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    Default my future confuse...


    sigh sigh....

    need ur advise....

    i'm confuse whether to pursue my dreams, cause i don't want to upset my parents specially my dad, if ever i won't finish it... cause i plan to proceed medicine then i don't want to be a burden to my parents since i have also 3 more siblings still studying... well, they're very supporting to me and with my plans even though they don't let me know that they are also facing some financial problem specially nowadays nga lisod ang panahon...

    now will i go for my dream or to be a practical person to work so i can help them...

    i'm really disturb with it cause i'm in between my dream and pity for my parents...

    sigh.sigh...

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    Quote Originally Posted by carbrill View Post
    sigh sigh....

    need ur advise....

    i'm confuse whether to pursue my dreams, cause i don't want to upset my parents specially my dad, if ever i won't finish it... cause i plan to proceed medicine then i don't want to be a burden to my parents since i have also 3 more siblings still studying... well, they're very supporting to me and with my plans even though they don't let me know that they are also facing some financial problem specially nowadays nga lisod ang panahon...

    now will i go for my dream or to be a practical person to work so i can help them...

    i'm really disturb with it cause i'm in between my dream and pity for my parents...

    sigh.sigh...
    Dreams are just dreams.
    You live in reality.
    Be practical.

    You have to talk with your parents.
    ask them how much they can afford if you go to school.
    If they can not afford sending you to school--
    -- then take vocational courses--
    like welding and others.

    If you work, you may not land a high paying job.
    Take small courses from Tesda. It cost so little but you will have higher paying jobs after that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soul Doctor View Post
    Dreams are just dreams.
    You live in reality.
    Be practical.

    You have to talk with your parents.
    ask them how much they can afford if you go to school.
    If they can not afford sending you to school--
    -- then take vocational courses--
    like welding and others.

    If you work, you may not land a high paying job.
    Take small courses from Tesda. It cost so little but you will have higher paying jobs after that.
    thanks for the suggestion.. but i'm almost done with my 1st course related to medicine, if ever i'll proceed my current course will be my pre-med course... now my problem is if i'll proceed to med ma pun an pa nako ang burden sa ako dad kay kanhalan pa ko nya pa skwelahon... den ma ikog na ko sa ako parents kay instead of mo tabang nako nila sa mga financial issues kay hapit nako mo grad, di na noon kay tungod sa ako plan... they(parents) are very supportive to my plan to proceed medicine...

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    trbaho lang sa bai unya pagtigum unya tabang2 pud ginagmay/dinagko unya kung inyo pamilya ok2 na ang financial status balik skwela heheh

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    Quote Originally Posted by Egoist View Post
    trbaho lang sa bai unya pagtigum unya tabang2 pud ginagmay/dinagko unya kung inyo pamilya ok2 na ang financial status balik skwela heheh
    mao sad na ako gi huna2x... mao sd lagi usikan ko sa oras nga samtang naghulat ko maka trabaho ako na lng sa iskwela kay sa ako idle ako tym just to w8 nga nay mo dawat nako... den if madawat ko pohon ide mo undang sa ko sa ako eskwela...

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    mao na ang lisod.. taking your course with your parents decision.. kaw lang ang makadecide if ever imong e pursue or not.. ang advice ra nako kung asa ka malipay and malingaw ad2 jud ka para di ka mag magmahay for the rest of your life.. try to explain your situation to you parent para pud makabalo sila..

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    thanks for ur comment... it enlightens me...

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    yes brod, trabaho lang una then if you have the job na you can proceed to your dreams na, even if dli ka mohatag nla sa imo sweldo but at least dli na pd nla burden ang imo tuition or unsa pa dha. talk to your parents about your dreams and about your plans kay arn if short ang sweldo nya ting bya tuition you can always make utang to them heheh

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    At least you already have the dream to proceed, walay imposible bro basta naa lay determinasyon, pangita lang gyud ug mga resources, sakto sila puede ka mo-work usa, puede sab mo-seek ka ug mga scholarships, mag-working student ba ka sa school, depende sa imohang capacity...

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