How do you control jealousy?

[EightEqualsD]

trust and communication

[mizie]

little jealous is normal bt f extreme na gyd kana lisod na kaau labi na wlai gibuhat na dautan u partner.. trust lng gyd TS... mau ra gyd na... f there r scenarios na magselos ka gyd ayaw gyd paabta na magkalalis mo.. that will push her away from u... f d gyd malikayan or dili gyd nimu macontrol calm ang approach lng... talk to her calmly and dala lambing.. then think lng gyd na love ka nya ang trust her lng gyd....

[Monmyhand]

little jealous is normal bt f extreme na gyd kana lisod na kaau labi na wlai gibuhat na dautan u partner.. trust lng gyd TS... mau ra gyd na... f there r scenarios na magselos ka gyd ayaw gyd paabta na magkalalis mo.. that will push her away from u... f d gyd malikayan or dili gyd nimu macontrol calm ang approach lng... talk to her calmly and dala lambing.. then think lng gyd na love ka nya ang trust her lng gyd....

how wud u treat if ur bf is a "little" jealous?

[mizie]

little jealous kay magsugod gyd na kanang sunggog2x... i can differentiate gyd sa mood sa aqng BF f nagselos gyd xa ug maau or kanang sunggog2x lng na dala selos gamai na diay.. f that happened ako pd xang balihon ug sunggog.. den storyahan gyd na nq xa f how much i love him.. and assurance from me... den apilan ug lambing TS.. hehe TRUST LNG GYD......

[walker]

i actually believe that there should be a healthy amount of jealousy in every marriage or relationship.
the challenge is not to go to the EXTREME kind of jealousy.
i have an aunt who separated from his husband coz extreme ra kaayo siya magselos. as in it started out cute during the earlier parts of the marriage but it grew to a point na one time, nag-away sila ug bongga coz my aunt kay ni peace be with you ug laki during mass. -> EXTREME.

peace be with you ra during misa? grabeha pud ana..

ako woman kay gikissan ug lain in front of.. i swear i could have killed the man..it was supposed to be a business meeting, beso-beso wud have been understandable pero ang gago planted an 11 second kiss on my woman's cheek.. honest to God.. i was that close to touching him real bad.

[bUrbY_dUll]

one way to control is i believe is to trust..

[walker]

one way to control is i believe is to trust..

that is bordering on being cliche maam.. easier said than done but we have to learn for that is the one weapon against utterly useless jealousy..

[maran]

I really love my girl. .. as in love gyud nako sya. Pero dili man sayon i control nga mag selos ko usahay gud. So it often results in big fights nga totally waste of emotions lang gyud.. nasty things being exchanged.. which we say in anger and do not mean anything at all.

Is this feeling just one way? I need help.. yes i admit that. Can I control and suppress this by my myself alone?

How can girls help their guys? I am sure this is easier if the girls realize that selos is a two edged sword..

duna ga advice nko a everytime mag selos ka or even nasuko ka, isuwat ra daw sa papel, hangtod mawala imo kalagot then butangi ug address para asa unya ilabay sa basurahan, mura bag imo e mail sa iyaha, as in effective kaayo, na release na imo emotion didto, so dili nka mo approach niya na ga selos,effective nko try nmo kung maayo bah, goodluck

[ever101]

use the power calm bro...

[unDisclosed]

napunitan ko ra sad ni sa web...this is not my idea ha..gusto lang ko mo share:

Jealousy is usually a by-product of insecurity and low self-esteem. Sometimes it's a deep- rooted fear of abandonment that someone will leave you, or withdraw their love or attention from you because you're "not good enough"--if so, you need to learn that other people's behavior and lives are not a reflection on you. Confident people know that even when they are rejected or ridiculed, it's not always because they failed; sometimes people are just short-sighted. And even if they do fail, it doesn't reduce their worth; it simply means they need to learn something new.