need your advices. partner wants to relocate to manila

[babyred86]

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hello guys,

its about me and my partner, we're not married yet but we have a baby already, but he wants to relocate us in manila as soon as we get married but the thing is I don't wanna live there plus he is a seaman and leaves for 8 mos.. and is only home for now for only 4 mos. i don't know anybody in manila. what if something happens to us there and we don't know anybody.. its been terrifying me a lot and it makes me think twice about the wedding.. and i know its been making him think twice too.. he wants to live in manila because it is convenient for him daw pra sa iyang work.. but i don't know.. i'm just thinking about me and my baby provided the situation.. i really don't know.. my query is whether i should agree to him or not

[kit_cebu]

cebu.................for a gazillion reasons.......

plus, if cebuano bana nimo, no reason to go to manila...plus sa facts nimong gipangmention...

well, that's just me....

[babyred86]

he's from manila.. and whatever the decision it would always be bias either way.. huhu.. its been hurting our relationship njd.. i want to live here in cebu mn jd.. if adto ko sa manila.. i wont be happy.. .and it would also compromise our relationship..
paet kaau.. everything feels so wrong na jd

[LUPEN 111]

TS dapat naa jud naa mu sacrifice n u... kung dli sya .. mybe ikaw jud..... just to save ur relationship... ayaw sa gud hunahuna og mga negative kung usa mahitabo nmu didto..... just always think positive.......

[trex654@yahoo.com]

just be positive wla pa gani ka kadto sa manila just a good communacations between the two of u......basta supportive ra siya ug responsable wlay kay kahadlokan...fear leads to failure...and most of all a lot of prayers...

[d!orj]

hmm,,, yaw sah think ug mga nega na things,,i know manila is so crowded,,if ako cebu jud ko but the fact na ur partner wants to puyo there try lang sah,,anah man jd nah need man jud ka mag adjust but n tym ma ok nana,,u can just visit cebu anytime man pud,,heheh think positive,,,

[annegela]

hi sis.lisod gyud na imong situation karon.but suwayi lang didto sa manila sis basin diay everything will come out fine.in life we all have sacrifices to make.pero di man kaau lisod ang sa imong situation.Pray to the Lord lang nga He will guide you whatever decision you make.

[onlyvic]

TS dapat naa jud naa mu sacrifice n u... kung dli sya .. mybe ikaw jud..... just to save ur relationship... ayaw sa gud hunahuna og mga negative kung usa mahitabo nmu didto..... just always think positive.......

YEAh i agree. one has to sacrifice and an open communication will really help you guys.. and manila isnt that bad naman.. naa man gani k okaron sa cebu. .so far, maka mingaw cya and to think ako boyfriend naa diha cebu. if safety ang cocnern, find a place na dli mingaw ang neiborhood. and for sure, you'll meet new people. =)

[babyred86]

its just that i love cebu so much.. huhu.. i have everything here..

dli mn sd xa mu sugot ug try try.. he wants na sure jd daw kai maau daw ng krn na xa magbalay daan didto kaysa inig kasal n daw namu..

i want our son to be cebuano, is that too selfish of me?.

manila is a horrible place to live. i was there during the bagyong ondoy and another bagyo last year..which flooded the house..

[MrDavedalogdog]

sacrifeci lang sa gamay girl