Is The Wife Cheating Or Not? That Is The Question

[brian joshua]

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@brian joshua: mao jud ako ingun nya.. walay lalake in his right sense of mind na mopatol og 50+ na babaye kadghan mga teens, or 20s plus dha ha? ang mga babaye pa mu gukod sa lalake. klaro au kwarta la gi-apas sa lalake. di pud guro mo patol yaha wife og mas older nya noh? imposible kaayo.

di sd mahimo ang woman in her 50s mutira ug 60+ to 70 nga laki ui...
boylet jd na 100% sure ko...

[spike412]

tiguwang naman ni sila uy...

[lejean]

All I know the truth will set him free. As a friend of his and for guys who may have the same situation like him, perhaps this might open their eyes to be more observant sa ilaha pud mga wives ba kay basin ngmata pud sila og buntag. At least pud mentras sayo pa they will see the signs and plan their next move whether to stay or leave the wife. Duha raman gud ang ma-ending ane so called "saga" - forgive, forget and stay or forgive and move on with his life on his own.

I know usually ang mga husbands jud ang pirme masakpan naay laen without knowing that wives are capable of doing so it is just pulido lang mo lihok ang mga babaye mao lisud sakpan. And the condemnation that the society will give to a cheating wife is really something, and the double standards pud...

Imagine gud ang lalake mg-cheat, ingnun aw lalake bitaw na sya lay mawala nya. Pag-babaye ang mo cheat mura naay sakit na leprosy angayan layo-an sa mga tawo na grabe na kaau ka mortal sin ang yaha gibuhat.

[lejean]

@brian joshua: lagi not in a million years jud mo patol ang wife og guy on his 60s or 70s.


@spike412: yes, they may be old and you know what I have learned on their situation? do not be consumed on your responsibilities and obligations that you tend to forget the very reason why you marry the person in the first place. you need to be a whole person before you can love a person.

that's how ironic it is, as the saying goes "it takes more than a lifetime to know a person". Perhaps, they don't know each other that well that they loose track of the very reason why they were married and of their existence.

ma-shock lang ka dghan ane na situation, mura lang nahog og taboo kay nobody ever dared to open up regarding this kind of thing. wa ta kabalo the closest person nato is suffering the same situation as what my friend has in different circumstance lang.

[teeyuhraa]

At least nag earn na sya. Sge bro, goodluck sa imo friend. Sa mai problema anang bayhana ui..

[xavisimao]

klaro na kaau sa samin samin ang gibuhat sa babae...basin ang iyang DI ang iyang boylet...luoya sad sa imohang migo TS oi, tambagi gyud na ug tarong basin maghikog na..


nganong inogn ana man gyud ning mga babae sah, luoy kaayo tang mga laki :P

[lejean]

@teeyuhraa: mao jud ang pinaka-importante he is earning and naa jud nya yaha kwarta kay double jeopardy jud ba, sya pay gi-cheat, nya la sya kwarta asa nalang kaha sya padung mao nay lisud.

@xavisimao: mao bitaw as much as possible i want to be more logical, more practical and tell him straight kay sahay raba emotional na kaayo ta di ta ka huna2x og maayo laen ra jud to naay tawo jud makasulti ba unsa d-i mga options available para dili sayop ang decision mabuhat and it is something not to regret about.

[kuyabog]

@kuyabong: yes, didto mi sa fortune teller like the first week of march jud. ingon ang fortune teller the guy is in his 30s, naay ka live-in partner who is the same age sa lalake. then, masakpan daw nya accidentally thru the cellphone (which happened like few days after). the fortune teller was accurate...ang problema ane ron ang proof nalang beyond reasonable doubt kay mahog man gud sya kataw-anan...mao nalng jud ang kuwang.

ask the FT how to find a proof kuno.

basin naa sya mahatag nga something very unique and specific.

[lejean]

@kuyabog: yea, sakto ka i never thought of that jud. will tell that idea basin d-i naa sya mahatag na specific proof.

[teeyuhraa]

nganong inogn ana man gyud ning mga babae sah, luoy kaayo tang mga laki :P

Wag naman mag generalize bro!