Angay ba ko maglagot/magselos or moreklamo?

[ryeaka]

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Mmmm... I wasnt as strong as i am now 2 years ago sis... I was also dependent to him... Pero it already came up to a point that all the people i know pitied me for what i've gone through with him... For 5 years, i thought of forgetting my own happiness because we have kids and i dont want them to grow up without their dad... But our recent fight made me realize my kids will and can understand... My four-year old daughter was hugging me when i cried and said, "ma, away nasad mo papa? Ayaw na cry ma. Bad mani papa oi." sus, it was an eye-opener for me that my kids will understand. Imagine? 4 years old pa but she already understood that i was really in pain... Pila nami ka.adlaw buwag sis but wala man mangita akong kids niya... Maybe because sad, hands on man ko sa ila...

anyways, if di naka happy, let go... Mao ra jud na... They will never realize what they've lost not unless mawala nila...

[GuyOfYourDreams]

I don't see him doing balancing anymore. he got more time with others.

maybe he's thinking that he has always been with you, you know when you sleep, eat, because you're both living in one home right? I dont know. Maybe you can have talk about that..

[GuyOfYourDreams]

kung ingon ana lang, masabtan biya... pero sa amo case lahi naman gud... kana bitaw hilabtan naka sa iya barkada pero mas molaban pa sya sa kabarkada? i think lahi nasad na diba?

ang sa TS lang, more on ang time nga gispend sa iya banabana to his officemates... lahi amo situation but if the TS is not happy anymore she should leave him... dili ipugos ang self... daghan pag nagkarsones

but they have a child right?

[mcaranas22]

HI SISY naka agi jud ko imuha situation before ni biya akoa bana from abroad not in good terms mi.. ingana sad to siya daghan extra curricular sa gawas abtik pa kaayu but if amu na family sapot sapot wala time kapoy lakaw and the worst thing is nang babae pa jud siya...its been 3 years sad ko ni antos para sa amua anak but.. sakit and lisod buhaton but i didt it... pasagihi siya para ma feel niya nga ma buhi mo nga wala siya.... mu daku ang ulo sa mga lalaki if ipa feel nato nila nga di nato kaya if mawala sila... just be strong for your kids sis... and pray to god ra jud.....

[mcaranas22]

but they have a child right?

hi know what lu-oy baya ang bata kay ma wad-an na papa pero dili reason ang mga bata para mu stick siya sa laki.. the more maka luluoy sila labi na mga bata kay irresponsible ila papa... ang iyaha kay naa man sila anak maningkamot nalang jud siya para sa ilaha anak..

[pboi]

ayay! unsa mana oi. lahi naman na iya.

[jumper_stage]

TS kani imong bana wala pani katilaw og kulata? akoy kulata beh, lebra ra !...

Bitaw sis, pasagdi nalang na. Puhon motagam ra unya siya og maghinolsol sa iyang sayop nga nabuhat !

[m.a.m.a.]

for me mglagot, mgselos n moreklamo jud ko sa iyang gpangbuhat. why not ask ur husband y he is acting like that to you. family gud mo. unsa pay pulos ngtukod mog family f ingon ana iyang treatment sa imoha.

[clara1026]

haist! na agi pud n nako sis..but na resolve ra namo...try to talk to your banabana bout it,of what you fell and who's his priority...diba ganahan man xa mo kyg sa ila outing? ask him pwede ba ka mo koyg pud ka so that you can both spend time together..if mo reason out xa nga dli pwede basin naa na xa ganahan sa iya ka office-mate..hehehe..maayo unta wala...and dnt forget to pray na mausab xa...

[bowee]

unsa ning 'bana bana'? you mean Live-in ra mo?

technically baya, you don't have the right at all in any case jud, because though live-in mo, at the eyes of the law and with society.. you two are just two individuals who have mutually agreed to live in one roof.

SO what does this lead to? you 'bana bana' (From the looks of it, he is still immatured and childish just like you are) doesnt give any F's if and when he wants to give attention to you. Why? because I think he is already bored with you. Guys don't really have the guts to tell it straight because they are afraid they might hurt the girl's feeling. Especially sa inyong situation nga you two are just living as one.

On the lighter side. Alkansi jud ning partner nga mugawas nga demanding na (sa attention) to the other person kay wala kay hold sa imong partner if he or she wants to break it off na... (after all your not married pa man)

Tell and talk to your partner TS.. Simmer and calm down. Sit down and talk to him. Ask him if he is tired of you already, then it would be better to end the relationship? and for GOD's sake, do also open up with him your wants and emotional needs.. PARAYG PARAYGI sad ba..

Maybe your already too focus on your relationship that your partner feels choked already...

Anyway, I am NOT in anyway for or against Living-in.. Naa ra na sa individuals concern. Ang ako lang... Alkansi jud ang partner nga masobraan ka emotional attach sa iyang partner. Ok ra if minyo mo.. Pero Living-in? no assurances sa unsa may future sa inyong live-in...

My take....