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True Love Waits

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, 07-17-2010 at 08:16 PM (5950 Views)

I attended a seminar about True Love Waits earlier today, July 17 @ CIT-University held at the school's AVR. And I thought of ranting my thoughts here.

I think I'm being pressured by what the world dictates with regards to dating. "Am I ready to pursue someone?", "will God be happy if I step into dating now when in fact I should be prioritizing my studies?"

THE 5 PERSONS THAT DESERVE MY TRUE LOVE

God deserves my True Love
I need True Love
my Family & Friends
my Future Mate
my Future Kids need True Love.

I have to admit it that I am really pressured to having a boyfriend especially that most of my peers at school has one. But I've discerned it over for a very long time already, and I'm sure that I'm not ready for it. It's still a long way to go before graduating the course I am enrolled in and having a stable and successful career in the future. Thus, I will do my best not to be in a relationship in college. Not because I think that it might be one of the hindrances/factors that I'd not be able to reach my goal. Hehe.

I'm still 17 years old and I'm not even near to 21 which is, as we all know, the legal age. I'm young by age but I stand humble saying that I am mature of thinking. I've been into few YOUNG relationships before and it made me realize so many things already. It made me a batter person now. Weee.

As I am waiting, I am making the best of my time responding to His call. And I am sure that someone out there is waiting for me too. Hehe. Until I meet that person, I'd stand proud and say, "I am worth waiting for." But also, it's not only my future mate that needs my true love. The other four also do.

AD-LIB:
I've been into 3 relationships already. Naka realize ko ba, bati'a diay anang every after buwag sa uyab, AT THIS YOUNG AGE, makakita dayon lain uyab. Then in the long run, you sum up all of them, nia daghan na kaayo ba. Mura'g TRIAL-AND-ERROR thing gani. Di nako ganahan ana, mao ng careful na kaayo ko ron. Nagpa reserved type nako. But still, it's not obvious cause I'm such an outgoing girl. Hehe. Basta, I promise myself nga di sa mag uyab uyab. I HOPE DI KO MADALA SA PRESSURE

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moy1moy1 - 07-17-2010 08:23 PM
I have to admit it that I am really pressured to having a boyfriend especially that most of my peers at school has one.

It all started here...

Well, what makes it interesting is that you have realize something today hehehe

Updated 07-17-2010 at 08:39 PM by moy1moy1
kurdapia.nikki - 07-17-2010 08:26 PM
Hehe. Biggest realization kaayu nako na ron Moy. Nisamot pajud ganina pag seminar. Na enlightened ko'g maayo.
anjerika - 07-18-2010 04:25 PM
nice one nikki.
-aa- - 07-18-2010 09:32 PM
agree jud ko ani.. enough with the trial-and-error thingy.. i had 2 relationships already.. long term puros.. 5 years and 2 years.. i thought they are the one.. and i don't know.. it all turned out bad.. i mean, naa jud sa both relationships nako na akong partner kay naay lain.. not once, not twice but more than that.. it hurts a lot thinking what did i miss to give them? what did i do wrong? was loving them too much the wrong thing i did? did i overdo it? but after sessions of counseling with friends... i realized i missed a lot in the world.. coz when makauyab ko, focus jud ko sa akong uyab.. him and only him alone.. which i thought was a right thing but nah... it was my mistake.. so i am taking this time off to learn to love myself... and my friends... without a boyfriend yet.. and learn to know myself better alone.. and of course, preserving myself for the one who will really cherish, treasure and be thankful of me every moment of his life..... someone who God made especially for me... to have a future family not like mine today....

unya girls.. SISA nata ani ron ha?
Single and Satisfied.. hehehe
thePUPPETEER - 07-26-2010 03:22 PM
ed_ebs - 08-18-2010 09:07 AM
saon nlang tong, crush nmo nga murag uyab na nmo kurdapsnikki. matod pa nmo sa laing thread. heheh..

btaw, good that you shared your thoughts here in istorya. I can see that you have goals to reach and you are very determined to pursue that. Yes, I agree.. you are worth waiting for.

young paman dyka kau niks. hehe. im 10yrs older than you. you may call me kuya already. hahah..
kurdapia.nikki - 08-18-2010 12:51 PM
HAHAHHA. Kuya Ed, naa koi goal.
Nga di jud unta mag uyab uyab. Not because I'm hard to get.
Pero ganahan ko that this is not like any other 2- or 3-month love affair. At least have myself assured nga my next relationship would last long.

Pero naa ju'y niabot nga laki.
Murag right love at the wrong time xa nga situation.
And ambot lang basin dili na nuon nako ma reach ako goal tungod sa akong gi undergo karon. Pfffff.