Unfaithful husband....kinsa man jud ang sad-an?

[tessF]

For me there are three suspects...
pero dili ni ranking ha sa pinaka ka sad-an its either way around...

WIFE - sometimes reason sa bana nga mangabit is irresponsible wife.. or maypagka senyorita sa balay di molihok and thinks dalaga pa gihapon sya.., the nagger ones, the indifferent ones,

HUSBANDS - mga laki na feeling macho og choy2 pa gihapon, and kung mag kuyog sa barkada nya kakita og guapa mo ana dayon, bay kos mauyab ko nang bayhana o ...

CAVITIES - walay paki-alam kung ang laki minyo na ba o dili... as long as they are loved hahah.. drama..
so tanan sad-an..

dapat ang bana og asawa mag storya jud og unsay problema dili kay mag txsanay ra importante jud ang communication og pag salig

naa jud kay point ani sis.. ing ani jd amo nieghbor saba kaayo cge rag away

[chase328]

ambit lang...wa man seguroy laing sad-an kung dili ang taw mismo nga nibuhat...we can't put all the blame to other people because we are aware of what we are doing.. we may have reasons but are all these reasons logical enough to commit such mistake...kesyo losyang si asawa, busy xa sa work, etc...we are given the freewill to do what we want, we make our own decisons..if there are shortcomings then say it...natural lang a babye na mo-antos, nakaya man gani ang 9 months na magbuntis and specially sa atong culture...but now adays, naa nay pamaagi para malikayan na mapadung pa didto na sitwasyon...

[scope_hunting]

naa jud kay point ani sis.. ing ani jd amo nieghbor saba kaayo cge rag away

ahayyy na sis nakooooww tabang!

[spike412]

you watch too much tv lng siguro. we should NEVER EVER justify a wrong and find ways to make it less evil. ang nangabit ang sad-an, regardless of how the wife is. the husband made the decision to marry his wife, and he should be man enough to commit to that person. if he feels that his feelings is wavering, then he should find ways to make it blossom again. wla nmn ta sa karaang panahon nga ishotgun wedding ta, so meaning kng ngpakasal ka anang bayhana then it was your decision.

mga lalaki raman na sigeg ingon nga sala sa wife maong mangabit, or naa na sa genes, or tungod dili na mangarte si misis, and sadly the women are backing up these ideas as if it's actually acceptable.

siguro mao jd ang reason sa husband maong nangabit kay dili na xa attracted sa iyang wife, but to find someone else to make up for that is NOT RIGHT. NOT ACCEPTABLE. nalusyang bya ang wife tungod ug inamuma sa iyang mga anak, padako ug alaga sa pamilya. unya her being a good mother will be her downfall? not everyone can afford a maid, pra ang mga mama can have time for themselves, naa jd uban household nga sila jd tanan, sukad sa buntag hangtud gabii. the husband should support their wives. kng tan-aw nila wla na time iyang wife sa iyang self kay dili na mangarte, then tell the wife nga mao na imong nafeel and make her feel nga musupport ka niya by giving her more time to herself. tabang ba ron sa buhaton sa balay, or since padre de pamilya mn xa, tell their kids to be more responsible pra ma-half ang kahago ni mommy.

ako, kng mangabit akong husband-to-be, sus goodluck nlng gyud niya. mgkamang lagi xa, di nko xa undangan kng di xa magkamang sa yuta sa kalisud. ikiha kng ikiha, ipapriso pa nko. kaunfair ana ah, you spent the best years of your life (looking wow, feeling wow!) with this person and then by the time that you're losing your charm, biyaan dayon ka?

mga lalaki, undang namo ana inyo bisyo sigeg ilis2x ug babae. ang gaba intawn di magsaba. imagina nlng kng naa moy anak nga babae unya ingon anaon pud sa pamanhunon, di kaha ka muulbo sa kasuko?

unya mga babae, ayw jd mog dawat anang mga mabaw nga rason nga maong byaan ta kay tungod dili nata mangarte, unsa panang mga alibi nga ginagmay ug utok. dili ta ingon ana kamabaw, or kabaratuhon! be proud of being a woman, live a good life. kng naa mga lalaki dili makaappreciate nimo, pasagdi, ayw jd pag-antos. kay nagpakita lng na unsa sila ka-shallow kng byaan ka tungod kita silag mas sexy.

invite your friends over then tabangi ninyog libak, PLAN HIS DOWNFALL

sakto ka gyud... ang bana mangita gyud na og rason to justify his action.... apil pud ang kabit.

[ClubUltimaLpZ]

Sorry to the husbands out there. But before he should have married, he must have known her already. Well if not, then, Theres no sense blaming kung kinsa sad-an.

[thea_sweet]

you don't have to blame it all sa kabit... in my own opinion, guys stray because there's a reason. In most of the stories i know, the top reason i can come up with is dili emotionally secured ang laki. I'm not married and i don't have kids but it's like an unsolicited truth the wives tend to forget about the husband if naa nay kids... and yeah, they forget to groom themselves napod.

on the other hand, naa pod sala ang kabit especially if kahibao na sha nga minyo ang laki. But kita man sad gud mga babaye, lisod naman gud modecide once we are emotionally involved na. So mao ng naa juy mga kabit nga let's say selfish na and at the same time ipagtanggol napod nila ang bawal nga relationship.

What I can only advise for the wives...is that take care of yourself like you to take care of the kids and also ayaw sad pasagdai imong bana. Tama sad that there's always communication.. kanang communication nga dili pugos..dapat sincere. And... don't nag.

[kajrot1]

para sa ako lng ni ha most of the time ang husband mangitag lain kay Bungangera ang asawa, losyang, wala nay tagad sa kaugalingon dili na mangarti ba og dili na g serbisyohan ang bana, og dapat dili mo bossy i mean dapat be submissive treat ur husband not only as a husband but as king..

[3nZ0y]

para sa ako lng ni ha most of the time ang husband mangitag lain kay Bungangera ang asawa, losyang, wala nay tagad sa kaugalingon dili na mangarti ba og dili na g serbisyohan ang bana, og dapat dili mo bossy i mean dapat be submissive treat ur husband not only as a husband but as king..

Lake ka doh? Unsa man diay imo gipangita asawa o maid? Pangita na lang og slave if you want to be treated as a king. Sorry ha, it was just so conceited and egoistic for me. Mag-ayos ka nga...

[gurlydalma]

Sala jud nas bana dili makuntinto og usa... If Love jud ka niya dina siya anggay magita lain kay sa tanan babaye ikaw ra jud nag inusara sa iya heart. But if gi ilisan naka niya, nagpasabot lang na na pangita nasad lain kay maski unsaon og sorry niya wla na jud nay respetar nimo hangtod sa hangtod!

[debbie]

There are myriad factors why a person can fall out of marriage and look for someone who he/she thinks is better than his /her current partner...

often, they look for the missing part that most if not, their current partner is unable to give or lack hereof...

Blaming the husband for illiciting an affair often is the all reasons of why the marriage crumbled and why there are so many broken families out there.. BUT, for me. that is just the tip of the iceberg...

We fail to notice tell tale signs why the husband (or in some cases, the wife), had look for someone else... Remember, it takes two to tango... and in any line.. it is composed of two points... Husbands or wives are mere human beings only.. needs love, affection, communication,care and bodily warmth... If one of these emotions and feelings are missing or if their partners fail to give them these.. then the end results of it would be for the other to seek solace to another person... in the pretext of social and physical need...

lets break these things:

1.) Love - The main core in marriage... But often mostly in marriage, the husband and the wife had failed to build back their ember because they are too busy and pre occupied already with their works, their careers and with their children... Sometimes, it would be good to rekindle still the love of your partner.. even if naa namoy mga anak... take time to still go out with each other.. places that you once went to (minus the kids, kamo lang duha)

2.) Affection - We guys are warm in nature.. Ever heard about a husband who complained that his wife is not being affectionate to him anymore everytime he comes home from work?? he just sits at the sofa and his wife is just talking to their neighbors... No more warm and kumustahan thing... Affection involves being sensitive to the person's needs.. a simple 'kumusta man imong work dong..' okay ra ka? naka kaon naka? .. or just to hug and kiss that person when he/she comes home...is simply an affection that is truly appreciative jud.

3.) Communication - This is where most broken marriage lacks... often the husband fails to communicate his needs to his wife and vice versa. Every time the husband comes to work.. instead of talking to the wife his day... he finds the wife not in the house... or if she's in the house, she is engross in other activities and doesnt want to be disturb of. Or she constantly yells and talks about monetary problems over and over that the husband is too tired to hear already.

4.) Care - How many wives still massage their husband (when they're too tired from work), or surprises him everyday with her delicious cooking or gifts to give. When you love a person katong uyab pa mo.. What you had given her /him emotionally should not change bisag minyo namo.


5.) and Lastly, Bodily warmth. Most marriages are consumated sexually. But as children comes in the family already, most wives doesnt care anymore about their bodies.. they just let it sag and wala na silay pakabana jud.

Let me tell you this to the wives out there. If you make your body as sexy as the first time you said yes to that guy (your husband), I doubt husbands would look for other mistress anymore. More often than not, when you marry..it is not the end of the world on not to make yourself beautiful and sexy still. Be sexy for your husband. Make him proud as he was proud of you when katong uyab pa mo.

Guys often talks comparing their wives (kanang mag inom inom mi) and most topics center on the sexiness of their partners.. The guy who has the most sexy wife oftens get the envy of his barkadas. Hot and may asim pa, as they would say

So there you go.. That is my own personal contribution to your thread TS..

Cheers!!

thanks sa pag share bro! =)