
Originally Posted by
yvonne6
im not an old maid noh and i had relationships (failed) in the past. as they say, nothing lasts forever kuno. last night, during our break, nag tapuk2 ang mga girls and i was VERY surprised to listen to their personal problems pud regarding their partners,bfs, husbands. all the while, i thought mine was the worse pero dili d i. i had this realization last night nga murag lisud na jud mangita ug tarung na guy karong panahona. i know daghan guys ang mo react nga sila tarung but then, who would admit that they are a loser? WALA!! how is this related to the thread? i would say that a lot of women are looking at other women's experiences. these days, halos kadaghanan babay naay problema sa ilang mga lalaki. lets face it, there are women nga dili needy and clingy. they dont need a man to complete them. oh yes, its hell good to have someone beside you in bed and hold your hands at the mall but how about the stress and emotional burden it brings when u find out that ur bf is cheating, jobless, drug user/addict, the list just goes on. there are women who feel that they dont need this type of man to be happy. naa juy ingon ana. ang happiness kay depende mana sa pag hatag nimo ug importance sa imong existence. lain2 ang atong idea sa completeness. at this point in my life now, a man would only be a bonus but i know now how to be happy even if i am single. i've seen it all jud kung unsa ang lalaki kung wala na sa iyang saktong pangutok, and its hard to help someone become better when they dont even know naa silay problema. so mao na, naay mga girls nga likay na lang ug stress sa ilang kinabuhi. men, they are just around. u dont really need to be inlove and invest too much on someone not worth it