little things we fight about with our GF/BF

[kemalzeppy]

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Because its always abt you you you. Ask her how her day went or update her with the thing she has been talking abt lately. Ask her opinion on this and that. Make her feel involved. What's the thing she's into, try getting to know abt that. Engage her into conversations or stuff that you both agree on. Rather than just your likes, wants & whereabouts. Women are like weather, very unpredictable & u have to stretch your patience. Be more malambing.

I do think about her, but SHE FOCUSES ON MY LITTLE MISTake, like forgetting to tell the cashier "Coke with no ice" or the most irritatiing for me , "Not carrying her bag" it irks me alot. Sometime I can be a bit selfish but it feels like she is pressuring me. not to mention how she grabs my phone everytime it rings, GrrRRrrr, I still love my Girlfriend but I can't take this evrey day.

[ulyssa_marie]

I do think about her, but SHE FOCUSES ON MY LITTLE MISTake, like forgetting to tell the cashier "Coke with no ice" or the most irritatiing for me , "Not carrying her bag" it irks me alot. Sometime I can be a bit selfish but it feels like she is pressuring me. not to mention how she grabs my phone everytime it rings, GrrRRrrr, I still love my Girlfriend but I can't take this evrey day.

If that's the case,

I suggest you sit down with her, and ask her to listen to you for just 10mins. Explain what you feel and how her actions are affecting you.

Once you're done with your side, ask her what's wrong. Is it that she is unhappy with you, or does not trust you? Or is it her own personal insecurities that are surfacing and affecting the relationship.

Once you hear her side, ask "so what do we do to solve this?" ... it seems that you're just about to spill over, ur right at your brink. before you snap... it's best to talk to her calmly.

Hope things get better TS

[MayaHotCake]

mag away me if motext iyang EX nya samoook kau!.ggrrrrr...

[sushikandi]

I do think about her, but SHE FOCUSES ON MY LITTLE MISTake, like forgetting to tell the cashier "Coke with no ice" or the most irritatiing for me , "Not carrying her bag" it irks me alot. Sometime I can be a bit selfish but it feels like she is pressuring me. not to mention how she grabs my phone everytime it rings, GrrRRrrr, I still love my Girlfriend but I can't take this evrey day.

If you know your girlfriend very well there shouldn't be an excuse of forgetting what her preferences are, its automatic. Personally I don't like seeing guys carrying women's purse. Seriously, whats with that? Purse are made for women to carry unless she is having a hard time with it. You guys are young and the immaturity tends to overwhelm your decisions and actions. Sit down with her and have a talk, tell her "babe, I love you... Im sorry for being a jerk sometimes. Give me a little time to absorb what you want and need because these are new to me. I try to be your best boyfriend there is"

If you dont like your girlfriend grabbing your phone when it rings. Have it on silent-vibrate and discreetly look at your fone. Both of you are still young and there are alot room for adjustment. Good luck!

[monrose29]

both of you are still young.. daghan pamo agi-an that kind of away2x di pa na mao.... and i also think if ka age lang nimo pod nimo imon gf need gyud na og attention og lambing.. while you kasabot ra ko about cars and gadgets and etc..same on the girly side pod like make up kit, sandals, bags, eye liner and all..

both of you makasabot nga deli lang ang inyong relationship inyong taga-an og oras or deli pod e baliwala lang ninyo nga mag uyab mo but imo attention na-a gihapon sa lain butang like cars and lain things..it should be balance and dapat imo sya pasabton about that..

kanang mga gagmay nga sayop lambing nalang na usahay ma miss interpret lang nato labi na occupied atong mind sa lain butang.....

[LeeLeePot]

your girl's got some personal issues. you better ask her. i think she's insecure or jealous or paranoid. and of course, she wouldn't be like that unless she sees or hears something negative about you and she is just trying to catch you in the act of doing it. if she won't spill it out, just tell her everyday that she's beautiful or if she's already nagging, scream at the top of your lungs to shut up or else you'll kiss her. dba mahilom na! heheheh..

[Genocide]

Number one awayan?

About religion . haha!

[valleoliver]

Let her feel that she is part of your life.

[kemalzeppy]

your girl's got some personal issues. you better ask her. i think she's insecure or jealous or paranoid. and of course, she wouldn't be like that unless she sees or hears something negative about you and she is just trying to catch you in the act of doing it. if she won't spill it out, just tell her everyday that she's beautiful or if she's already nagging, scream at the top of your lungs to shut up or else you'll kiss her. dba mahilom na! heheheh..

You are so right bro, it's like she is waiting for me to make a mistake or something, I made a mistake once, she never trusted me again and everytime I say something to her I have to prove that what I say is true.

And everytime we are together it feels like I'm competing with her expectations, and I'm barely keeping up with her. just so frustrating on my part/

@all: thanks for your words mga bro/sis