need help, husband is missing

[behemothharr]

oi dong Sandy, asa naman ka dong oi, pauli na dong!

[em_b]

basig nag-uli na. love is lovelier the second time around gud. hehehe

[behemothharr]

basig nag-uli na. love is lovelier the second time around gud. hehehe

hinaut pa unta nga niuli na.luuy baya pud ang mga kids, diba dong Sandy?

[tunagurl01]

d ko sure ha pero familiar nako iyang face... i don't know kung sa mandaue market ba to...sa sulod jud sa market. but i'll try to go back there...

yes, mao na siya. kay we used to sell tuna dha sa mandaue market (duol flyover - atbang jollibee)

now lang ko naka balik ug basa sa thread coz i am still in great pain. till now after more than 2 months, wala jud siya ni attempt mag communicate sa amoa dire. wala na jud tingali to siya balak mu atubang sa ako ug sa among mga kids. grabe na kasakit ako na encounter.

i am emotionally, financially, spiritually drained but I still have to go on working and living for my kids.

i have no idea if nakig ipon na siya ug lain, if he is still alive or what. mao na ang sakit kaayo kay wala man lang koy idea asa siya. how i wish i could go there pero sa situation karon, basin mas masakitan ko moanha dha unya dili jud siya pakita nako kay iya na jud mi gitaguan. ang sakit sakit pero pinapasa Diyos ko na siya. i just wish magka istorya mi just to set the records straight. and he is man enough to face me and all these problems he has caused kay negative kaayo ang impact sa ako panganay na baby.

thanks

[polarisvenus]

i'm reli sorry sa imo situation sis. juz keep on praying, God knows best, and if He wants your hubby back, He will lead him back to you. as for now...take care of your priorities...the kids. We don't know what reli happened sa imo hubby diri sa cebu, try to contact him thru another number basin pa d i motubag if d xa kabaw na ikaw ang naa sa other end of the line. if d na jud xa paramdam, let God take care of things beyond your reach.

it's hard to go on with life as if you're ok, but you have to be or at least you have to pretend that you are ok.. for your kids....God bless sis

[slakker]

move on na lang ts... God bless you and your kids...

[tunagurl01]

thanks. only God knows when this prob will end. what keeps me going are my kids. i have no constant companion na friend na puede nako ma istorya everyday since i did not establish any close relationship to anybody since i got married.

sa youtube (so pathetic!) rako sige mangita ug prayers and inspiring thoughts. i always play "the secret" (about law of attraction) na movie while working online just to keep my sanity. even now, while typing this message, i am still crying kasi never ko na imagine na i will go through this kind of situation. it's been 2 long months (full of pain and anxiety). i keep on telling myself that i am ok, that i will be okay in time pero sad fact is i am dying inside. how i wish i will be healed na pero dili pa gihapon. i am still in great pain.

most of the time, i avoid thinking about him para lang maka survive sa ako daily struggles. but right now, since i am reading this thread again, i can't help myself. i am still in so much pain and still hopeful na he will try to communicate with us para lang ma settle ni tanan. though i know, wurag hopeless na jud na mag "hope" pa ko. i just want to close this chapter of my life in a proper way pero seems like he has no plans of doing so.

[Lady-L]

yes, mao na siya. kay we used to sell tuna dha sa mandaue market (duol flyover - atbang jollibee)

now lang ko naka balik ug basa sa thread coz i am still in great pain. till now after more than 2 months, wala jud siya ni attempt mag communicate sa amoa dire. wala na jud tingali to siya balak mu atubang sa ako ug sa among mga kids. grabe na kasakit ako na encounter.

i am emotionally, financially, spiritually drained but I still have to go on working and living for my kids.

i have no idea if nakig ipon na siya ug lain, if he is still alive or what. mao na ang sakit kaayo kay wala man lang koy idea asa siya. how i wish i could go there pero sa situation karon, basin mas masakitan ko moanha dha unya dili jud siya pakita nako kay iya na jud mi gitaguan. ang sakit sakit pero pinapasa Diyos ko na siya. i just wish magka istorya mi just to set the records straight. and he is man enough to face me and all these problems he has caused kay negative kaayo ang impact sa ako panganay na baby.

thanks

don't think negative TS... kasabot ko sa imo sitwasyon di gyud na lalim tinuod pero kinahanglan jud nimo mahibaw-an iyang whereabouts para masuta nimo kun unsa gyud ang tinuod dili lang para ninyo duha but para sad sa inyong mga anak, who knows he might be in danger simbako lang... and the kids has the right to know the truth bisan negative ang impact sa imong anak ang gibuhat sa ilang papa pero mangeta gihapon na cla in the future bisan unsa kadaotan sa ginikanan mangeta gyud ang anak...

[behemothharr]

unsa diay feedback sa imong mga in-laws, maam? syaro wala jud sila balita?

[tunagurl01]

don't think negative TS... kasabot ko sa imo sitwasyon di gyud na lalim tinuod pero kinahanglan jud nimo mahibaw-an iyang whereabouts para masuta nimo kun unsa gyud ang tinuod dili lang para ninyo duha but para sad sa inyong mga anak, who knows he might be in danger simbako lang... and the kids has the right to know the truth bisan negative ang impact sa imong anak ang gibuhat sa ilang papa pero mangeta gihapon na cla in the future bisan unsa kadaotan sa ginikanan mangeta gyud ang anak...

thanks sis. despite of what he had done, i still want to see and talk to him personally...

unsa diay feedback sa imong mga in-laws, maam? syaro wala jud sila balita?

maski iya sarili family (mother, sis and bro) no idea asa si hubby karon.

pila patong sa iyang ulo aron akong pangitaon

PM me bro pila budget. kana lang pud affordable sa ako situation na sole breadwinner with 2 kids.

i just need his new address (i got the plate num of his white multicab so at least may chance pa makita). Last info i got was naa daw xia puyo consolacion but am not really sure if naa pa siya didto.