am i selfish?

[farmboy]

what do u think fellow istoryans? am i really selfish? kung kamo sa inyo nga part can you risk it?

needless to say, i do love her very much. i can't afford to lose her.

NO sir, I do not think you are being SELFISH...I would have done the same if I were you. There are just too many risks for a woman didto sa gawas...plus the strains of a long distance relationship is going to be very stressful.

iya gf pod nakakita ug lain pag abot sa states while he stayed true to her here. kamo man gud ang duolon sa mga lalaki sis, mao na kung di mo kamao mo distancia ma develop jud mo. kami kay kami man moduol sa mga girls so kung di mi moduol wa ra poy ma happen. guys can have clean fun too sis.

i have spent my best years abroad..and i have seen that with my own two eyes..tinuod gyud na bai. ang mga lalaki ra ba didto kay all out ang efforts basta naa sila babaye magustuhan..