Shall i still wait?

[windfara]

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I have a bf for 9 years . . we were so exclusive and loyal to each other. . we are like couples already. . .i got pregnant and when he knew that we were having a baby the very first thing that came to his mouth was "IM NOT READY, LETS HAVE THE BABY OUT AND I WILL STAY WITH YOU". . ouch right i know!!!! for the whole duration of my pregnancy i was standing alone. . .when my angel was born he came back and we were ok for a while. . .but now its stating all over again. . .he is doing his disappearing act. . .he didnt even ask for the child nor give any child support. . am i still going to wait till he woke up? . . . WHAT WILL I DO?

-windfara-

[Sol_Itaire]

you can set him aside for now and just focus on the baby

[THE KID]

wat the hell is wrong with that guy?...gihilabtan ka nya pag mabdos mura lang og wala?dont expect anything from him.....

[rheo08]

leave that guy..

[annerhexian]

no matter what happen... hold on and focus only to ur self and the baby...
and when realization comes.. then decide....

[cptn_star]

9 years, or no matter how many years wouldn't be a guarantee.

[thereseclaireanne]

9 years, or no matter how many years wouldn't be a guarantee.

true..

if he can't offer any support or bisan to stay with you and your baby which is supposed to be his family now, better start a new chapter in life without him..

[kimleeKINO_choi]

9 years, or no matter how many years wouldn't be a guarantee.

INDEED! naa gni 10years plus TS nga ngbuwag japon...then ang batasan niya immature. Dli sya immature towards u but towards ur angel super immature. DL kaayo..dawat limpio. Im not saying leave him but ikaw unsa imo tan-aw BEST thing to do? hmmm...then focus MUCH on ur baby. Nothing else matters in this world but to be a good mother to a child.

[aLohaBby]

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i agree. dawat limpyo lang jd. and it seems he's not interested to help you raising your child considering that it's also his. maayo unta toh if ni balik siya nimo and will assure you to help you. pero kana iyang 'disappearing' act kay murag na hadlok man na mu own ug responsibility. it's up to you to wait, but i think you should poke him real hard before you do.

[bokreyes]

before any decision, have a good discussion . ask the guy about what his thoughts are, what he intends to do and if he wants you to wait (if yes, what for and how long) . also know if it is ok with him just in case you decide not to wait and move on without him good luck