Affair with a Married man

[leurabelle]

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iv been there ts, not once and m not proud of it ..saonz inluv man jud kono ko dat time, but pasalamat ra jud ko sa mga tawo nga wala ni give up sa pg tambag sa akoa og nakamalay ra sad intawon ang lola!yes sakit as in pero sa sugod ra na,ingna lang imo miga asa man sya: ma angkan or masulongan og asawa? better get out of it NOW! self-respect lng jud...

[zinedineflo8]

ka thrilling...

[rhaia]

just wanna share this with you TS...from Dr. Mark 10 reasons not to date a Married man

There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap:

1. He won't commit to a future with you.

A man who is in a very unhappy or unsatisfying marriage can feel swept away by how wonderful you make him feel. He may even blurt out, "I've never felt this way before and I can see spending the rest of my life with you." This may sound like a commitment to a future with you. It's not. Don't confuse his loving the way you make him feel with his loving you and making a commitment to you.

2. Cheating on his wife tells you how he deals with any situation he doesn't like.

You are evidence of his inability to avoid dealing with unpleasant situations head on. This means that he's likely to resort to some devious behavior with you if the two of you encounter relationship problems.

3. Hiding is exhausting.

Having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you.

4. He's got his cake and is eating it, too.

He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he's missing in his marriage. As appreciative as he sounds, many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds, when she has the least.

5. Can you love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife?

The existence of your relationship with a married man tells you how little he respects his wife by lying to her instead of being a man and telling her that he wants out.

6. Lose his respect and it's over.

Even though he's the one who pursued you. Even though he's the one that made it difficult to say "No." And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level, he's going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Like the Groucho Marx joke, "He may not want to be in a relationship that would have him as a partner."

7. You're not a home wrecker, just an accomplice.

Like it or not, you are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model.

8. You're kidding yourself.

Despite his reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife in an above-board and respectful way -- and not beginning a legitimate relationship with you -- are actions that speak louder than words.

9. Beware the guilt boomerang.

Many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don't be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall.

10. Time is too precious to waste.

Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older? Because it's convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time -- and before you know it, eat up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing. When people who have been involved with married men finally move on, they often regret having wasted the time in a dead-end affair.

[acidbag]

Mao lang ni akong tubag ani nga thread:

Art. 45 of The Family Code of the Philippines states 6 grounds by which the court can annul a marriage.

The grounds for annulment of marriage are:

(1.) Absence of Parental Consent. A marriage was solemnized and one or the other party was eighteen (1 years of age or over but below twenty-one (21) and consent was not given by the parents, guardian or person having substitute parental authority. The Petition of Annulment must be filed within five (5) years of having attained the age twenty-one. However, if the parties freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife after having reached the age of twenty-one (21) a Petition of Annulment can no longer be filed.

(2.) Mental Illness. One or the either party was of unsound mind at the moment of the marriage. But if the parties freely cohabited with each other after he or she came to reason the law prohibits the filing of a Petition.

(3.) Fraud. That the consent of either party was obtained by fraud, unless such party once having knowledge of the fraud freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife. The petition must be filed within five (5) of finding out the facts of the fraud.

(4.) That the consent of either party was obtained by force, intimidation or undue influence. Except when the same has ceased and the party filing the petition freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife. The injured party must file within five (5) years from the point in time the force, intimidation or undue influence disappeared or came to an end.

(5.) One or the other party was physically incapable of consummating the marriage, and such incapacity continues and appears to be incurable. The filing of the Petition of Annulment must be filed within five (5) years after the marriage.

(6.) Either party was at the time of marriage afflicted with a sexually-transmitted-disease (STD) found to be serious and seems to be incurable. This may also constitute fraud. The filing of the Petition of Annulment must be filed within five (5) years after the marriage.

SEPARATION: being separated from your spouse with or without communication is not grounds for annulment. It does not matter how many years you are separated. There is no law that annuls or voids a marriage automatically. Only a judge in a court of law can annul, void or nullify a marriage.

INFIDELITY: is not grounds for annulment.



Bottom line is, its a long shot, but they say love can move mountains daw. Well, if your friend decides to go that route, its going to be a really rough ride to uncertainty.

The heart is resilient and there's no wound that time can't heal.

Sometimes God says No, Yes, Not Now and Wait. Pray for wisdom and guidance.

[rhaia]

If he cheats with you he will surely cheat on you...so spare your youth and find someone who deserves your love, time and effort.

[ladynes]

kini rabang mga laki nga minyo magpaka ulitawo pra lng makapanguyab.
inig ma sakpan na nga minyo, moingon daun nga wa mag ipon sa asawa daun moingon nga buwagan niya iya asawa pra pakaslan ka.
inig masakpan napud nga nag ipon, mo ingon nga nag file nag annulment
pero ang tinuod, wa jd diay toy plano makigbuwag sa asawa..
babaye ray g buang

[GuyOfYourDreams]

PUTLON . miga miga pah!

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

libog naman ang panahon karun, la nako kasabot...basin mao ning gitawag og FWB.....dako kaayu ni nga isyu kung ang single nga babaye mahilambigit og usa ka minyo, tagsa raman pud laki mahilambigit og babaye nga minyo. iya unta gi BI ang laki, nga kung mo aksyun na og panguyab, mag ask dayun og "basin minyo ka sir ha? mapatyan ta sa imong asawa", para diha mahibaw-an dayun ang tubag. Basin pud og moingon ang ikal nga minyo bitaw ko dai, pero wala mn koy uyab....ngek...ipa settle sa na, madala raman na og sabot2x....

[PseudoSurgeon]

Undangi ning bisyoha oii.

[spike412]

ang uban bae kabalo bya na sila minyo ang laki og nagipon pa. Mutilaw man gyud kay hoping makuha ang laki. Ngano magbiga unya hilak2x ra ba gyud dayon og mabuwagan. Walay mailad og dili pud ka magpailad. Sakit pero realidad na sa mga mahilig og kabit kabit.