LOVE Actually.....REALITY Is... (share lang nako!)

[angel_brey]

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I am not sure if anyone has ever posted this here, but if somebody has, mods, kindly delete or merge or what!

This is something that EVERYONE should read and this is something that could apply to BOTH S3X. Enjoy!

Do not fall in love everytime you fall in bed.
… Learn to detach emotionally.
S3X does not equal commitment.


Do not revolve your entire life around him/her.
… Addiction is bad for your health!


Do not cling, act needy or demand.
… Doormats are for your feet, not your heart.
It’s OK to say NO!


Stop talking so much. NEVER reveal everything.


Do not grill them or their friends for information.
Master the art of LISTENING.


Treat him/her as you would your best friend.
Friendship creates long term love and comes before
***.


FORGET about fixing your partner. IT WILL NEVER
HAPPEN.
Your choice of partner is a reflection of who you
are and who you are not!


Enjoy the moment first. Live in the present.
… Don’t worry about the ex’s or start naming
your future children.


NEVER read their journal or go through their
paperwork.
… If you have no trust, you have no relationship.


Allow space and freedom between you.
DO NOT always be available.


Calling frequently is a turn off and signals
insecurity, neediness and control.


Open your eyes to lies and cheating, OR… close
them, justify the bad behavior, and live with the
consequences.


Little or no eye contact? Start walking. They
won’t even notice youre gone.


Anyone preoccupied with their physical appearance
and dress, usually have very little or nothing to
offer from within. … Look beyond the physical!


Never compromise your values.
If you OVER give, you will lose your lover and his
respect. DO NOT LOSE YOUR IDENTITY.


December/May relationships are great. However,
seasons change and the May lover will sooner or
later, hear the call of Spring.


If someone REALLY wants to be with you, they will be.


Sleeping with a married man?! Don’t count on him
divorcing anytime soon.
State your personal rules in the very beginning or
expect them to be broken.


If they ask to be just friends, be just that and
look elsewhere for a love partner.
If someone wants to really be with you, they will.
If they keep giving reasons for not calling or say
they are extremely busy, GET THE HINT, leave them
alone.


Marriage before thirty is an inevitable
celebration for divorce.


Don’t ever give up your friends for him/her.
If your partner one day leaves you, be sure you
have friends, money, a career and a life of your
own which you never gave up. … If you do not,
who do you have to blame but yourself!
"Hopeless romantics are only hopeless in the eyes
of those who don’t believe in romance"

[EightEqualsD]

December/May relationships are great. However,
seasons change and the May lover will sooner or
later, hear the call of Spring.

just addition info - DECEMBER/MAY = one partner (male or female) is 10 or more years older than his/her partner hehe