Is it ok na imong gf/ASAWA naka suway na og one night stand?

[JoyCeeMarie08]

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depende ra kung lifestyle ba jd nia or kaisa lng na-happen. i also need to know the story behind it pra mkasabot ko..
(nganong motubag man ko ani nga babae man ko? hehe)

[Sanosuke]

Yes, you're right, it's just a matter of preference ra mn.. If you love someone, dli mn cguro na mu matter ang past. If your wife would tell you na she experienced it na? How would you react? What would you feel? Bulagan nimo cya?

Straight to the point... Dili ko mopakasal ug ing ana nga kind of girl... choosy man gud ko. hehehe. Mao na before jud mag minyo, inyong sutaon unsa ang each other's personality.

Of course, that's why I married that girl.

[ei]

Straight to the point... Dili ko mopakasal ug ing ana nga kind of girl... choosy man gud ko. hehehe. Mao na before jud mag minyo, inyong sutaon unsa ang each other's personality.

Of course, that's why I married that girl.

You haven't answered my question.

Let's just say HYPOTHETICALLY, your wife (after you got married) would tell you that she has experienced one night stand once or twice before. What would you do? How would you react? Bulagan nimo imong wife

[Sanosuke]

^^ Hypothetically speaking, it's impossible nga makig minyo ko ug girl nga dili nako e investigate ang iyang past. Makig minyo diay ka nga rush lang, without being prudent about it? Sa karong time, if naa langka money, sayon ra magpa annul. Pero dili nana mapapas ang imong previous marriage sa mata sa tao, sa records sa NSO, and especially sa mata sa Ginoo.

You are asking me a question nga it is unthinkable or improbable nga ma happen. Same as if I would ask you a question,..

"If your eldest son have *** with you and you get pregnant, will you keep your baby or abort it?"

Of course, you don't want to answer it because at the start, it's impossible nga maka arrive ka sa certain situation.

Zero Tolerance ang akong principle.

But assuming nga I was stupid nga diretso langko ni dive2x without knowing whats at the bottom. Then later I found out nga frequent ONstander cia, or worse, once a discreet prostitute. Probably, naay chance nga dili nako siya buwagan. But bisan kinsa pa nga lalaki imong pangutan on, mag hinay2x mawala imong respect.

After a loss in respect, domino effect nana siya. Labi na if ang babae kay dili good wife. Anything can happen under the sun.

Still, it depends on the preference of a person, or the husband, for that matter. Ang uban, sayon ra mosulti nga okay ra nila, pampataas sa number of post. Pero deep inside, a big no jud na sila.

[ei]

^^ Hypothetically speaking, it's impossible nga makig minyo ko ug girl nga dili nako e investigate ang iyang past. Makig minyo diay ka nga rush lang, without being prudent about it? Sa karong time, if naa langka money, sayon ra magpa annul. Pero dili nana mapapas ang imong previous marriage sa mata sa tao, sa records sa NSO, and especially sa mata sa Ginoo.

You are asking me a question nga it is unthinkable or improbable nga ma happen. Same as if I would ask you a question,..

"If your eldest son have *** with you and you get pregnant, will you keep your baby or abort it?"

Of course, you don't want to answer it because at the start, it's impossible nga maka arrive ka sa certain situation.

Zero Tolerance ang akong principle.

But assuming nga I was stupid nga diretso langko ni dive2x without knowing whats at the bottom. Then later I found out nga frequent ONstander cia, or worse, once a discreet prostitute. Probably, naay chance nga dili nako siya buwagan. But bisan kinsa pa nga lalaki imong pangutan on, mag hinay2x mawala imong respect.

After a loss in respect, domino effect nana siya. Labi na if ang babae kay dili good wife. Anything can happen under the sun.

Still, it depends on the preference of a person, or the husband, for that matter. Ang uban, sayon ra mosulti nga okay ra nila, pampataas sa number of post. Pero deep inside, a big no jud na sila.

I see.. I guess imoha sad na... Different strokes for different folks.

I guess ako kay open minded lng ko when it comes to that. It depends sad kung unsa na environment imong gidagk-an.. Although maka ingon gihapon ko na my parents are quite conservative and traditional, so I grew up in a conservative family. I also went to a Catholic school all throughout my life. Pero, I guess I have different personal views on the matter.

Kung ana diay views sa mga tao, I guess maka ingon sad ko na I'm very lucky to have met my match too --- a loving partner who is also open-minded like me na dli mu judge nko sa akong past. I didn't know it was difficult to find na ana na person.

[Sanosuke]

^^ But nonetheless, I agree on what you posted earlier. It's really fun and ejoyable to have s3x, I would lie to myself if I say no... But in the real world, it's a little complex once you engage into the situation.

[jboctot]

If you love someone, dli mn cguro na mu matter ang past.

[ei]

^^ But nonetheless, I agree on what you posted earlier. It's really fun and ejoyable to have s3x, I would lie to myself if I say no... But in the real world, it's a little complex once you engage into the situation.

But why make it sooo complex?

For many years, the topic on s3x has been considered a taboo. Even until now, it still is. The Catholic Church cringes when hearing about RH bill!

While Filipinos are becoming more open to this discussion, there is still discrimination towards women who are open about s**. This has been evident in this thread, where people would generally not accept women who engage in such acts.

[Sanosuke]

Dili nalang ta mo go beyond sa topic sa thread sis, kay broad na kaayo if mo expand ta, especially about sa morality and ***.

Read the previous posts, and basin naa didto ang answers nga imo ge ask.

[FukenGruven]

as long as it remains in the past...i may not be the first but i surely would like to be the last