Naa pay mupunit ug single mom with 3kids na lain lain ug papa?

[yvonne6]

im a single mom too, i have 3 kids from my exhubby and it was never a problem when it comes to relationships. a lot of people would say, k rana, u will always find someone but to be very honest, lisud jud siya. filipinos are still not as open minded when it comes to these things. suerte ka kung ang lalaki imong maka relasyon, open minded. there will always be people who will judge you and u have to be ready for this. ako lang ika advice, dont put yourself into a level nga mawala ang respect sa mga taw nimo. for example, show them that u r a responsible and trustworthy woman. ayaw pasagdi imong mga anak. ayaw pag laag2, dont party and go drinking with other guys, it will create a wrong impression, samot na ang mga lalaki mopalayo nimo, mopaduol man gani pero lain ang ilang intention. be self sufficient, get yourself a decent job para ang lalaki dili mahadlok mobuhi sa imong anak. i am even older than you are and a lot of istoryans knows me, i was and never will be ashame to admit my status but your happiness will not depend on finding someone, be happy that u are blessed with 3 beautiful children. ayaw palabiha ang lalaki kay anytime nga dili nata nila kinahanglan, makabiya sila ug dali, give your kids priority. love will come in the right time, ako pa nimo, foreigner na lang kay naa pay kuarta ug dili sila mo mind ug naa nakay anak. you are still very young. you made mistakes in the past, you should be wiser and smarter now, i suppose

[jhennee]

hmmm.. ambot lng pd kaha..
bsn naa pa.. :0

[dmelsie]

ts based on my own

wala man problema ng naa kay anak, madawat ra gihapon if ever ako man gane,

ang problema lang gyud ana is ang mga libak, or negative comments gikan sa side sa laki, unsaon pag deal ana sa laki, in the long run maka survive ba na siya, samot na ang mga katiguwangang mga epokrita, kusog kaayo mosulod og simbahan pero mga libakera og paki alemira sa kinabuhi sa uban.

oh well wa ta masayod ts, basig mag cross atong dalan if ever makauli ko cebu hahahaha......
og mahitabo na inag kuha nimo og NSO mahimo ng Married imo Civil Status.

[dmelsie]

foreigner na lang kay naa pay kuarta ug dili sila mo mind ug naa nakay anak. you are still very young. you made mistakes in the past, you should be wiser and smarter now, i suppose

na unsaon na lang, foreigner is the answer na diay?
mag unsa na lang kaha meng mga nagpahipi sa daplin, di na lang mahalin?

[The_Watcher]

punit should not be the term. you can start there. you still have worth. being a single mom with 3 kids does not make you a lesser person than anybody else. love yourself and your kids and who knows, you just might find the right one. it is never too late. you can never change how other people think of you but you can always change how you think of yourself.

[Scott Bernard]

Mao na TS... ayaw nalang pamili. Apil na jud na sa possibility nga ang uban mag apas ra ug s3x nimo. So if happy ka sa guy, bisan gergir ra ang iyang ge apas, then go for it!

Mao lang na akong advice. Ayaw ang standards sa young single pretty girls ang e guide sa imong life, kundili ang unsa naka karon.

[archferro]

to Maze0427:

I love it when you said that you like to walk the aisle one day and marry the man who will love you unconditionally. truth be told- your question is one of the many questions women ask these days regardless of how many kids they have in their relationship. some women don't have a child with their ex's but still finds a herculean challenge whether they can find the man who will love them for who they are. in your case- you've loved three men. and in those three relationships you've had somewhere between the lines- i know you are the type of girl who will move heaven and heart to love and please a partner- but sadly it failed. it failed because they are not the ones who knew what they were getting themselves into. the type of have fun and run sort of thing. Mind you- dont be desperate. you are a mother of three.... i know you are strong- by loving yourself more and more. by doping this- you will be more at peace with yourself. sometimes in life- we don't find the perfect partner because happiness sometimes finds you even when you are a single mom and have 3 beautiful children who will love and make you proud. One day when you realize that the love you are searching for will be filled up by the love and support your children will give. love yourself, because in doing so- you will never be disappointed. because no one will ever leave you and make you cry. only you have this power to change the life you soley dream of- being loved. BUT when the time comes when you find a man who will love you and your children with unconditionality- then that is what you call, MIRACLE. it is seldom found but when it is there, True Bliss. hope this hels you maze.

[maze0427]

wala d ay ka nalipay sa imong mga anak ts? then 3 na kabook imong anak dili pa ka ana ma busy d ay? Asa naman mga bata karon? unsa nga kalipay imong pasabot?

just to set things straight...my children are totally God's blessing,they are my angels,and of course Im happy because i am gifted with 3 precious angels...mao bitaw nang no matter how painful ang gbuhat sa ilang mga papa sa ako, i make it a point na dli cla ang akong iblame or bungtan sakong kalagot(just like my mom with me).......maski lisud kay naningkamot jud ko na mabuhe nako cla...pro at the end of the day, when ur done taking care of them for the entire day, and wen u look at them sound asleep....u cant stop urself from thinking na how i wish na u will have a father.....pra complete ang family....mangita man jud gud na ang bata ug father figure....its really different if u grew up with a dad and mom.....sakit au pra naku na history repeats itself..i grew up without a mom and dad,at least cla they have me as their mom pro broken family japon.....super au ka busy mgbantay ug bata uei...graveh ka riot labi na ngsunod jud..mgdungan gud ug hilak,maratol nalang gud ka,wla pajud clay yaya....my kids are with me,we live in argao with my guardians(uncle and ninang with their kids)....kalipay for me is---kanang naa tay guy na hu wud know how to take care of me,mas secured akong feeling gud if naa koy kapartner sa pgpadako sakong mga anak....someone hu can listen to ur problems and always there to comfort u...kanang dli gani ka ijudge

[Crimson_Viper]

hmmm.. ambot lng pd kaha..
bsn naa pa.. :0

grabi.! ma.o ni isa sa pinaka bugu nga reply akung na basa sukad ni join ku aning istorya..

[wak_wak]

naa pa na oi.. for sure one day naa ra mu abot para nimu.. pero extra careful lang sa pag pili, kay daghan raba diha maayo kaau mu take advantage.. bitaw, ayaw lang e close imu doors sa possibility, for sure your knight in a shining armour will come, puhon puhon =)