Pity or Love? If you support him/her?

[minty_meh]

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asa man d i ang mga ginikanan ana imong uyab dai?

thats one thing sad, coz lau siya sa iya family. aku nalang murag family nya..

[minty_meh]

supporting him = pity
supporting him bu at the same time, encouraging him to have this goal nga in the fiture dili naka magsupport niya = love
supporting him for a long time without knowing when to stop = stupidity

you are not a mom duh

yah, i always remind him jud na to have his goal to help me.. hope for the future..and he is willing daw.. and im looking forward for it,,

[minty_meh]

normal guys will never be comfortable kung ang girl ang mag support financially...

it is in the mindset, the culture, the upbringing.

Really? they wud feel dat? sana.. for them to realize that i also need his help..

[reginakrys]

you know you love your boy/girl.. but ang problem is ikaw nagsupport niya.. then, someday you will miss the time giving you gifts.. but you know that he cant.. now, should you let him/her go because its pity? or love?

wala man problema if you are the one supporting your partner.. but there should be a limit.. it should only be a temporary arrangement.. dapat maningkamot sad cyag iyaha.. support him/her until such time that he/she can stand on his/her own already..

if you miss receiving gifts, that's normal.. but if you're really thinking of letting him/her go because of that, then i don't think you love your partner enough..

[minty_meh]

unsa tu? would it matter if you let him/her go because of pity instead of love?

pero kong ang title basihan, i think its both ... pity and love on why people do it

yah ur right, i think nagpity sad ku coz hes alone.. and i love him coz still supporting him. im just looking forward na he wud help me na sad...

[minty_meh]

wala man problema if you are the one supporting your partner.. but there should be a limit.. it should only be a temporary arrangement.. dapat maningkamot sad cyag iyaha.. support him/her until such time that he/she can stand on his/her own already..

if you miss receiving gifts, that's normal.. but if you're really thinking of letting him/her go because of that, then i don't think you love your partner enough..

temporary arrangement. i will remember dat. still looking forward jud na manigkamot na cya.. dats true, nakakamis mkareceive ng gifts.. naiinsecure aku.. maybe i love him that much coz i still couldnt let him go..

[azaleayve]

good deeds will be treasured in a lifetime... .. as long as happy ka supporting that person, it doesn't matter.. kaw ra pud makatubag if it's pity or love

[mrvs19]

thats one thing sad, coz lau siya sa iya family. aku nalang murag family nya..

so, nag live-in na mu?

[minty_meh]

so, nag live-in na mu?

nope.. wla me naglive in.. but ''looks like'' coz kami ra cge kuog..

[minty_meh]

good deeds will be treasured in a lifetime... .. as long as happy ka supporting that person, it doesn't matter.. kaw ra pud makatubag if it's pity or love

really? hmm.. hope so.. i think im happy,, but just a bit insecure to others lng jud..