gipa-asa nasad ko

[darsmith13]

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grabe jud ning bayhana, kahibaw ko nga wala pa xa ka realize unsa kasakit iya gibuhat..

about a year ago, ako best-friend whom i secretly love kay naka-close ug ako rasad migo nga bag.o pa gibuwagan sa iyang uyab ug wa pa ka getover.. naka sense man ko nga murag naa xay plano panguyaban ako bestfriend, mao to i tried to intervene, i told my best friend that i love her and i dont want her to be a temporary refuge or "panakip-butas" sa akong migo.. pero she turned down my love and continued to date the guy, naguba among friendship and i suffered 4 months of heartache whenever i see them together kay schoolmate raman mi.. karon almost 8 months na cla ga kuyog2x, wa juy formal nga courtship, murag MU2x ra ba..

pero 2 weeks ago, nakigbalik ang ex sa akong migo niya, so kagat dayon to akong migo leaving my bestfriend hanging, this is what i fear that would happen, sakto jud ko, panakip-butas rajud xa.. she deserves more, pero i dont want to go through all that pain again, kay basin dili na nako ma endure..

karon cge na paramdam ako bestfriend nako, nagtuo tngali xa nga im still in love with her after what she did.. naa paman gamay, pero gamay nalang jud.. kay sa akong pag-analyze, murag himuon rasad ko niyag panakip-butas..

natinuod rajud akong mga gisulti saona nga, "ari ra gihapon na siya padung nako", ug "inig biyaan na siya, wa naman nay lain daganan"

last tuesday nag team building mi, teammate mi sa akong bestfriend, naa toy activity wherein you close your eyes and somebody will get behind you and hug you while giving you his/her message. siya ang nasa likod nako, she said sorry nga wala xa naminaw nako ug sorry sa tanan niya gibuhat

unsa inyo opinion? saw-on gihapon nako xa? or no deal na kay basin masakitan nasad kog balik?

[ahyango]

bro, this is a situation in retrogress and maybe wa lang ka nka notice or basin ka notice ka.. you still refer to her as your bestfriend.. i hope not for a lack of better term.. but what i think is.. your friendship with that girl should supercede the hurt that she unintentionally brought to you.. wa man to niya g tuyo bro.. na best friends man m gud.. so at that time she thought na m support ka niya ug sa kato migo nimu (kay again, amigo biya m) dont reject the person.. reject what she did.. now karon, na nag sorry siya.. take her back.. as your bestfriend.. and ayaw na panguyab balik kay "gamay" naman lang kha..

[reginakrys]

maybe she just needs a bestfriend right now.. she's not giving any indication nga she wants to be romantically involved with you..

[bastywarts]

bro daryl,sa panan.aw nako,murag himuon rapud ka niyag panakip butas ana dah..mu anha ra cya nmo kung wa nay lain daganan..dont tell me if the wrong guy comes along again,the same process ghpn,imo cya warningan nya d gihapun cya mu patu.o then mu balik nasad cya nmo?ahhhhhhhh ngiga gud!!kung wa na cyay kalingawan,anha nasad cya nmo?

but i know wen u love a person,willing gihpn ka mu accept niya balik,inspite of her faults and mistakes..thats d reality of love tingali..

u might listen to our opinions bro,but i have a feeling u'l eventually be in her arms again..hahahah..

pangita nalang ug model bay..shockingly,ul find them the most insecure of persons,and they'll love you like ders no tomorrow..nya inspite of their perfectness,they'l still think na ugly cla,all the more magpagwapa cla maayu para nmo..mura btaw desperate kaayu cla ug long term relationships..but thats just my gf tho,wa ko kbaw sa uban..hahahahah

anywayz,back to the topic..btaw,if i wer on your shoes,friends nalang ako turing niya,dli na bestfriends..laina sad ui..unya ra cya mubalik kung magkawala najud tanan..anu ka sineswerte?haha

gamita imo pagkagwapo bro dar hehe

[Rajzh_niX]

saw-a bai...you two were best friends, don't break the friendship...kahibaw ko nga sakit jud kaayo imo gibati....but what she needs now is a friend....at least giangkon niya iyang sala....time to mend things...it is not about getting even....

[darsmith13]

bro, this is a situation in retrogress and maybe wa lang ka nka notice or basin ka notice ka.. you still refer to her as your bestfriend.. i hope not for a lack of better term.. but what i think is.. your friendship with that girl should supercede the hurt that she unintentionally brought to you.. wa man to niya g tuyo bro.. na best friends man m gud.. so at that time she thought na m support ka niya ug sa kato migo nimu (kay again, amigo biya m) dont reject the person.. reject what she did.. now karon, na nag sorry siya.. take her back.. as your bestfriend.. and ayaw na panguyab balik kay "gamay" naman lang kha..

btaw noh, now i noticed.. heheh.. bestfriend man diay gihapon ako term niya.. thanks jud.. thats one of the things i never would have realized by myself

maybe she just needs a bestfriend right now.. she's not giving any indication nga she wants to be romantically involved with you..

true, wala jud siya'y gisulti unsa iya tuyo.. maybe sakto ka nga she just needs a friend.. but just seeing her hurt and damaged, breaks my heart.. i distanced myself from her man gud since ato nga incident, i know selfish kaau ako gibuhat nga pagpalayo pero i dont have any choice, staying too close hurts too much.. im too afraid to get hurt again to the extent that i even fear the thought of being her bestfriend..

ni txt to xa ganiha asking me where am i, ako gi reply "in ur heart" binuang ragud to kay wa koy lingaw, ug wala to nako gituyo..

then she replied "yes you are in my heart but im pretty sure im not in urs anymore"..

ako pud gi ingnan "coz i think u are in sumbody else's"

lol.. unsa naman ni oi.. wa jud ko kasabot...

[bastywarts]

yea get even bro,and get hurt all over again..i see the same pattern..but naa ra nmo bro,u know your best friend better than i do

[darsmith13]

bro daryl,sa panan.aw nako,murag himuon rapud ka niyag panakip butas ana dah..mu anha ra cya nmo kung wa nay lain daganan..dont tell me if the wrong guy comes along again,the same process ghpn,imo cya warningan nya d gihapun cya mu patu.o then mu balik nasad cya nmo?ahhhhhhhh ngiga gud!!kung wa na cyay kalingawan,anha nasad cya nmo?

but i know wen u love a person,willing gihpn ka mu accept niya balik,inspite of her faults and mistakes..thats d reality of love tingali..

u might listen to our opinions bro,but i have a feeling u'l eventually be in her arms again..hahahah..

pangita nalang ug model bay..shockingly,ul find them the most insecure of persons,and they'll love you like ders no tomorrow..nya inspite of their perfectness,they'l still think na ugly cla,all the more magpagwapa cla maayu para nmo..mura btaw desperate kaayu cla ug long term relationships..but thats just my gf tho,wa ko kbaw sa uban..hahahahah

anywayz,back to the topic..btaw,if i wer on your shoes,friends nalang ako turing niya,dli na bestfriends..laina sad ui..unya ra cya mubalik kung magkawala najud tanan..anu ka sineswerte?haha

gamita imo pagkagwapo bro dar hehe

hehehe sakto ka fafa basty .. pero unsaon taman ning kagwapo kung dili ma-imo ang imong pinalangga(wa ko niingon nga gwapo ko ha) hehehehe..

[lovelygirl]

Just stay friend with her, it is better to remain friends than lovers...

[tenzor73p]

bai dapat buhaton ta ana imung bestfren PIKATAN pero sayup na cya hahahha ni sorry na man kaha cya dapat pasaylo on na nimu balika lng inyung frenship ky sayang pd pero kng di na ka inlove niya ayaw lng pugsa hehehe nice story by the way hekhek