MaNnEr$ 4 SALE...Para sa mga walay batasan!! >:-(

[angel_brey]

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adopted, in need of work & certified no manners

Na imbyerna lang sad ko ani na story ug ako lang sad ni e share ninyo!

One time, naa lang ni text kalit sa akong MOM asking her for help and stating that she is her "Pag-umangkon" (But later on we found out ADOPTED ra diay siya sa iyang mama na cousin sa akong MOM) and all the other details why pag-umangkun "daw" siya! In her texts, she was "BEGGING" for a JOB in order daw for her to HELP her family! She is a graduate daw of NURSING AIDE. So mao to, perti gyud intawn niya hangyo na mahatagan siya ug trabaho ug YES, nisugot nalang akong mommy na ari siya sa amo mgpa helper. A few days later, she arrived with another 2 cousins nako (GIRL & BOY Legitimate cousins) na ngpa helper nalang sad para makatabang sa family.

1st offense: Ngka problem sila sa iyang BF and nag "hubog" siya! Ang nakahibaw ra kay kami ra sa akong sister ug akong mga uban cousins na kuyog niya. Another thing is, if magbantay siya sa akong baby sulod sa among kwarto, murag naka tag-iya kung maka "ON" sa Computer PC ug mag FACEBOOK! Gipang "ADD" pa gyud niya mga friends namo sa akong sister ug mga igsuon sa akong bana na iyang na ilhan or na meet.

2nd offense: Nananghid siya na mu ULI sah siya sa LEYTE kay naa daw "FAMILY PROBLEM." Gesugtan na siya sa akong mom but sa GABIE pa siya makalakaw ug ehatod siya sa PIER kay daghan pa kaayo mi ug mga hipusunon sa balay! Natingala nalang mi, pag UDTO nawala na siya ug ngka buang nami ug pangita niya asa na siya. Tawag mi Leyte to inform them and to tell us if ni abot ba siya didto or wala. When they called to inform she was already there, my mom told them na

"AYAW NANA SIYA PABALIKA DIRI SA CEBU KAY DILI NAKO MUDAWAT ANA NIYA KUNG MAO NA IYANG BATASAN NA DILI MU SUNOD SA TARUNG NA SABOT!"

BUT, she came back! BUT, my mom did not want her anymore. And so didto na siya ge pasa sa Sister sa akong mom kay nag kailangan sad daw siya ug SECRETARY! And since college level man siya, maybe makaya ra niya na nga JOB! Sayun ra man na diba?

3rd offense: She was already working for my aunt as a secretary! Hinatod kuha pa sa driver sa Center pero ang trabaho walay claro! She cannot even get anything done right and permi siya makasab-an. Alangan man ug masakto ba diay iyang trabaho kung kada minuto nag cge lang ug change sa iyang FB STATUS! Maayo kaha na? Then it came to a point na nigawas na gyud iyang pgka grabeh ka ABUSADA ug WALAY BATASAN!

She posted on her FB ACCOUNT something like this...

"Gesapot gyud ko sa akong auntie diri. Makalagot kaayo! Lami na kaayo suklan! What do you think guys? Suklan na ni nako sah kay samok kaayo!"

Ug sa dihang naka basa man ko, nag sipok akong utok sa iyang pgka walay modo, walay batasan, walay uwaw, ug dili kahibaw mutanaw ug utang kabubut-on!

What I did is that in ALL of her PICTURES that were TAGGED in my FB account, I wrote her this!

"Talk about biting the hand that is feeding you!

First of all, as far as I can remember, you texted your AUNT/BOSS asking…CORRECTION…the right word should be BEGGING for a job, any JOB so that YOU can help your family. So case in point, you came to CEBU to WORK! I don’t think sneaking out @ night partying until the break of dawn and coming home DRUNK is part of the JOB DESCRIPTION of a SECRETARY/HELPER (Unless you’re working as a BAR DANCER or whatever); And I also don’t think that waking up late in the morning (9am-10am) is also part of that. You are fortunate to have been provided 1) a JOB, 2) have FREE transport to and from the workplace, 3) have FREE living space and 4) have FREE food EVEN IF you have not been doing your job well.
So piece of advice, QUIT whining and be thankful! You need to re-evaluate yourself and change your attitude because you have done much damage than HELP. If you can’t play by the rules and do your job well, then QUIT, get out of the house and find yourself another JOB elsewhere where you can be as FREE as you want to be. But remember, living out there on your own with no family to HELP or support you means you work for BOSS’ who are not as lenient as the AUNT/BOSS you have right now! You pay for your own FOOD, LODGING and TRANSPORTATION to and from WORK!
Stop playing the victim & think things over because the AUNT/BOSS that you don’t like, that you want to “syagit” or “suklan” is actually the one giving you your salary, food, etc. even if the same blood doesn’t run through your veins and hers.
Make the bad choice and you’re only proving yourself to be an ingrate and nothing else.
God Bless!!"

Dah katilaw! Ug sa dihang nabasahan niya ug nabasahan sa tanan tao kaila niya sa FB kay tanan man PICS niya na naa nako na ge tag siya akong gebutangan ana! Tagam! Ug pagkahuman, ge "UNFRIEND" ko niya ug kung naa ko, mupahawa gyud siya!

Ug karun, tu-a ni uli sa ilaha kay na BUNTIS! Ang GABA gyud kay DILI MAG SABA!

[Kenshiro]

thanks sa link:

anyway nabasa na nako and i think applicable lang tong mga tips sa mga tao na naa breeding/batasan,....dili to makaya sa amoang silingan na babae,yano-yanohon r gani na nya ug kasaba iyang bana bisan wlay hinongdan maong madunggan namo kai dako gyud kaau ug tingog.....

last Dec..ni.visit na sila sa iyahang anak na naa na sa manila nag.work,naa silay iro na gihigtan kilid sa amoang house...almost 2 weeks kapin silang nawala..kani ilang iro magcge gyud ug uwang/tahol kai cguro gigutom,naa time na gabahugan nlang sa akong husband kai madistorbo mn sya sa iyang work since dec. break mn to naa sya sa house on leave..whole day gyud na ga tahol/uwang,i dont know if naa nakita ang iro na lain basta mgcge gyud tahol...wla na kaagwanta akong bana gibadlong na nya ang iro kai mao mn kasagaran buhaton sa silingan namo if mutahol....( tiger hilom-kai tiger mn name sa iro.hehehe).muhilom mn sad if badlungon den bahugan..
pagkaabot sa among silingan,naa cguro nisulti sa ilaha na gibadlong namo ilang iro grabe ang yaw2,kai ngano daw badlungon ang iro unsa daw paki namo,reklamo daw mi perme (natingala mi na bag.o pa gani mi dha,wla mi ka remember na ni reklamo mi) ang inahan gyud ug iyang anak na babae ang cge yaw2...pero wla mn lang mi ni tubag kai kabalo mi unsa sila klase na pagkatao,dili namo ipaubos among pagkatao...

@ Kenshiro do you think applicable to tips sa iyaha?murag dili gyud nako ma try.bisan try mn lang kai kabalo ko ako ang mahimong bastos...yawyawan palang ko bisan ga intro pa gani ko...

ingon ana among silingan bow!

Ayaw lang og ka ikog since sakto man mo Isulti lang jud nila ang rason ngano saba sila. then Suggest I balhin ba nila ang ilang ero.
I sulti jud nga dili ka makatolog tungod sa ilang dog then tell them nga mu trabaho pa ugma you have to have good night sleep.
The key is sakto man pod mo if naka cause jud og disturbance so don't hesitate to talk about this with your neighbor.

One more tip tagai sila ug pagkaon or something pahalipay para maikog na cla nimo.

[angel_brey]

Ayaw lang og ka ikog since sakto man mo Isulti lang jud nila ang rason ngano saba sila. then Suggest I balhin ba nila ang ilang ero.
I sulti jud nga dili ka makatolog tungod sa ilang dog then tell them nga mu trabaho pa ugma you have to have good night sleep.
The key is sakto man pod mo if naka cause jud og disturbance so don't hesitate to talk about this with your neighbor.

One more tip tagai sila ug pagkaon or something pahalipay para maikog na cla nimo.

Hahaha sakto kaayo na imuing ingun bro na hatage silag pahalipay every now and then para mag baton ug kaikog! hahaha

[Kenshiro]

Hahaha sakto kaayo na imuing ingun bro na hatage silag pahalipay every now and then para mag baton ug kaikog! hahaha

I found this tip on the internet but not the one I provided earlier. Hehe. Dugay nako nag antos ani mga nga silingan to the point ako jud ni gi research sa internet.

[unDisclosed]

@TS, mam i'm just gonna give my thots regarding ur story....

@ the man sa katong taxi incident:what a douchebag, that was very ungentleman for that guy gyd knowing that u have a kid with u even if kaw ra isa tngali ato nga situation pagka ngan nga babaye ka ang guy mo give way unta, that's how a gentleman is...

And do u know the whole story? What if nagdali jud to siya daun he was just trying to test if mo give way ba si TS? Who knows?

@the OLD man in the elevator: murag ingn ana na gyd tngali na mam basta magkatiguwang nata we tend to be irritable and all but he should have moved pd unta ui seeing that u have a kid with u....mao bitaw na makalagot gyd ni mga tiguwang nga ingn ana og batasan i'm not saying nga tanan tiguwang ingn ana ha, naa lng gyd uban tngali bah..

And I just hope dili ka ma ingon ana kay di sad baya maayo ning mo pass dayon ta og judgement. Basin labaw sad ka unya...

Naa sad ko experience aning mga walay batasan. Kana bitawng ipanabi sa forum ilahang negative experiences? What for? Para kunohay luoy sila? Wala ba sad sila lapses as well at some point in time especially when they think too much of something?

He who has no sin cast the first stone.

[pimpmyjunk]

And do u know the whole story? What if nagdali jud to siya daun he was just trying to test if mo give way ba si TS? Who knows?



And I just hope dili ka ma ingon ana kay di sad baya maayo ning mo pass dayon ta og judgement. Basin labaw sad ka unya...

Naa sad ko experience aning mga walay batasan. Kana bitawng ipanabi sa forum ilahang negative experiences? What for? Para kunohay luoy sila? Wala ba sad sila lapses as well at some point in time especially when they think too much of something?

He who has no sin cast the first stone.

listen up mr.clean, i don't need to know the whole story for me to tell that the guy is walay batasan. I don't give a damn if ever he has a sob story behind his ill-mannered behavior towards the TS with her child the fact of the matter is he is UNGENTLEMAN towards the TS and her child so thats enough story for me that the guy is WALAY BATASAN. Again we're not basing on his sob story (if ever he has one) it's about him being A WALAY BATASAN.

and to the old man, aren't you not reading between the lines mr.clean i just stated that that's a given for old men to act like SHIT and all but again the fact of the matter is the OLD MAN should be considerate enough to just move a little for the TS and her daughter to fit in the elevator but instead he's just showing his SHITTY ILL MANNERED behavior.

and i don't think that pipol expressing their experiences on WALAY BATASAN pipol in this thread makes them a walay batasan as well. u know what a WALAY BATASAN pipol are like in this thread?pipol that are soooooo very HYPOCRITE giving unsolicited comments pipol that are sooooo very mr.clean

[unDisclosed]

listen up mr.clean, i don't need to know the whole story for me to tell that the guy is walay batasan. I don't give a damn if ever he has a sob story behind his ill-mannered behavior towards the TS with her child the fact of the matter is he is UNGENTLEMAN towards the TS and her child so thats enough story for me that the guy is WALAY BATASAN. Again we're not basing on his sob story (if ever he has one) it's about him being A WALAY BATASAN.

and to the old man, aren't you not reading between the lines mr.clean i just stated that that's a given for old men to act like SHIT and all but again the fact of the matter is the OLD MAN should be considerate enough to just move a little for the TS and her daughter to fit in the elevator but instead he's just showing his SHITTY ILL MANNERED behavior.

and i don't think that pipol expressing their experiences on WALAY BATASAN pipol in this thread makes them a walay batasan as well. u know what a WALAY BATASAN pipol are like in this thread?pipol that are soooooo very HYPOCRITE giving unsolicited comments pipol that are sooooo very mr.clean

Relax sir! You are starting to show your color. You don't want to be tagged as walay batasan as well, right?

How about instead of reacting to my post you ponder to yourself-- even once, even for now--that there might be some reasons why they reacted that way. And you, yourself act shitty sometimes. Because I do. How about you? Basically I am just pointing out that this is becoming unhealthy. And did I say unnecessary?

Oh, by the way, I am a miss. Keep your cool to me, gentlemen.

[jonz]

just 3 days ago I notice naay gpalpilit nga papil sa "tanduay" duol sa among gate.. walay abtasan ang ng papilit unsay pg tuo nya sa among pader tindahah... sunod makitan nko akong ipapilit sa ilawng nawong..

[angel_brey]

And do u know the whole story? What if nagdali jud to siya daun he was just trying to test if mo give way ba si TS? Who knows?
And I just hope dili ka ma ingon ana kay di sad baya maayo ning mo pass dayon ta og judgement. Basin labaw sad ka unya...
Naa sad ko experience aning mga walay batasan. Kana bitawng ipanabi sa forum ilahang negative experiences? What for? Para kunohay luoy sila? Wala ba sad sila lapses as well at some point in time especially when they think too much of something?
He who has no sin cast the first stone.

Relax sir! You are starting to show your color. You don't want to be tagged as walay batasan as well, right?
How about instead of reacting to my post you ponder to yourself-- even once, even for now--that there might be some reasons why they reacted that way. And you, yourself act shitty sometimes. Because I do. How about you? Basically I am just pointing out that this is becoming unhealthy. And did I say unnecessary?
Oh, by the way, I am a miss. Keep your cool to me, gentlemen.

Excuse me Miss! I don't mean to be RUDE or anything but with everything you wrote UP there, it seems as though you are trying to start a fight! As for your experience na walay batasan ang PEOPLE na ipanabi sa forum ilahang negative experiences and saying WHAT FOR, para KUNOHAY LUOY SILA, I am sorry to say but what is the point of a FORUM anyway? Di ba it is to SHARE something and to talk it out with other people? It is not like I SAID the names of those people who offended me in those situations para ma kiha ko nila ug LIBEL or WHAT! And FYI, I didn't post these things because gusto ko maluoy ang tao nako but instead I am posting these experiences I have because I want to share to the public what I went through and I also want to know what experiences they have gone through and what they did if they tried to face these types of people.

Cge given the fact that I know what was really in the head of that guy sa taxi or the guy sa elevator. But the FACT OF THE MATTER IS the situation I WAS IN! Dili sad na maayo nga batasan ang ILUGAN ang BABAE, what more if BABAE nga naay anak or TIGUWANG ba kaha! And to say na what if ge test ra ko niya if mu give way ko? The fact that I had a KID with me and the fact that HE was a GUY and was not even baldado, in crutches or in a wheelchair was enough para mu give siya ug courtesy intawn uy! If he was in a wheelchair or was in crutches, fine I would give the TAXI to him but the fact is, he was NOT! And one more thing, Why would I give way to someone when I know for a fact I was the first one who saw the TAXI and the driver even nodded to me?

It is not that WE HERE are passing judgment which you say is not maayo but then again, at the end of it all, even if YOU or WE do not know the story behind those GUYS I said na walay batasan, MORAL of all of this, THE END DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE MEANS! Even if he was having a BAD DAY or NAGDALI siya, he should learn where he stands in that situation uy! No IF's and No But's! It does not mean that just because YOU are having a bad day or YOU are in a hurry means people could just DIRECTLY understand YOU and YOUR BEHAVIOR! Maayo man ug tanan tao kaila nimo ug kahibaw what you are going through nga dili man.

PS: Do you mean to say that what JUSTIN BIEBER did in the airport na iyang ge hapak ang CD sa airport staff na gusto mgpa autograph niya was a "GOOD" behavior or that people should understand him fair and square because "HE WAS NOT FEELING GOOD?"

Pila ra man pag ingun na I'm sorry, I am not gonna sign autographs here and I am in a bit of a hurry because I am tired and want to rest already.

I don't think a little courtesy would do much harm or is that hard for ANYONE to do!

And another thing, if you find THIS POST unhealthy and unnecessary, then why drop by here and post your negative comments in a way that somehow could start a fight? Para lang maka kita kag away or para lang maiba ka from the others posting here?

I don't mean to be rude but seriously, in a way, you are lost.

@ALL, Nobody wants to be rude to anyone, nobody wants to be hurt! If you drop by this thread just to crap it out or find trouble, then I suggest you just leave kung pwede para wala nay daghan gubot ug samok.

Try to HARASS anyone and I will report and ban you on sight!

[meca_ellah]

Ayaw lang og ka ikog since sakto man mo Isulti lang jud nila ang rason ngano saba sila. then Suggest I balhin ba nila ang ilang ero.
I sulti jud nga dili ka makatolog tungod sa ilang dog then tell them nga mu trabaho pa ugma you have to have good night sleep.
The key is sakto man pod mo if naka cause jud og disturbance so don't hesitate to talk about this with your neighbor.

One more tip tagai sila ug pagkaon or something pahalipay para maikog na cla nimo.

murag dili nlang gyud mi mo.try..so far hinay nman sad sila patukar,cguro nabasahan nila sa istorya.net

about sa idea na tagaan ug pagkaon?i dont think mahimo na namo?dili mn gyud mi so far kaila ana nila.....bsta,dili mi ganahan sa ilang batasan...

ang akoa nlang karon is that if we cant beat them join nlang mi..if patukar sila ug kusog pa tv nlang sad mi para makuhaan ang kasaba sa bass...

anyway thanks sa idea and sa link......