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    death in the family is never easy..but in our case...my father in law died, my wifey is an only child and i know my wifey never really expresses how she feels all the time, she kinda expects that i know how she feels, which honestly is never easy...when her dad died, i saw how hard she tried to stay strong but she bursted to tears when her mom told her that daddy was gone....
    i was there the whole time and i know deep down she's still not okay...even if she tries to be okay...

    what else could i possibly do to make her feel "okay" na jud?

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    just tell her that daddy is in good hands...and simply went back to the Father, later on (in the future) they will see each other...

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    let her know and make her feel that you are always at her side.probably do the home chores for awhile instead of her.those little things would be good.unya di sa ta pabadlong.condolence bro

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    nothing...just be there...........

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    thanks for the advises guys....i never fail to tell her that i'm here for her...i appreciate your advices....

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    Quote Originally Posted by FukenGruven View Post
    thanks for the advises guys....i never fail to tell her that i'm here for her...i appreciate your advices....
    just keep what your doing bai ! i know what she feels i lost my parents in same year. its not easy jud it will take time to heal emotional support.

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    nothing will ever be the same and everything will never be "okay" really..
    basin attached kaayo siya sa iyang papa. lisod giud kaau na.. i know her pain..
    the pain will never go away but she will learn to live with it and hopefully, become a better person

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    @TS: i am an only child. my parents died within days of each other. that was years ago. I AM STILL SUFFERING FROM THE GRIEF AND SORROW UNTIL NOW!

    i thought i was strong, but how wrong i am.

    there are just no words to describe the pain.

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    My condolence ts!
    My father died when I was 8 but adtung panahuna, murag wala ra nako. Karon nga adult nako, diha ra nako na baw sa impact jd.I was the only daughter and pung pa sa akong mama nga pinangayu daw ko ni papa kay Lord! its been 18 years and I cant get over his death jd ITs so hard ts! basta, be there sa imong wife. console her all the time..

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    my mom died last year i thot end of the world na nako kai cya ra ako ka estoryahan sa tanan nakong kasakit ug kalipay ning kalibutana the day she died perting kahugno sa akong kalibutan wa ko kabaw ug asa nako paingon kai 2 rami ka igsuon nya dli kaayu me close sa ako sister that time then d sab ko jud ko close sa akong papa si mama ra tanan para nako ang nihatag ug pag panga kanako sakit kaau para nako nga nawala cya pero karon medyu okey nako tho naa gihapon mga moments nga dko kalikayan nga mu agas jud akong luha maghandum niya wa kaau ko ni dwell sa akong gibating kasakit knowing nga kitang tanan mamatay ra nauna lang to cla kai dman pwede nga magdungan tang tanan pangamatay kai wai mohipos...murag cya ra jud sa iyang kaugalingon ang makapahupay sab sa kasakit nga iyang gibati karon sir TS
    Last edited by neurain; 07-24-2011 at 11:13 PM.

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