i need your advice..i have a stepmom.

[LeeLeePot]

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tell them how you feel over a nice family dinner aron makasabot sila sa imong gibati...

[AMD_infinium05]

ako'y support nimo christine

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i have a broken family since pag 4 yrs old lang naku. im with my dad and he had many relationships with other girls ero naa na jud xai na pili an. pag 16 yrs old i had my first half sister..ang naka apan lang... dli na kaayu ku ganahan sa akung "stepmom".unlike before na sweet kaayu siya naku.karun nga naa na siyay iyang anak jud nawala jud. after a year i had another half sister na pud. 3 na mi and it breaks my heart nga wala na kaayu attention akung dad naku..and it's getting really unfair kay whenever naa kui pangayu on niya masuko siya pero kung akung stepmom naai pangayu on niya, dli siya masuko...it's really different back when kami rang duha kay grabe kaayu mi ka close.. karun dli na kaayu... maka ingun na lang gani ku nga mas maayu pa nga mag puyo na lang kug aku just to get away from them kay dili na jud madala ang kasakit usahay.. pero i can't kay minor pa man ku. HEELP..what should i do?

@christinetinetineo6, don't get jealous of your SISTERS. No matter what you think or do with them, they are your family. Think of the positive side, erase all those negative sides, because, that could pull your father down and away from you. Always remember na lain na imong life karon - Ang tanan mausab jud and we could not do about it, because, that's part of the Life Cycle. Someday, when they will become like your age now, ing-ana sad na ilang ma-feel. OK? OK.., let's set two things side by side arun masabtan nimo ang life nato tagsa-tagsa. Like a Cassette Tape, SIDE A, (think of yesterday) Imagine all the happiest moments you and your dad together, diba walay susama sa kalipay maski uyab pa na kay sa kalipay you brought by your Dad, right? SIDE B, (think of the future) Imagine if someday kalit lang mobiya ang imong dad, like, i mean, kuhaon siya ni Lord diha nimo, do you think na mauli pa ang tanan? do you think nga mobalik pa siya diha nimo after sa tanan? NO, right? Now, which side would you consider would be the happiest moment? And this should be made used samtang naa pa siya sa imo tupad. Spend all happiest day long with him, esp. sa imong mga sisters. Think of "YOU are their Elder sister". There are times (if) nga kung naa ka problema someday makatabang ra sad na sila nimo once you guys become mature ug nana iya iya family puhon (kamo kamo ra sad ang mag-tinabangay!) Think of yourself also na MAGUWANG ka nila, so, it is suppose to be na "YOU should act like their Elder/second mother" nga mo guide sad nila just learn the good things from within. For your Stepmom, treat her like you second mother and learn to love her like your mother - nindot kaau ang family kung completo ug malipayon ang tanan. RIGHT?

Have you familiar with Letty Cottin Pogrebin's sayings, (hmmmm, hehehe not sure! because I'm the one who only knows it, hehehe...) She told from her famous sayings that,
"The family endures because it offers the truth of mortality and immortality within the same group. The family endures because, better than the commune, kibbutz, or classroom, it seems to individualize and socialize its children, to make us feel at the same time unique and yet joined to all humanity, accepted as is and yet challenged to grow, loved unconditionally and yet propelled by greater expectations. Only in the family can so many extremes be reconciled and synthesized. Only in the family do we have a lifetime in which to do it." - Hope that would makes you inspired and sense, christinetinetineo6.


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[Deadstring67]

so complicated..pakig talk sa imo dad..

[cassiopeia]

sauna akong stepmom dli gnahan nako. hahaha pero karun kai close mi then mas motherly pa xa nako kysa sa akong own mom. imagina mas nka bantay pa siya una nga buntis ko. wahahaha

[jumper_stage]

TS pareha lage tag kagahapon ai, ari nalang tipon naku..ehehehe

..iampo nalang na u stepmom ts nga mabuotan !

[nilbud]

sagdi na ingna bahala na c batman nin u hehe

[cassiopeia]

maoy nanay sign ses nga kinahanglan nka manignkamot kai aron ug mag kinaunsa man gne at least di ka mag lisod.

[kharldroid]

live you're life to the fullest and dont stop dreaming because we all deserve a happy life

[nilbud]

just focus your ambitions and a lot of prayers....always be positive

mao gyud sagdi na cla hehehe