5 signs of a player!.
1. He’s bold.
2. He declares his feelings right away.
3. He always plans romantic dates.
4. He has lots of acquaintances, no close friends.
5. He’s a thrill seeker.
5 signs of a chode nice, upstanding guy
1. He’s goofy. You mean socially incompetent. That’s what you actually meant to say. Because goofy, and by goofy I mean being fun and playful, is like the primary characteristic of a player. If you read any piece of pickup literature, you’ll see that our greatest weapons assets are humor and playfulness. Because we know that chicks dig that.
2. He remembers personal details and events. Um, not sure where to start with this. Nice guys might remember your birthday (or not), but we’ll definitely remember everything you tell us. We’re seducers, remember? We’re using that info to get into your pants. Duh. Illiciting values. Ever heard of it?
3. He treats his mama right. Christ. Don’t bring my mama into this.
4. He can mingle. Actually, he can’t. Beta guys are socially incompetent. Ever had a Nice Guy boyfriend who said he didn’t like crowds? Or wanted to leave early from the party because he’s a wallflower? Yeah, that’s right, because he’s beta and doesn’t know how to socialize. Players are the minglers and the socializers, not the other way around.
5. He says, “I love you.” I have to quote Goot here word for word:
As fawning as a player’s affections are, there’s still something sacred about the L-bomb. Kalish found that insincere men would say, “I want to grow old with you,” or “I want to have children with you,” but “I love you” remained somehow off limits. A guy who says those three magic words may very well mean them.
You know what the problem is here? Players will not say, “I love you,” because they know the difference between love and lust. That’s what you get with experience. A chode doesn’t know the difference (because they’re socially incompetent), and will drop the L-bomb with any chick he gets lucky enough to have *** with. Big reason why there are so many shitty relationships…incompetent men (and women) who think they’re in love when really they’re too ignorant and lazy to realize they’re a poor match and not really attracted to each other. If a player says love, he means it, because he knows what he’s doing. Girls, get yourself a player boyfriend. You’ll love the fact that he’s socially adept, fun, and knows how to treat women. Boys, if you’re a massive chode, go read The Game and then get yourself on the path of Playerism, and by that I mean mastering your social life. Nice guys fumble around and download porn. Players give money shots to the hotties.