Need you help ( Love Advice )

[babyflor]

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Hey. I'm a new member and I need your advice. I have a boyfriend we've been together for about 2months pa. We've met coz gi pa ila2x ko sa ako friend niya then human ana nagka uyab dayon mi. His working in a Cruise Ship ( World Cruise ) like 1 month rame nagka kuyog2x then ni sakay na siya ug balik then karun halos everyday mi cge ug away tungod lng sa gagmay na butang grabe kau s seluso na masko mo call siya naku sa phone na dili raku mka tubag masuko dayon. nya maski pagkuyog nku sa akung mga friends gibawalan nku niya. then ambot ai wala jud siya salig naku kay cge ra siya ug duda na naa ba daw ko laen ka text ug unsa pana dha... I love him so much man na ako rajud ang magpa ubos cge gusto na naku siya awayon but dili ko mka buhat kay lisod kau kay layo jud kau mi lahi rjud nang naa sa duol ba na mag away mo pude rmn mag uli ra dayon mo then kana layo lahi rjud kau..then were planning to get married nig balik niya diri this november a civil wedding lang. then mag huna2x ko usahay na karun mn gani gamay na butang mag away mi then unsaon nalang kaha kung magminyo name unsa sad kaha amung awayan.. I really need your advice guys ai dili ko mka asked sa ako friend ani kay dili ko gusto makahibalo sila what I'm going through.love mn kau naku xa. na willing ko na sabton xa sa iya batasan. Need your advice guys. Hope istorya.net people can help me. and one thing kato nagka uyab mi nagka bulag mi ug maybe almost 2weeks kay i found out naa siya laen girl then nakig balik siya nku iya gi buwagan iyang laen. Do you think he really loves me?usa na ba na sa proof ang paging seluso ug strict niya naku na love ko niya..? hayyyy Im confused jud..

[sushikandi]

Girl, your boyfriend is a jerk. Leave him. From the start of your relationship he already had an affair, what makes you think he'll have another one again? His being over protective and jealous because he is defensive.. I hate to break it to you but looks like he is having an affair. You seem like a really sweet girl, I'm sure you are going to find another guy.

Tell you what, write the good things and bad things abt him & ur relationship. You'll get the idea. Truthfully, he is a *****. Leave him pronto!

[fern-pewee]

ingon ka 2months ra mo then larga cya sa barko.... give time to know eachother. lisud bitaw ang lagyo.take it from me.there are times pd nga mag selos ko. coz nag work pd ko sa gawas and there are times nga pag tawag nako kai dile cya mka tubag or if mka tubag cya naa cya pirme sa gawas with friends. dile na ma tangal sa huna2x sa both party to think.lisod ang lagyo. might as well lessen mo nlang ung nightlife mo or if mu gawas ka ask permission pd then tell him kinsa pd imo mga kuyog.. para dile cya mag duda.talk to him. mao ra mn na kinahanglan sa imo partner. what if cya pd kng ikaw naa sa iya place diba... ana lang..always think both ways.. take it easy. ayaw na i pressure imo self..just have constant communication lang! hope everything goes well

[wenlove24]

hi. sa akong opinyon, di ni magdugay inyong relationship. you know why? wa man mo ka build ug strong friendship. dali ra gud kaau mo nagkauyab. wa pa kaayo mo nagkaila ug maayo. so mas maayo ug di lang nimo e focus imong time, effort ug huna2x anang tawhana. kung niangkon ka nga love nimo siya, siguro try to picture this one out. a few months from now, a year, maybe two. ingon ana ba kaha gihapon imong ma feel nga bag0 pa lang gani kaau mo sige na mog away ug mga nonsense nga mga butang? tuo lang kana imong na feel karon nya sige mog away? dali ra kaau mawagtang nang love2x. may ug duna pay mahabilin nya ana basig hasta respeto mawagtang na nya pud. usa pa jud di mo motubo ana sa sige niyag selos, sige na lang kag agad niya unsa imong angay buhaton. maau ra na ug makaagwanta pa ka. nya ug dili na, unsaon naman lang? ayaw himo-ang piniriso imong kaugalingon. unaha ug love imong kaugalingon kay di man ka kahatag ug LOVE sa uban if di nimo Love imong kaugalingon. i think daghan pa kag mga butang nga angay nimong tagaan ug pagtagad di ba? ayaw kabalaka ug hatag panahon sa imong kaugalingon nga makasabot kas imong gibati kay natural ra na. ako mismo nakaagi ko anang mga butanga. paminaw sa mga advice esp. sa imong mga ginikanan or mga igsoon or imong mga close friends. daghan kaayong nabiktima anang gugma2x nya di diay mao. hunahunaa jud nag maayo sa makadaghan....daghan mo ingon ani pero apilan jud na nimog pag-ampo kay di kita ang pirmi mag buot2x sa atong mga desisyon. kinanglan jud nag panalangin sa Ginoo para di matibway atong mga pagpaningkamot sa maski unsang butang.

i hope nakatabang ko nimo. God bless.

[sushikandi]

Or maybe its just an adjustment for you guys. Don't rush into marriage. Wala pa kaayo mo kaila each other. Find a schedule that you both can talk to avoid arguments. But you have to keep in mind, he cheated on you. That is a deal breaker in my opinion.

[reigel99]

it's a challenge sa inyong relationship... don't rush things kung di jud mo magkasinabot.... who knows, your bf is not the right one for you after all... He maybe just one of those passers by in your life...

[babyflor]

ingon ka 2months ra mo then larga cya sa barko.... give time to know eachother. lisud bitaw ang lagyo.take it from me.there are times pd nga mag selos ko. coz nag work pd ko sa gawas and there are times nga pag tawag nako kai dile cya mka tubag or if mka tubag cya naa cya pirme sa gawas with friends. dile na ma tangal sa huna2x sa both party to think.lisod ang lagyo. might as well lessen mo nlang ung nightlife mo or if mu gawas ka ask permission pd then tell him kinsa pd imo mga kuyog.. para dile cya mag duda.talk to him. mao ra mn na kinahanglan sa imo partner. what if cya pd kng ikaw naa sa iya place diba... ana lang..always think both ways.. take it easy. ayaw na i pressure imo self..just have constant communication lang! hope everything goes well

yup mao na jud na ako gibuhat lessen ang night life " aw wala njud night life kay dili nku gusto ko ug samok kay maglagot mn siya " maosd jud na iya ingon na luot daw siya ddto kay layo ako ra daw naghatag ug inspiration iya na mo work nya kung mag laag2x daw ko dili siya mahimo tang sa work. ka understand mn ko sa iya part mao dili sd ko mo init if nasuko na siya.. Thank you sa advice. maka help jud ni naku..

[babyflor]

Girl, your boyfriend is a jerk. Leave him. From the start of your relationship he already had an affair, what makes you think he'll have another one again? His being over protective and jealous because he is defensive.. I hate to break it to you but looks like he is having an affair. You seem like a really sweet girl, I'm sure you are going to find another guy.

Tell you what, write the good things and bad things abt him & ur relationship. You'll get the idea. Truthfully, he is a *****. Leave him pronto!

grabe kau kay kag advice girl " leave him jud dayon sa way paglangan " anyway thanks sa advice maka help ni but I need to think it first pa after all its my decision that matters not the advice.. Thank you for being a girl power..

[kaZzzPer]

^_^ trust issues and cheating are major deal breakers in a relationship. i can't say more. god bless!

[reginakrys]

ayaw pagminyo kay karon pa lang, nag antos naka..