Intimacy and communication

[bingearl]

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mao sad bitaw na akong nahibongan bro mag 20 years nami sa akong wife the s.... is good when bf gf pami and also after sa among kids na tawo mag 14 years old na and 10 ang usa nagsugod among problema or mag sigi siya ingon kapoy daw 3 years ago murag nawala iyang gana ive tried talking to her mo promise lang sigi lang nxt time iya lang daw bawion nag sked pa gyod me atleast once a week pero wala gihapon mao sad ask ko niya onsa gyod ang problema nga mga bata paman ta or onsa man gyod nilarga nalang siya singapore bro mag 4 months na siya didto wala gyod me ka resolve sa among issues as husband and wife... osahay bro maka ingon ko nga basig naa nako ang problema or siguro lahi na iyang priorities or nawala lang gyod or dili nalang gyod siya ganahan....

mag date baya mi once in a while atleast twice a month

kong naay maka advice whts the best thing to do about this problem just pm me pls...

[aku si Kahuny]

all of you, sshh..

@TS, here's your aid https://www.istorya.net/forums/love-i...l#post10814659

[Jefr0x]

Common causes for a loss of sexual desire and drive in women include:

-->Interpersonal relationship issues. Partner performance problems, lack of emotional satisfaction with the relationship, the birth of a child, and becoming a caregiver for a loved one can decrease sexual desire.

-->Sociocultural influences. Job stress, peer pressure, and media images of sexuality can negatively influence sexual desire.

--> Low testosterone. Testosterone affects sexual drive in both men and women. Testosterone levels peak in women's mid-20s and then steadily decline until menopause, when they drop dramatically.

-->Medical problems: Mental illnesses such as depression, or medical conditions, such as endometriosis, fibroids, and thyroid disorders, impact a woman's sexual drive both mentally and physically.

-->Medications: Certain antidepressants (including the new generation of SSRIs), blood pressure lowering drugs, and oral contraceptives can lower sexual drive in many ways, such as decreasing available testosterone levels or affecting blood flow.
( Age. Blood levels of androgens fall continuously in women as they age.)

Putting the Desire Back in Women's S3x Lives

Because a loss of sexual desire in women is caused by a combination of physical and psychological factors, it usually requires more than one treatment approach to fix the problem.

"For women, it is much more complex. They're not just complaining of one plumbing problem. "So we have to be more thoughtful in our approaches to treatment."

Once the factors causing low sexual desire have been determined, potential treatment options may include:

--->S3x therapy and/or relationship counseling. "s3x therapy is very effective for individuals and couples, and that is always at the top of my list," says Shifren. Sexual dysfunction usually affects both parties in a relationship and should be discussed together or individually with a mental health professional.

--->Changing medications or altering the dose. If the problem is caused by medications, a change of prescription or alternative therapies may be recommended. If an oral contraceptive is suspected as the culprit in lowering testosterone levels, a different formulation or nonhormonal birth control methods may be prescribed.

--->Addressing underlying medical conditions. Medical problems contributing to low sexual desire may require surgical treatment, such as the removal of painful fibroids or medication.
Vaginal estrogens. In postmenopausal women, vaginal dryness may be treated with vaginal estrogen creams.

--->Testosterone therapy. Although no hormone or drug has been approved by the FDA to treat sexual problems in women, many gynecologists recommend off-label uses of testosterone therapy for women with low sexual desire to restore testosterone to normal (pre-menopausal) levels.

--->In addition, several therapies involving testosterone pills or skin patches specifically designed to treat female sexual problems are currently being studied in hopes of FDA approval in the near future.

Try to cook her healthy foods, regular eating of our healthy fruits and vegetables, try to have a out of town family outing, treat your wife like a princess let her feel that she's special to you.

Then ayaw pud pasagad sa imo kaugalingon let yourself kanang neat ka ug look macho...horny gamay sa imo wife with maching joke...dont took it seriously kana pud maka smile imo wife show her that you love and care her eventhough both of you are busy. kung mahimo mokuha mo ug yaya sa inyo child para di ma stress imo wife in taking care off.

Hopefully TS this can help you a little bit...

[FukenGruven]

pangitaa ang gilok bro.. hehehe

[bingearl]

[QUOTE=Jefr0x;11146848]Common causes for a loss of sexual desire and drive in women include:

-->Interpersonal relationship issues. Partner performance problems, lack of emotional satisfaction with the relationship, the birth of a child, and becoming a caregiver for a loved one can decrease sexual desire.

-->Sociocultural influences. Job stress, peer pressure, and media images of sexuality can negatively influence sexual desire.

--> Low testosterone. Testosterone affects sexual drive in both men and women. Testosterone levels peak in women's mid-20s and then steadily decline until menopause, when they drop dramatically.

-->Medical problems: Mental illnesses such as depression, or medical conditions, such as endometriosis, fibroids, and thyroid disorders, impact a woman's sexual drive both mentally and physically.

-->Medications: Certain antidepressants (including the new generation of SSRIs), blood pressure lowering drugs, and oral contraceptives can lower sexual drive in many ways, such as decreasing available testosterone levels or affecting blood flow.
( Age. Blood levels of androgens fall continuously in women as they age.)

Putting the Desire Back in Women's S3x Lives

Because a loss of sexual desire in women is caused by a combination of physical and psychological factors, it usually requires more than one treatment approach to fix the problem.

"For women, it is much more complex. They're not just complaining of one plumbing problem. "So we have to be more thoughtful in our approaches to treatment."

Once the factors causing low sexual desire have been determined, potential treatment options may include:

--->S3x therapy and/or relationship counseling. "s3x therapy is very effective for individuals and couples, and that is always at the top of my list," says Shifren. Sexual dysfunction usually affects both parties in a relationship and should be discussed together or individually with a mental health professional.

--->Changing medications or altering the dose. If the problem is caused by medications, a change of prescription or alternative therapies may be recommended. If an oral contraceptive is suspected as the culprit in lowering testosterone levels, a different formulation or nonhormonal birth control methods may be prescribed.

--->Addressing underlying medical conditions. Medical problems contributing to low sexual desire may require surgical treatment, such as the removal of painful fibroids or medication.
Vaginal estrogens. In postmenopausal women, vaginal dryness may be treated with vaginal estrogen creams.

--->Testosterone therapy. Although no hormone or drug has been approved by the FDA to treat sexual problems in women, many gynecologists recommend off-label uses of testosterone therapy for women with low sexual desire to restore testosterone to normal (pre-menopausal) levels.

--->In addition, several therapies involving testosterone pills or skin patches specifically designed to treat female sexual problems are currently being studied in hopes of FDA approval in the near future.

Try to cook her healthy foods, regular eating of our healthy fruits and vegetables, try to have a out of town family outing, treat your wife like a princess let her feel that she's special to you.

Then ayaw pud pasagad sa imo kaugalingon let yourself kanang neat ka ug look macho...horny gamay sa imo wife with maching joke...dont took it seriously kana pud maka smile imo wife show her that you love and care her eventhough both of you are busy. kung mahimo mokuha mo ug yaya sa inyo child para di ma stress imo wife in taking care off.

Hopefully TS this can help you a little bit..

thanks bro dako ni og ikatabang i will try some this

[taiciapar01]

hi actually that s a typical problem. i think you should just give each other space and that will ease eveything else. kasi if you keep on being with each other's neck all the time. you'll just get frustrated because she will not give you the attention you need at the moment... and she will also be annoyed because on her side, you could not understand the stress that she's going thru.. but that doesnt mean that she doesnt love you well enough...

[yvonne6]

pilay edad sa imong wife ts? how long ago siya gikan nanganak? daghan jud reason nganong mawad an ug gana ang wife when it comes to this. been there. i was married very young and a virgin. i was only 20 when i had my first born. my marriage lasted 9 years only kay nagbinuang akong exhubby because of this problem and i was partly to be blame but then wala jud siya makahibalo sa tinuod nga reason nganong dili ko ganahan kay at that time, dili sad ko gusto makasakit sa iyang feelings. one of the reasons i hate it because i felt i was taken advantage and was forced to give it to him so that he wont leave me. honestly, mura man to siya ug gadali para siya na jud akong mahimong bana. there was not much time to enjoy the gf/bf thingy. 15 pa lang ko bf na nako siya and he just waited til i turned 18 para dili siya ipa preso sa akong dad. i allowed him to do what he wants because i loved him but the thought of wild churva grosses me out and i would even cry kung naa siyay ihangyo nga ipabuhat. haha. silly me. but then, after mi nagbuwag, i made a 360 degrees change kay ug siya pa, mo fail lang gihapon akong mga relationships if i dont change, so i did. but i hope you wont get to the part nga mag binuang. i think you have to go back to the part ug unsay iyang na inlovan nimo. do things you used to. mag date mo nga kamo lang, without the kids. let her open up. ug early 30's na imong wife, this should be the time nga naa sa peak ang iyang desires for churva. talk to her lang jud bro. hope this helps

[hobie]

kinhanlan gyud mo ug communication and agreement bro.
kami sa ako wife nagkasabot mi na dapat sweet, nay good morning kiss, goodbye kiss etc.
mag date sab mi if mka bakante mi duha from work and household chores.
also, if bakante mi duha and dili mag date we make sure kami duha ang mag bantay sa amo baby and dili ang yaya lang

[lex-libris]

Make yourself desirable...

[behemothharr]

basi kapoy iyang nature of work mao nga in-ana sya.pagilok ray kuwang ana inig manghigda namo.