para sa mga fil-chi,ilabi na kadto mga traditional fil-chi......................

[nadine eidloth]

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base sa inyo community pila ka percent sa mga fil-chi specially sa mga traditional chinese
ang wala pugngi or wala magpapugong sa ila family nga makigminyo ug local pinoy/pure pinoy?

kung mahigugma mo ug pure pinoy/local pinoy ug gipugngan sa inyo family giunsa ninyo pag.survive
ang relatinship or unsa inyo gibuhat para mapugngan ang inyo feelings.

[nadine eidloth]

forgive me if you find this thread offensive for you..............

[THE KID]

tubaga ni ................... heheehhehe

[Wynna]

I used to have a fil-chi boyfriend, ga follow jud sila sa Chinese tradition,

Ang daddy niya kay ok ra, pero ang mom ang malidta hahaha wala man sad mi nagdugay ato, may nalang pud, kay hopia ray ga cge niya ipakaon nako ato! hahahaha

[fatso]

ah paeta pud anang hopia ra sige pa kaon nimo.....maau na lang diay nang uban kay kung dili siomai..aw siopao with coke..heheheh!

[nadine eidloth]

akoa sa una sad kay lomi.........
nanguyab pa nuon to.........

[jeff_bonz59]

my mom is half chinese and half pinay.... my dad is pure cebuano....

usually according to my mom... dili kau mu matter ang mga chinese nga naa na tawo sa PINAS.... though there is still a sense of animosity towards other race like sa FILIPINO... but usually ang gitanaw sa mga parents kay ang kinaiya jud ug if ang GUY (pure pinoy) - KUGIHAN ba mangita ug kwarta jud... para dili magutman ilang anak nga babaye....

NOW to those coming from the mainlands... they ARE WAY WAY TOO STRICT when it comes to intermarriages jud.... sila ang mag buot para sa ilang anak... and BUYA is still prevalent among the family and relatives.... so if and if man gani pure chinese na inyong uyab.... watch out lang mo sa parents ana kay... though they are sometimes nice at you when your there... but lahi na ang batasan ana when your aren't there anymore.... they can miniscule and discriminate another race esp pinoys/pinays and if they think the family of that girl/guy nga uyab sa ilang anak doesnt have enough 'dough' at all..... aw... the dad/father will be the very strong opponent of your relationship jud.

[nadine eidloth]

my mom is half chinese and half pinay.... my dad is pure cebuano....

usually according to my mom... dili kau mu matter ang mga chinese nga naa na tawo sa PINAS.... though there is still a sense of animosity towards other race like sa FILIPINO... but usually ang gitanaw sa mga parents kay ang kinaiya jud ug if ang GUY (pure pinoy) - KUGIHAN ba mangita ug kwarta jud... para dili magutman ilang anak nga babaye....

NOW to those coming from the mainlands... they ARE WAY WAY TOO STRICT when it comes to intermarriages jud.... sila ang mag buot para sa ilang anak... and BUYA is still prevalent among the family and relatives.... so if and if man gani pure chinese na inyong uyab.... watch out lang mo sa parents ana kay... though they are sometimes nice at you when your there... but lahi na ang batasan ana when your aren't there anymore.... they can miniscule and discriminate another race esp pinoys/pinays and if they think the family of that girl/guy nga uyab sa ilang anak doesnt have enough 'dough' at all..... aw... the dad/father will be the very strong opponent of your relationship jud.

realidad lage gyod ni.
wala gyod fairy tale story...............
hay................

[angel_brey]

Based on my experience, it depends actually....

BUT, most pure chinese families, especially the traditional ones, would really want their kids or family to be linked with pure chinese families lang pod... For some, their reasons would be for business sake, mao na naay buya sa ilaha kay in a way gusto nila na ilang legacy and richness would still continue on sa future generations...

For some, and I don't mean to say it in an offensive manner but mura ra sad sa ancient egypt sauna na they marry off their cousins or close relatives or worst, SIBLINGS (Sisters or brothers) para dilia mapasa sa lain na family ang ilang yaman etc.... Even if they don't marry the one they love... for family sake, for family honor, they go through that...

But then again, pairing up a pure chinese with a pure chinese is not a sure fire recipe for success in business etc kay sa akong case for example, am not chinese, naa mn gani sa akong dugo, perti jud kagamaya...and I married a chinese guy.... BUT, between him and me, mas AKO pa ang negosyante while sya is the other way around! So depende ra jud na sya

[angel_brey]

my mom is half chinese and half pinay.... my dad is pure cebuano....

usually according to my mom... dili kau mu matter ang mga chinese nga naa na tawo sa PINAS.... though there is still a sense of animosity towards other race like sa FILIPINO... but usually ang gitanaw sa mga parents kay ang kinaiya jud ug if ang GUY (pure pinoy) - KUGIHAN ba mangita ug kwarta jud... para dili magutman ilang anak nga babaye....

NOW to those coming from the mainlands... they ARE WAY WAY TOO STRICT when it comes to intermarriages jud.... sila ang mag buot para sa ilang anak... and BUYA is still prevalent among the family and relatives.... so if and if man gani pure chinese na inyong uyab.... watch out lang mo sa parents ana kay... though they are sometimes nice at you when your there... but lahi na ang batasan ana when your aren't there anymore.... they can miniscule and discriminate another race esp pinoys/pinays and if they think the family of that girl/guy nga uyab sa ilang anak doesnt have enough 'dough' at all..... aw... the dad/father will be the very strong opponent of your relationship jud.

^^true... But it is the other way around sa akong case