imong uyab naka.sala nimo on infidelity grounds

[lodyl]

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i don't think that there's a "diretso cya pangita ug lain".. If you enter into a relationship man gud (a new relationship for that matter), mag invest mn jud ka ana ug feelings, dli bya na dali na mag invest ug feelings.. Alangan mn sad kalit lng kag ma in love. It's a gradual process --- getting to know each other, spending more time with each other. It's probably more like while you were growing apart, cla nagkaduol pud atong iyang ka iring-iring. Take note na lahi lahi man gud tag tolerance levels.. so, kung ang lain mas dugay maka agwanta ug relationship na dli cya happy, ang lain dali ra mu give up. Ang ending mas paspas cguro ka niya ilisan. Sometimes man gud, ang uban tao dli ka realize na they are also responsible sa person they have a relationship with.

Below is an excerpt taken from the book, The Little Prince:

"To me, you are still nothing more than a little
boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need
of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you, I am nothing more
than a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, then we
shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I
shall be unique in all the world. . . ”

"...But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed. You are responsible for your rose. . . ”

But the partner should have said something. Dili baya tawn ta mananagna kung unsa na iyahang gibati diha... or kung naa something naka pa bother niya, makig chika unta sya, dili kaayo modiretso lang ug labang then ang jejemon nga gilabangan kay mao na hinuon mag samok2x nimo di ba...

[ei]

But the partner should have said something. Dili baya tawn ta mananagna kung unsa na iyahang gibati diha... or kung naa something naka pa bother niya, makig chika unta sya, dili kaayo modiretso lang ug labang then ang jejemon nga gilabangan kay mao na hinuon mag samok2x nimo di ba...

if ana na wla jud cya ni storya nimo or wla ka ka feel na something is wrong with the relationship. then you have a bigger problem other than the infidelity grounds. It only shows that you lack one of the basic foundations of a good relationship and that is COMMUNICATION.

try to ask yourself why wla cya ni communicate nimo.. Sometimes, lisod mn gud ni cya storyaan. But our actions speak louder than words. So, ikaw, as the partner would try to read between the lines. Sometimes mag salig ta kung unsa naa in front of us or we get so overwhelmed by our feelings of love that we fail to identify na naa diay problema.

It's not easy to read between the lines or cge ra rationalize every time something is wrong. Mura sad tag paranoid ana! Mao nang naay gitawag na TRUST sa relationship.

Sometimes, kung mahitabo jud na na naay lain imo partner, try to assess if ma work out pa nimo inyu relationship and if it's worthwhile to work it out. Kung dli, then it's time to move on.

[pablingz]

sa hunahuna or sa storya or worst sa actual, unsay imong buhaton?

in-ani na scenario buwag jud na diretso, wala nay daghan pa nga storya. ayaw na pagduha-duha ug huna huna, mga taw nga in-ana dili angayan nga tarongon...

[lodyl]

if ana na wla jud cya ni storya nimo or wla ka ka feel na something is wrong with the relationship. then you have a bigger problem other than the infidelity grounds. It only shows that you lack one of the basic foundations of a good relationship and that is COMMUNICATION.

try to ask yourself why wla cya ni communicate nimo.. Sometimes, lisod mn gud ni cya storyaan. But our actions speak louder than words. So, ikaw, as the partner would try to read between the lines. Sometimes mag salig ta kung unsa naa in front of us or we get so overwhelmed by our feelings of love that we fail to identify na naa diay problema.

It's not easy to read between the lines or cge ra rationalize every time something is wrong. Mura sad tag paranoid ana! Mao nang naay gitawag na TRUST sa relationship.

Sometimes, kung mahitabo jud na na naay lain imo partner, try to assess if ma work out pa nimo inyu relationship and if it's worthwhile to work it out. Kung dli, then it's time to move on.

sakto jud bro... naputol jud ang communication namo ato nga time... ang nakapait lang gud, kay pwede baya mag buwag mutually ba in good terms... ang nakapait, kay si Jejemon (3rd party), gi tag ko sa pics nila nga nag chulaakay..... I mean, unsa man ang pasabot ana........ unya pag ana nako sa akoang partner nga sakit kaayo to, niadto sya sa amoa kay "WALA" ra daw to.... toinks... mura naman hinuon ko ug bogo ani....

[ei]

sakto jud bro... naputol jud ang communication namo ato nga time... ang nakapait lang gud, kay pwede baya mag buwag mutually ba in good terms... ang nakapait, kay si Jejemon (3rd party), gi tag ko sa pics nila nga nag chulaakay..... I mean, unsa man ang pasabot ana........ unya pag ana nako sa akoang partner nga sakit kaayo to, niadto sya sa amoa kay "WALA" ra daw to.... toinks... mura naman hinuon ko ug bogo ani....

uy, malain ta.. dli ko bro ha.. sis ko.. hehe

anyways, we can't really blame others to be irresponsible and immature at times. Kung kinsa man gani tong nag tag nimo ato na photo, it only shows what kind of person they are. I suggest na dli nlng na nimo patulan ang mga ana na tao kay wla na clay kwenta. sakit gud kung sakit but try to think that you're better off than them. Don't stoop down their level!

If mu ana imong partner na "wla ra to" when you confronted him about the photo, then nalipong guro na cya.. Ana na klase na photo is not something to disregard lng in a relationship kay kamo bya.. Unsa may tan-aw niya sa inyung relationship, duwa duwa? If he acts that way, I honestly don't think na he's ready to be in a serious relationship. I suggest it's time to move on. Plenty of other fishes in the sea.. Good luck!

[lodyl]

uy, malain ta.. dli ko bro ha.. sis ko.. hehe

anyways, we can't really blame others to be irresponsible and immature at times. Kung kinsa man gani tong nag tag nimo ato na photo, it only shows what kind of person they are. I suggest na dli nlng na nimo patulan ang mga ana na tao kay wla na clay kwenta. sakit gud kung sakit but try to think that you're better off than them. Don't stoop down their level!

If mu ana imong partner na "wla ra to" when you confronted him about the photo, then nalipong guro na cya.. Ana na klase na photo is not something to disregard lng in a relationship kay kamo bya.. Unsa may tan-aw niya sa inyung relationship, duwa duwa? If he acts that way, I honestly don't think na he's ready to be in a serious relationship. I suggest it's time to move on. Plenty of other fishes in the sea.. Good luck!

Ay, sori sis.... Ug "HER" akoang partner kay HIM man ko... hahahahaha...

Actually Sis, mag 3rd month na since nakig break up ko last April 15... Mao lagi Sis, basin serious ra siguro kaayo ko sa relasyon namo nga 2 years and 5 months...

Anyways, ang naka intriguing lang kay last namo kita, two weeks ago, kay niana sya nako nga pirmi lang daw sila mag away ni jejemon (tambay nga blond2x ug dugang2x lang sa problema sa Pinas) unya iyaha daw giingnan nga magbuwag na sila pero dili mosugot si Jejemon.. bwahahahaha... Unya, after nako gisultian sa akoang plans to build my "Tower of Solitude", niana man hinuon nga sya daw mo design sa akoang room... toinks......

[punkrastaman]

its easy to decide when its happening...we can't say the right answer...suggestion maybe

[mio]

Depende unsa ka bug-ata ang sa.

[lodyl]

Depende unsa ka bug-ata ang sa.

how about if one of an ordinary day, kay gi tag lang ka kalit ug tao nga wala pa jud nimo nailhan in your life ug mga pics sa imo gf ug niya nga nag chulaakay? do you think this is bug-at enough?

[CompTech]

buwagan dayon.. pero atik ra. depende sa sitwasyon f dli najud makaya..