ust need your unsolicited advises and opinions..

[azaleayve]

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I posted before if i did the right thing of moving away from him, Sad to say, we were okay napud atu... we had a No strings attached relationship na on and off...

here is the story..


We came to a point that one month no communication because some sort of misunderstanding, until such time that I realized i still love this man and to keep him a little longer, last week, i earned confidence and bought a long-stemmed white rose to be delivered on his workplace. Unfortunately, wala siya so i earned more guts to drop at his house to talk to him and give the flower. It's a now or never move. Then we agreed on things and got the relationship back.

Since then, i've been with him and his college barkadas and he was again so nice and attentive, that i was even called by his friends as his gf.. since we are not into that relationship, flattered jud ku deep inside. I thought okay na when...

He posted on his wall stating about his feelings for someone. I knew it wasn't for me the moment i read it. But people who saw us together concluded it was me. I asked him about it and was answered jokingly. Suddenly, out of the blue, he didnt text me and not even answering my calls. nabalaka ku oie nganu tu nga status.

So yesterday 08.26.11, i called him up and asked to meet him for dinner. He told me the truth that he has a gf na the moment he posted the status. And it so happened that his gf is his bestfriend nga iya gipanguyaban sukad pagcollege nila. Nya kay kuno nagbulag nmn si girl with her recent, iya gi grab ang opportunity. Mao tu sila na.. Sakit siya coz, the girl knew all along about us, feeling naku i was backstabbed and being played all along..

The self pity overwhelmed me and the pain of losing the person i've been fighting for. Plus if mahibaw-an na sa tanan nga dili tu aku, ang kaulaw man lng naku og kakapoie tubag sa pangutana nganu nahitabo nga dili aku...to think we've been having that affair since last year.

What made me wonder was, the girl's fb status is still in a relationship with his bf(kadtung gibuwagan kuno), then bag-o pa gali nagpost og recent pix nila that even the prof pic kay sila pa duha.

What you think about it

I intended it nga pamub-an pero d mu makasabot sa situtaion if that's so...kuwang2 pa gali ni kung buot hunahunaon..heheheh...
just needed your unsolicited advises and opinions..

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Forget about him. You're yearning for someone not worth it. Wake up, it was all "no strings attached" so why on earth do you expect him to take you seriously? You were never "official" in the first place.

Sorry but you do not have any right over him. He doesn't owe you anything. You cannot say someone backstabbed you or whatsoever because there was never you and him.

Regarding the other girl, if the guy is so crazy about her isn't it enough for you to take a step backwards and save yourself? Whatever kind of relationship he has with her (since the stats on FB as you checked was kind of confusing) doesn't concern you. It's theirs, maybe they are also playing the "no strings attached" then and it's just that your guy is treating her as his gf.

Just save yourself, move forward and don't ever turn back. It's not worth it. He's just not into you. If he was, you won't have something like this posted here.

Prove him that you're smarter than he thought you were. Don't let anyone play on your emotions. Don't blame anyone because you wanted it. You gave your consent. Now deal with it and live a better life.

[kimleeKINO_choi]

Basin ang dating sa imong exBF sis kai uyab sila sa bestfriend niya BUT his bestfriend still considered her exBF as her current relationship.
Try to ask him nalang. Tanan mahibaw an sa pg storya dba?hehe

[azaleayve]

Basin ang dating sa imong exBF sis kai uyab sila sa bestfriend niya BUT his bestfriend still considered her exBF as her current relationship.
Try to ask him nalang. Tanan mahibaw an sa pg storya dba?hehe

dili man jud naku siya ex BF coz we had a no-strings attached relationship man,dating, doing what the usual lovers do and all... and we talked already last night, mag-on na sila officially since wednesday...

[egeneveve]

ayaw na nya oi.. tawn... daghan pang laki sa kalibutan dili lng xa... just wish them a happy life.. and then move on.. u dont dserve somebdy like him.... heed our advice.

[yaj.em]

TS, it's ok. Tubaga lang tanan pangutana sa tanan na mangutana nimo... Dili mn na malikayan kay lahi mn ila pgtuoo sa inyo gibuhat. Sayop mn jd, labaw na tanan u kaila ng think na there's something between you and him, when the truth is wala jd, ang kbaw ka ana.

I've tried no-strings-attached relationship, ang nakalahi lang sa amo, if naa ang iya mga kauban, act lang jd mi as friend lang, though naa ngduda na uyab PA MI, kay x mn nku xa. sa ing ana na klase na relayon gd, dapat naa limitation. So, dawata na lng na TS... natural ra na masakitan ka, pero mawala ra na... sagdii nalng to ang guy kay dili mn jd to imo yabz...OKiez

[kimleeKINO_choi]

dili man jud naku siya ex BF coz we had a no-strings attached relationship man,dating, doing what the usual lovers do and all... and we talked already last night, mag-on na sila officially since wednesday...

huh? u mean u fell for someone who you're not committed to? OMG..lisod jud na sis.
Ayaw na niya oie...dali ra masulti sah? I know pero dapat layu na niya sis..coZ if not..u are just digging ur own grave.
How long did ur No-Strings-Attached relationship last?

[denzelwarch]

alam mo yung ikaw ang nauna pero ang labas ikaw pa ang kabit!? im sorry i have to be honest i find this one sided type of "giving love" or whatsoever. obviously the guy is just giving in to what he can get, benefits kungbaga and not taking accountable anything kasi nga so called no string attached kayo. maxado lang ata marami ka nang investments kanya na it is hard to let go even back ung kayo pa. I felt pressured ka sa kung what other people will say than what you are fighting for. its not bad to admit you have weaknesses in life. but you got to assert urself and move on. yes, like they say, leave him alone instead. it is the best thing you can do right now.

[Cory1986]

gurl, he is playing with u! murag reserve ra jd ka ai! maau ipabarang

[farmboy]

here is my take on your situation:

they guy does not love you!

i am sorry to be blunt with that up front, but there is no baby talk with issues like this. that he himself admitted it to you, you are in for more pain and hurts if you continue with such a relationship. if you do, he will play with your emotions, and he wont even care if you cry rivers of damn salty tears.

accept fate. he is not the one worthy of you single stemmed white rose!