The thing with most girls but not all of them though.

[KyoRebirth]

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Ok here's a thing I noticed and I know ang uban nakabantay pud ani.

I am not misogynistic though...


Most Girls usually say "I prefer a nice guy who will treat me like a princess" But they end up with guys who treat them the opposite way. They end up crying ang kasagaran adto padulong sa guys nga naibog nila nga ilang gbutang sa friendzone, asking for intellectual and emotional support. The nice guy will offer help and comfort but the girl see's the nice guy as just a friend or a best friend, nothing more and nothing less, then after ma ulian na ang girl they say thank you to the nice guy, gives a hug then after a week, balik napud si girl sa iyang barumbado nga boyfriend and the cycle is neverending.


We hear these lines from girls often "Where are all the nice guys in the world?" or wala nay tarong nga lalake nabilin sa kalibutan and etc..

Actually gpang friendzone ra sa girls ang nice guys nga na attract nila. And they fail to grasp that the nice guy will always be there for them when they need them, But the nice guys wishes to enter a relationship with the girl though, pero the girl will only see him, See him as a friend, a brother, or a best friend.



Any comments about this? Am I the only one seeing things this way?

Girls, no violent reactions please.. ^_^

[meGusta]

naigo ko ani dah!

[yvonne6]

thats not true at all. even if u end up a failed relationship and move to the next person you thought was right, there will still be challenges in that relationship. ang nakapaet man gud sa mga taw karon, we are all very impatient na, ug dili gani nato makuha ang atong gusto ug expectations sa usa ka taw, we are quick to move to the next available person offering to love us, ug di mo work, the cycle goes on. this is why nagka daghan ang single parents, both men and women is because we just lack the courage and patience to be with that person if they turn out to be different from what we thought they are. ang kanang pag end sa mga babay sa bad guys or mga laki nga magpahilak lang nila, i think its more challenging for women man gud kung mabag o nila ang laki tungod sa love sa laki nila. u will often hear, sa una, bugoy akong bana and adik2, but nag bag o siya, iyang gibiyaan iyang bisyo para nako. para sa ubang girls, mura nakag nakadaog ug lotto ana. murag wala kaauy challenge ug super good boy ang imong uyab, but then para nako, wala pako makasugat ug super good boy. well, there was one guy i really like, super ideal for a bf but then he was way younger than i am and friends ra sad jud mi..just my thought

[neversaydie]

There are times the girl doesn't know that the one she considered as the nice guy, has a feeling for her.. specially when they have been frineds for a long time and they comfort each other.

[KyoRebirth]

thats not true at all. even if u end up a failed relationship and move to the next person you thought was right, there will still be challenges in that relationship. ang nakapaet man gud sa mga taw karon, we are all very impatient na, ug dili gani nato makuha ang atong gusto ug expectations sa usa ka taw, we are quick to move to the next available person offering to love us, ug di mo work, the cycle goes on. this is why nagka daghan ang single parents, both men and women is because we just lack the courage and patience to be with that person if they turn out to be different from what we thought they are. ang kanang pag end sa mga babay sa bad guys or mga laki nga magpahilak lang nila, i think its more challenging for women man gud kung mabag o nila ang laki tungod sa love sa laki nila. u will often hear, sa una, bugoy akong bana and adik2, but nag bag o siya, iyang gibiyaan iyang bisyo para nako. para sa ubang girls, mura nakag nakadaog ug lotto ana. murag wala kaauy challenge ug super good boy ang imong uyab, but then para nako, wala pako makasugat ug super good boy. well, there was one guy i really like, super ideal for a bf but then he was way younger than i am and friends ra sad jud mi..just my thought

I got your point there yvonne, murag some girls really like challenges especially in changing the ones who's an archetype outlaw biker or a badboy type. And they usually and more oftentimes, reject the ones who is too nice, i mean those guys who act like a doormat and will do anything for the girl.

[killravel]

Ok here's a thing I noticed and I know ang uban nakabantay pud ani.

I am not misogynistic though...


Most Girls usually say "I prefer a nice guy who will treat me like a princess" But they end up with guys who treat them the opposite way. They end up crying ang kasagaran adto padulong sa guys nga naibog nila nga ilang gbutang sa friendzone, asking for intellectual and emotional support. The nice guy will offer help and comfort but the girl see's the nice guy as just a friend or a best friend, nothing more and nothing less, then after ma ulian na ang girl they say thank you to the nice guy, gives a hug then after a week, balik napud si girl sa iyang barumbado nga boyfriend and the cycle is neverending.


We hear these lines from girls often "Where are all the nice guys in the world?" or wala nay tarong nga lalake nabilin sa kalibutan and etc..

Actually gpang friendzone ra sa girls ang nice guys nga na attract nila. And they fail to grasp that the nice guy will always be there for them when they need them, But the nice guys wishes to enter a relationship with the girl though, pero the girl will only see him, See him as a friend, a brother, or a best friend.



Any comments about this? Am I the only one seeing things this way?

Girls, no violent reactions please.. ^_^

I do understand your point, siguro lang(in my opinion), tungod lge kay na belong ang guy sa friendzone niya, then tungod pud kay ni focus sya much to someone nga gusto niya, wah niya makita ang mga taw nga willing to be nice and to be with her(loving her).... but she count the negativeness behind people she loved instead of counting everyone around her. anah lang!

[jaysflava]

naka gets ko sa imong point TS , ngano kaha ingun ana na sa....

[mbneiz]

mao nay g ingon be bad sometimes.. bitaw agree ko ani, ang nakapait kay kitang tarung murag pahungawan ra sa mga broken hearted nga girl, ug mka move on na balik na pud sa bugoy type nga guy, be sugdan ta ug binugoy be

[KyoRebirth]

naka gets ko sa imong point TS , ngano kaha ingun ana na sa....

I have the same question pud bay. Ngano kaha sa?


Girls ngano ingon ana man mo? hehehe.

[KyoRebirth]

mao nay g ingon be bad sometimes.. bitaw agree ko ani, ang nakapait kay kitang tarung murag pahungawan ra sa mga broken hearted nga girl, ug mka move on na balik na pud sa bugoy type nga guy, be sugdan ta ug binugoy be

I was thinking pud, ang mga barumbado naa jud sila confidence as in max confidence mao na maka ingon ang uban nga gara. But for girls, that attitude reflects confidence and assertiveness like an alpha male for example.


I tried asking some girls about this, and I asked them for an open minded opinion and they said, they don't know why they get attracted unto them. Sexy kuno ng bagsik nga may pgka adik2x ug barumbado.


LOL