People Who Are Afraid of Commitment... Wow

[pip]

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no one can say who's mature or not .. what the .. just leave them alone .. i know one of these days they have no option but to go out & enjoy life has to offer .. its different for each & everyone so just be happy for them ..

[edgeowns]

ehheeemmmmm, kana cla,wapana nakakita sa taw na nakatompag sa ila tinapok na T A E...

seriously TS, we all have different reason why we do that and this. Maybe, they are not yet ready. Maybe, they think na dili pa jd ikaw ang para sa ila, na dili pa nila ma imagine ang iya self with you in front of the altat or what, maybe dili pa cla gusto ug bug at na responsibily.

but one thing that i am sure about, when that person finds the one na makaingon na jd xa na "this is it".., magpakaboang jd pd na xa, mogukod, ug buhaton ang tanan para dili malayo sa iya nagustohan. In short, she/he is willing to take all the risk just to have that girl/boy and be with ber/him for the rest of their life.

Man, I hope thats the case for most of these people. LOL! Thatd be AWESOME!

[KASAAC]

...or perhaps a late bloomer, sure enough there are those who aren't afraid but rather don't prioritize such, everyone is different, each of us or those who aren't fond of commitments have reasons - reasons hard to understand or one can relate, whatever it is a spare of respect should get you by bai, cheers

[AkosiCasey]

people are afraid of commitment because of some factors:like they saw how their parents separated, their friends weep over their lovers, being hurt loving someone and they even experienced rejection, being used, played along and begging for love...

very well said. it's not about maturity.

[dangelndisguise]

im not afraid of commitment, na misjudge lng cguro pd ko.

In my opinion lang, people who are afraid of commitment have not found the person for them "yet".. They just say this to dump women/men they think aren't the one. But once they feel that thing called love, they themselves will find a way to be in a relationship.

yes, i agree

ehheeemmmmm, kana cla,wapana nakakita sa taw na nakatompag sa ila tinapok na T A E...

seriously TS, we all have different reason why we do that and this. Maybe, they are not yet ready. Maybe, they think na dili pa jd ikaw ang para sa ila, na dili pa nila ma imagine ang iya self with you in front of the altat or what, maybe dili pa cla gusto ug bug at na responsibily.

but one thing that i am sure about, when that person finds the one na makaingon na jd xa na "this is it".., magpakaboang jd pd na xa, mogukod, ug buhaton ang tanan para dili malayo sa iya nagustohan. In short, she/he is willing to take all the risk just to have that girl/boy and be with ber/him for the rest of their life.

sakto, wla na kaayu koy iadd

[GhoStSheLL]

they're not really afraid..but its more on the level maturity of the person man gud..

i beg to disagree.
it all boils down to making a CHOICE, be it the right one (right according to you but the world doesnt necesarily agree on it, but what matters is what you think because YOU make the decision) or the wrong one.
maturity has NOTHING to do with being a commitment-phobe.

[GhoStSheLL]

In my opinion lang, people who are afraid of commitment have not found the person for them "yet".. They just say this to dump women/men they think aren't the one. But once they feel that thing called love, they themselves will find a way to be in a relationship.

in my opinion lang ha, being in a relationship does NOT equate being commited.

[prettylicious]

they are not really afraid of commitment...they are just not that ready yet...

[GhoStSheLL]

ehheeemmmmm, kana cla,wapana nakakita sa taw na nakatompag sa ila tinapok na T A E...

seriously TS, we all have different reason why we do that and this. Maybe, they are not yet ready. Maybe, they think na dili pa jd ikaw ang para sa ila, na dili pa nila ma imagine ang iya self with you in front of the altat or what, maybe dili pa cla gusto ug bug at na responsibily.

but one thing that i am sure about, when that person finds the one na makaingon na jd xa na "this is it".., magpakaboang jd pd na xa, mogukod, ug buhaton ang tanan para dili malayo sa iya nagustohan. In short, she/he is willing to take all the risk just to have that girl/boy and be with ber/him for the rest of their life.

i said the words "this is it" before (operative word now is "was"), but the whole relationship tumbled, plummeted and trashed.

methinks the world is buried in far too much shit (excuse the language) hence, nothing in this world is truly GENUINE.

its wiser to just keep your heart and mind safe against all the evils in this world

[CUDDLER]

in my opinion lang ha, being in a relationship does NOT equate being commited.

well, if being in a relationship isn't committing for you, that's your choice. but to clarify what i meant was relationship = commitment therefore I did not consider your thoughts on relationships. ^^ peace.