My Girlfriend is dealing with her male friend.. Is their any boundary??

[reginakrys]

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mao pd lage.. im not sure if kaybaw na ang guy about nako... wala man pud ni talk akong girl about nako kay wala man pud daw ni ask ang guy...

ngex. common sense naman unta na oi.. claro anang nag ibid2x ang lalake niya, she should set boundaries kay naa naman cyay uyab.. don't blame the guy kay wala cya kaybw..

[mitch_a888]

Don't get jealous and don't get insecure. Why not join them instead? I mean, if it's a close friend, then I don't see anything wrong with mere invitations. If they're not doing anything wrong naman and you see your girl as a decent person, then it's just pure friendship.

I can relate to your girlfriend. But in my case, it has never been an issue with my bf before having male friends. We used to fetch my male friend pa in a certain place, then ihatod mi sakong bf sa Greenbelt para didto mi mag-coffee. Then that's it. Or, my male friend will come here sa Ayala so we can have dinner or I'll accompany him if he'll buy something at BHS. No big deal.

If I were you, ask your gf na magjoin ka next time so you'll get to know her friends. =)

[THE KID]

asa mana ng work ang laki partadtu.a...." layu.an mo ang gf ko"......

[tonzki]

hmm.. i think any tarong girlfriend would at least avoid getting into circumstances that will possibly make you jealous.. i mean, initiative nalang unta ba.. samot pa jud nga gisultian na nimo nga maselos ka, padayon ra gihapon..

i did not mention to her na dli na cya pwede magkita ana na guy..(mao unta na ako gnahan ma happen). but mura man gud mahulog ako kontra bida kay ni bawal ko sa akong gf na makig kita sa iya frend dba??...yah she knows already na mag selos ko but still magkita man cla...

[reginakrys]

i did not mention to her na dli na cya pwede magkita ana na guy..(mao unta na ako gnahan ma happen). but mura man gud mahulog ako kontra bida kay ni bawal ko sa akong gf na makig kita sa iya frend dba??...yah she knows already na mag selos ko but still magkita man cla...

i never said bawalan nimo cya makigkita.. the initiative should come from her, if she really does value your relationship.. yes, that's my point.. she already knows nga it makes you jealous, yet she continues on doing it..

[tonzki]

ngex. common sense naman unta na oi.. claro anang nag ibid2x ang lalake niya, she should set boundaries kay naa naman cyay uyab.. don't blame the guy kay wala cya kaybw..

For the guy pud...i think maklaro man sa facebook na naa na uyab ako gf....but still cge man invites e post pajud sa wall na makita nako.... if kamu kay den kaybaw mu naa na uyab ang gurl maka buhat mu ana??

[iphreetah]

See TS, naa ra man diay na., she didn't even tell the guy of your existence, nga naa siyay uyab.. so what does that mean..?? she is making herself available, maong sige pud ug ibid2x ang guy..

mao pd lage.. im not sure if kaybaw na ang guy about nako... wala man pud ni talk akong girl about nako kay wala man pud daw ni ask ang guy...

[phattchoi]

just like i said before "ang mu sagol, buak bagul-bagul"

[mitch_a888]

Ayha na pagduda pag ikaw na ang bawalan sa imong gf na hilabtan nimo iyang mga lakaw. =)

[reginakrys]

For the guy pud...i think maklaro man sa facebook na naa na uyab ako gf....but still cge man invites e post pajud sa wall na makita nako.... if kamu kay den kaybaw mu naa na uyab ang gurl maka buhat mu ana??

hmm.. basin ga assume ra pud ang guy nga same ra mog status.. nga "friend" ra ka nga "lingaw kakuyog"