUTANGI! relate to the highest level na jud ko ani

And lately, he started coming home late and most of the times drunk. He wants to be with his
friends rather stay in the house with me. And if ever hes at home, he is always not in the mood
to talk and seems very irritant when i make lambing..
Everything changed and probably his love for me too.

Its very painful to the extent na the last thing i do in the night and the very first thing i do in the
morning is to cry.

So i talked to him face to face heart to heart, i told him everything from the changes to the pain
he is causing me. I told him i want to move out and leave him. And the most painful thing i heard
was "OK, anything you want". My heart just torn into pieces. The 3year relationship has ended.
Enough is enough, is what i have been telling my heart.

samot kay 3 yrs pud mi!!

og kini pa,

In my part i think i did everything for him, I was a mom, a lover, a friend, a cook, a labandera, a housekeeper everything.
And to mention I am 10 years younger than he is.
But probably its not enough for him.
Sakit jud kaayo but I have to let go and move on na jud.

kahilakon na kog basa ani! waaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

wynna, ikaw bah yan? ...

[princize]

Saludo ko nimu TS for making a good decision.... :bow

kani manjung taw noh labi na love ang hisgutan, itorture sa ang heart and feelings before maka-realize ug make a good decision. hehe... but its not how we fall, make mistake and how many times we have been a fool, it's how we stand jud!

[salbahis]

Dapat ng Kalusin

[nakaigo]

sakto ra gyud na imong gibuhat TS...
klaro na kaayo sa pahak nga wla na sya nagka gusto nimo....
ingna siya bati siyag nawng,nganu gi ing-ana ka niya....

[saulrhyz]

Enough is enough the first time you thought it.

[azaleayve]

A right thing to do... sometimes you cannot please men who aren't ready yet for this kind of set up "living together"..In cases like this, i wanna agree on the "live-in" set-up, coz you can still go out from a relationship with lots of promises at first and turn out to be like this in the end. No hassles on divorce and annulment..

It is a hard thing to do, but a brave act of yours.. I salute you