How do you unlove love?

[yandz]

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Y0u have to die to unl0ve l0ve

[kuyabog]

Y0u have to die to unl0ve l0ve

but this book says...no one dies

[jhennee]

ka lisod..

[Isundril]

It's impossible to forget it completely, but the only way for you to "unlove" someone is by detaching yourself from every emotion and memory that ties you to the person you loved. Some might say about thinking negative things, but that would only lead to bitterness. Rather than doing that, you ought to learn how to set boundaries and reason why it is necessary for you to "unlove" him or her.

In my experience, I've been a martyr in a past relationship that I had. Because of love, I did what I could to make her smile, appease to her every whim, and gave all my strength to give her the happiness she was looking for. to sum it up, I gave it all and it wasn't enough. She keeps comparing me to the other "men" she met, turning a blind eye on how I did my best. She humiliated me in public, slapped me, insulted me in front of many strangers... especially that one time in Ayala...

But after a year or so... I've really had it and told myself that enough is enough. Before we broke up, I did my best to detach myself from the memories I had with her, I told myself that if I keep this up, and use my heart before my head, I will definitely get hurt in the end, and I would not live a happy life. Once the time came, we split, the separation hurt, but not enough reason for me to cry. I gave myself a reason that If I had stayed more in the relationship, mamatay najud ko.

I'm happy now, living a simple and free life... Love is bliss, but once it becomes one-sided, it starts hurting...
But that's the general idea. hahaha drama

[kuyabog]

It's impossible to forget it completely, but the only way for you to "unlove" someone is by detaching yourself from every emotion and memory that ties you to the person you loved. Some might say about thinking negative things, but that would only lead to bitterness. Rather than doing that, you ought to learn how to set boundaries and reason why it is necessary for you to "unlove" him or her.

In my experience, I've been a martyr in a past relationship that I had. Because of love, I did what I could to make her smile, appease to her every whim, and gave all my strength to give her the happiness she was looking for. to sum it up, I gave it all and it wasn't enough. She keeps comparing me to the other "men" she met, turning a blind eye on how I did my best. She humiliated me in public, slapped me, insulted me in front of many strangers... especially that one time in Ayala...

But after a year or so... I've really had it and told myself that enough is enough. Before we broke up, I did my best to detach myself from the memories I had with her, I told myself that if I keep this up, and use my heart before my head, I will definitely get hurt in the end, and I would not live a happy life. Once the time came, we split, the separation hurt, but not enough reason for me to cry. I gave myself a reason that If I had stayed more in the relationship, mamatay najud ko.

I'm happy now, living a simple and free life... Love is bliss, but once it becomes one-sided, it starts hurting...
But that's the general idea. hahaha drama

Thank you for sharing bro.

My story is so complicated, I am sure even a dozen Shakespeares combined won't be able to write a plot of tragedy as complicated as mine. I created this thread while drowning in my own ocean of hurts. I know my situation is a game ender so to speak, and I accept my fate.

It is impossible to unlove what I feel is true and honest love.

[superidol]

mag hubog2x rmn aqng style oi.. mmaligya ug buwad.. pra mka limot ko sa love naq..

[walker]

pakan-a sa imong buwad si ts brad.. makalimot lagi na

[kuyabog]

mag hubog2x rmn aqng style oi.. mmaligya ug buwad.. pra mka limot ko sa love naq..

palahubog diay ka bai? pulutan ang buwad?

[Isundril]

Thank you for sharing bro.

My story is so complicated, I am sure even a dozen Shakespeares combined won't be able to write a plot of tragedy as complicated as mine. I created this thread while drowning in my own ocean of hurts. I know my situation is a game ender so to speak, and I accept my fate.

It is impossible to unlove what I feel is true and honest love.

That's what would hurt the most... I can relate bro. I can only pray that your happiness would soon find its way back to you.
It is true, it's impossible to unlove what is true and pure love. Through this day, I still remember the feeling of how it was to have loved someone with all your heart. But don't worry bro, time will tell you what you need to do, and how things may fare.

[walker]

There is no undoing..