LOVE CAN NOT EXTEND ITSELF INTO MARRIAGE
This is because lovers must grant everything to one another, mutually and gratuitously, without being constrained by any motive of necessity. Husband and wife, on the other hand, are bound by duty to deny each other nothing.
Considering that no one should be deprived of love, BEING MARRIED MUST NOT PREVENT ONE FROM SEEKING IT ELSEWHERE. The only requirements of extramarital lovers are that they are honest, they are truly exciting and the have achieved adulthood. An insatiable appetite of one partner for the other is considered ideal.
NO DEVICE IS TOO EXTREME IF IT KEEPS THIS PASSION ALIVE. MAINTAINING A SECRET AFFAIR MAY BE FAVORABLE, not so much for the sake of decency as for the sake of excitement. Whoever cannot keep a secret cannot love. Guarded jealousy may also be useful. And though we are not specifically recommending or even condoning the employment of force, a resisting lover is always more desirable.
No one can be ultimately involved with two lovers at the same time. But just as nothing restricts one man from an affair with two women, NOTHING PREVENTS ONE WOMAN FROM AN AFFAIR WITH TWO MEN.
Love itself is always in a state of flux, either increasing or diminishing. After it begins to diminish, it dies rapidly. At that time, new love is an adequate excuse to quit the old.
What one loses in sleep over love, one makes up for in what one does not eat. But persons who are either too wealthy or too happy in their own lives tend to lose the need of love. It should also serve as a warning that those who are prone to love are equally prone to fear.