am i selfish?

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The worst thing u can do is trapping her. What if it won't work out? Ikaw iblame nia all her life! Let her spread her wings and fly. It's really up to her if she would include u in her world. Goodluck.

actually been there, done that with it sis. it happened to me before and i let her go because i thought that if she really loved me she would come back for me. but sadly sorry to say this sis, women are weaker than men in resisting temptations. ako ato before i've been true with my ex for so many years here while waiting for her. wa jud ko nakig date2x ug lain sis. amazing sa pero it's true.

[Cory1986]

How about new Zealand bro?

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the only way out of this mga fellow istoryans is if i can help her find a good job before she can leave abroad. she said that she would stay if she can find one here.

[Cory1986]

Women are weaker than men sa imong mata! Hahaha. Not all, I say!!!

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observation lang na sis kay same thing happened to my ka barkada. iya gf pod nakakita ug lain pag abot sa states while he stayed true to her here. kamo man gud ang duolon sa mga lalaki sis, mao na kung di mo kamao mo distancia ma developed jud mo. kami kay kami man moduol sa mga girls so kung di mi moduol wa ra poy ma happen. guys can have clean fun too sis.

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Kong mao iya gusto let her go. It dsnt mean mao iya gihoman dha jud dapat iya line of work. Dghan ng excel sa iba ang gihoman sa ila line of work. Are u really sure nga dka gnhan nga dli in line iya work ddto sa abroad mao imo sya gi stop OR tungod kai hadlok ka mwala sya?

TS, i understand ur feelings pero kong mao jud na iya gusto dapat imo sya ipa pursue sa iya dream.

[Judgement]

^couldn't agree more.
@TS
You are indeed being selfish. Kung mao na iya ganahan, so be it. It's not your life anyway. If she really

wants to be with you, she would find ways to STAY. sorry just stating my opinion.

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Kong mao iya gusto let her go. It dsnt mean mao iya gihoman dha jud dapat iya line of work. Dghan ng excel sa iba ang gihoman sa ila line of work. Are u really sure nga dka gnhan nga dli in line iya work ddto sa abroad mao imo sya gi stop OR tungod kai hadlok ka mwala sya?

both reasons sis. sayang baya iya course kung di magamit. daghan ko ug friends didto nga mga nurses ug ok kaau ila sueldo compared to than just being a caregiver. siempre hadlok sad, who isn't. if you're going to experience what i am about to experience again sis you can relate jud siguro.

[Cory1986]

Pakasli bro. Para kinsa una ninyu maka abroad, makuha dayun

[kimleeKINO_choi]

both reasons sis. sayang baya iya course kung di magamit. daghan ko ug friends didto nga mga nurses ug ok kaau ila sueldo compared to than just being a caregiver. siempre hadlok sad, who isn't. if you're going to experience what i am about to experience again sis you can relate jud siguro.

I have tried nga akong uyab kai mularga pod then I just kept it to myself kai mao mn iya gusto. Dili ko gnhan sya pugngan sa gusto niyang maabot pa sa iyang LIFE..even that wud mean malayu sya nako. Ako uyab and iya uyab sauna pod kai mulargahai then wala niya gi stop kai mao mn iyang gusto. Mao to ako gi-bear sako mind nga kong ako sya pugngan..ma kontento pa kha sya dri sa iyang life og sa among relationship?