Is he my son?

[polarisvenus]

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TS, be mature enough. You made a promise when you recited your wedding vows, those words were not just mere words utterred for the heck of the marriage ceremony...those were said as a promise to your wife with God as the witness. You got married na....so you live with it. make it work for your family. Stop thinking that the kid is not yours coz the more you dwell with that thought...the more you will convince yourself of the negative thing...and you'll ruin the chance of being a good father. If c wife dili jud nimo love...try to find things in her that can develp a good feeling inside you that hopefully maybe someday will blossom into love. marriage is about trust, love and companionship. TS ni enetr na man jud ka diha, panindigan mo na lang

[iron_dick]

lisod jd imo sitwasyon bro but if u love ur wife u can accept it

then about the child adopt nalng bro and itring imo cya biological son.. ky naa uban diha nagita gani anak pero adopt nlng cla

[burikoy12]

Naghunahuna ko sa math sa imong sitwasyon TS.

If 8 months lang iyang pregnancy and naay laing nakalabot niya, therefore, their coitus happened a MONTH BEFORE your coitus with her. But then you mentioned, nga ikaw maoy nakauna niya. Therefore, walay nakalabot niya 1 month before. SO, DAKO ANG POSSIBILITY NGA IMO JUD NANG ANAK.

If your wife had a 10 (or more than 9) month pregnancy, kana seguro naay posibilidad nga naay nilabot niya AFTER nimo.

Do the math kuno TS beh. Kay basig wala nimo ni natan-aw ug ayo.

[yvonne6]

i went thru the same experience except i didnt marry the girl. big mistake u made there. also i had the dna test done.

nya, imo or dili?

[yvonne6]

the biggest mistake i have done here is getting married because the gf was pregnant.

i hope others will learn a lesson from this.

you marry for love and nothing else.

love man diay nimo pag decide nimog pakasal. ikaw lay nag himo sa imong problema sa pagka karon TS. move on, treat the kid as your own tutal ikaw man jud ang ilhon nga amahan ana. say, mahibaw an nimo nga dili imong anak kay naningkamot jud ka ug sukit2, do u think your life will be at peace and happier? see, wala kay peace of mind because u have the gut feeling nga dili nimo anak. akong ex, maglagut ko, akong ingnon dili niya anak among baby (bec i was mad) but then dili jud siya mo tuo kay feel man jud niya nga anak niya. did u feel this too?

[seanryzel]

brod...kung lisod para nimo...mas lisod na para sa imong wife og para sa bata...kana kung imo jud ang bata...kay imagine being doubted on, dili lalim..try to put a closure...ask sa hi precision pila ang paternity test...they're just a call away...para ma andaman nimo.

[dustin]

basin nasayup lng mo ug ihap!!

I guess dili sad kaau nmo love ang girl kay nagduda man ka? Guess lang!!!

[kajrot1]

DNA testing...... hehe

[kuyabog]

And thinking, you might again do a mistake....
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TS, upon reading sa imo mga reply, murag wala pa nimo sultii imo wife...
sultii bro...

talked to her last nyt, and she vehemently denied.

[kuyabog]

akong ingnon dili niya anak among baby (bec i was mad) but then dili jud siya mo tuo kay feel man jud niya nga anak niya. did u feel this too?

to be honest, no maam, i do not feel such.