Is he my son?

[juan_carlos]

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how did u get that dna test done? here locally in cebu? i am finacially and emotionally bankrupt man gud karon oi.

not exactly, i bought the test from the us and had it shipped to cebu and then back to the us for processing. its actually cheaper than the local options plus mas reliable ang results. its not as expensive as u think. and u can save up for it. i had the test done when my boy was already 5 yrs old, so yeah i waited a long time. but thats because i wasnt sure i wanted to find out. before anything else, u better make sure u know what ur asking for and be ready for the results. such things can break a man. though i do suggest u do it as early as possible pra d ka ma attach ra kaayu sa bata. u can pm me later for details or advice i know what ur going thru. for now i need to log out.

[kuyabog]

if i were you, you assess your situation why you're so eager to shove fatherhood into your wife's ex's hands.. and in the meantime, save up for paternity testing kay mao ra jud na sureball maka-solve ana.. but as of now, sa akong nakita, it's not really definite nga dli jud na imohang baby.

to shove fatherhood into someone else is not the utmost priority here.

my most important concern is validity of my own fatherhood.

yah, paternity dna test na lang. unfortunately, i just cant afford it now.

[MINE]

you married her not because of love but because of responsibility. You've had *** w/ her not because of love but because of lust.

Sakto??

[kuyabog]

you married her not because of love but because of responsibility. You've had *** w/ her not because of love but because of lust.

Sakto??

no wasting words here.. YES sakto.

[kuyabog]

be ready for the results. such things can break a man. .

honestly, in fact that is what i am afraid of now..

[reginakrys]

to shove fatherhood into someone else is not the utmost priority here.

my most important concern is validity of my own fatherhood.

family is not limited to being related by blood noh..

if you love them both, you will be a husband to your wife and a father to that child, regardless if the child is really biologically yours.. you accept him and raise him as your own, and that is the true essence of being a father..

[reigel99]

brad, taas kaayo ako gitype ba... then ako na lang ge-erase... kani na lang ako isulti...

nagpakasal ka sa babae, "for better or for worse"...
don't leave her on the worst part...

[kuyabog]

family is not limited to being related by blood noh..

if you love them both, you will be a husband to your wife and a father to that child, regardless if the child is really biologically yours.. you accept him and raise him as your own, and that is the true essence of being a father..

i thank you for the spiritual words but the denominator is the pressure of having been lied to. i married her because i believed the baby is mine. if paternity is otherwise, i will need all your prayers to help keep me sane and sober.

[kuyabog]

brad, taas kaayo ako gitype ba... then ako na lang ge-erase... kani na lang ako isulti...

nagpakasal ka sa babae, "for better or for worst"...
don't leave her on the worst part...

brad, you spent time and effort, and perhaps invested some emotions into it, wala unta nimo gi erase. i would have wanted to read your post, as well as sharing it with others. this is the family matters forum, we are the istorya family here.

dili man to for "worst" gisulti sa pari brad..

"worse" ra man to

[reigel99]

i thank you for the spiritual words but the denominator is the pressure of having been lied to. i married her because i believed the baby is mine. if paternity is otherwise, i will need all your prayers to help keep me sane and sober.

bro, you're there na... nagpakasal na ka...
mao nay giingon na ang pagpakasal di parehas sa init nga kan-on na imo iluwa kung mapaso ka...

ako pa nimo, live with it... labi na kung love ka sa imo asawa...
di na lalem mangita og kapikas ron bro nga magpangga nimo og tarong...

oh nagkamali imo asawa, but still naa siya nimo, ikaw iyang gipili...
pasagdai na lang bro... responsabli man ka, padayona na lang na...