People Who Are Afraid of Commitment... Wow

[edgeowns]

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I dont hate them, but its sad and annoying. Esp. those who doesnt have any real reason to(no hurtful past or experiences in relationships). Wala lang, Ive been hurt A LOT, yet I know the beauty of being with another.

Its like they are afraid before they even tried, based on what? movies? other people's relationships? Everyone is different...

So to all who are afraid, try lang. Its not great sometimes, in fact, it sucks at times, but there are times (more often than not) you can say that life is freakin beautiful...

CE

[GhoStSheLL]

some people are not risk takers at all.
you can't really tell someone what to do.
some were far too hurt from previous relationships to even consider getting out there and possibly get their hearts broken again.
falling in love is a gamble.
staying in love is even more so.
some of us prefer to stay in the dark, where we can curl up cozily inside our little cubbyhole and just forget the rest of the world and concentrate on more important things (or at least we think is)
hate us, get annoyed or judge us even, but one can never really understand the depth or the gravity of what we feel.

[CUDDLER]

In my opinion lang, people who are afraid of commitment have not found the person for them "yet".. They just say this to dump women/men they think aren't the one. But once they feel that thing called love, they themselves will find a way to be in a relationship.

[areukiddingme]

they're not really afraid..but its more on the level maturity of the person man gud..

[loucellmar]

they're not really afraid..but its more on the level maturity of the person man gud..

AGREED! on this

[edgeowns]

In my opinion lang, people who are afraid of commitment have not found the person for them "yet".. They just say this to dump women/men they think aren't the one. But once they feel that thing called love, they themselves will find a way to be in a relationship.

Is this true?

And yes love is a gamble, I guess a lot are lucky/unlucky in it.

Anyone who said its better to love and lost than to never love again is an idiot IMO. lol(now Im giving them more reason to be afraid of commitment lol).

[nakaigo]

they're not really afraid..but its more on the level maturity of the person man gud..

second the motion...
simple and basic, they are yet not ready

[Cory1986]

That means I'm immature oh well, its better safe than sorry

[yaj.em]

ehheeemmmmm, kana cla,wapana nakakita sa taw na nakatompag sa ila tinapok na T A E...

seriously TS, we all have different reason why we do that and this. Maybe, they are not yet ready. Maybe, they think na dili pa jd ikaw ang para sa ila, na dili pa nila ma imagine ang iya self with you in front of the altat or what, maybe dili pa cla gusto ug bug at na responsibily.

but one thing that i am sure about, when that person finds the one na makaingon na jd xa na "this is it".., magpakaboang jd pd na xa, mogukod, ug buhaton ang tanan para dili malayo sa iya nagustohan. In short, she/he is willing to take all the risk just to have that girl/boy and be with ber/him for the rest of their life.

[azaleayve]

people are afraid of commitment because of some factors:like they saw how their parents separated, their friends weep over their lovers, being hurt loving someone and they even experienced rejection, being used, played along and begging for love...