insecure girlfriend/boyfriend..wat to do?

[bastywarts]

---

in my case,how do u deal with an insecure girlfriend?like,naa na niya tanan..she has all the looks a man could possibly dream of,she has nice wheels,nice everything..but insecure ghpn cya..it goes like this..(for gals,pls do suggest ways on how to deal with your insecure bf,if ever he is one )

ako girlfriend,insecure..why?coz everytym naa mu tan.aw nako girl or bayut,mu sirit jud dayun iyang dugo,like she would constantly and rudely stare at the person,and hadluk ko makakita nya mi away bah..believe me,i love my girlfriend so much,but usahay makalagot lang iyang pagkainsecure..and to think she's 5'10,half spanish half pinay,has a whooping salary,model pajud ug sikat na agency,and nindut pajud kaaaayu ug sakyanan..ako man gani dapat ma insecure,kay daghaaaaaaan jud kaayu mulingi niya,makalagot kaayu pag sugod,pero im not insecure,so i treat it as a positive sign,kay attractive kaayu aku gf,nya naswerte.an jud ko..

pareha ato pag last friday,nagpa enroll ko pra sakong masteral,nya ako cya gkuyog..sus kay daghan2x man nanglingi nako pag enrollment,nya nakuyawan jud ko kay nihilom na cya ug kalit,ako huna2x kay "hala mao najud ni,nana sad ni!"..and true enough,gduol jud toh niya ang girl cgi tutok nako,nya gprangkahan niya so on and so forth..honestly,flattered ko pag first tym na niya nagpakita signs na insecure cya,kay i feel na she's really into me,but really..as in really..its getting to my nerves,and makalagot najud usahay..i dont know what to tell her kay nahadlok pud ko gamay basig mangluod nya cya maayu..unsa man dapat nako buhatun oy pra dli na cya ma insecure??pls tambagi ko


mga istoryanz,tan aw ninyu kinsa na gender ang mas prone to insecurities?

and guys?


or and girls?

[Githyanki]

Both sides are prone to insecurities.

Well first i would say that maybe from a previous relationship she feels insecure so she is afraid of getting hurt, but if you haven't done anything like cheat or not giving her attention then there is something wrong with her. i feel that you should sit down and have a talk to her because i can see how that is frustrating. This will always be something that will be an issue in the relationship till she is secure with herself. Not saying that you should break up, but really evaluate the relationship and if she is worth being with you will work at always making her feel secure whether its telling her she is beautiful everyday, but if your not giving her a reason than she just has insecurities of her own that she needs to consider looking into.

[bastywarts]

i almost spend my whole day with her..from lunch til dinner..coz we work at the same company..and yes,i never cease to tell her how gorgeous she is everyday,and tell her how much i am very lucky to have her..but she doesnt realize how wonderful and great she is..kumbaga,wa cya kbaw unsa cya ka gwapa..i dont really know why she's insecure,to think,she really has it all nah..if i had enough savings,musugot jud ko pakaslan nako cya..hehe..thats how much i really love her..samok lang jud usahay kay mu tukar jud pgkainsecure,like she would jokingly(joke ra kuno matud pa niya) tell me nah every girl ako masturyaan kay nag chansing kuno nako..like hallleeeeerrr??na badtrip lang jud ko today kay pakapinan pajud sa init sa kalibutan!!!

[donkikinow]

It only shows how she loves you. Swerte na kayo ka niya. Pasabta lng siya,ingnaa nga "di ka angay ma insecure kay naa na nmo tanan. Ayaw kabalaka di man sad tka iilis." Knahanglan ang trust sa relationship bro. Bisan pag pla na kabuok ang muduol,mutan-aw ug magchar2 nmo bsta impt ang pagsalig. Ipasalig nya nga di nmo cya iilis bsan knsang bae. love man kha nmo cya?

[foefighters]

i'll stay away with him before it's getting too late................

[lovelots23]

some reasons na ma insecure ang babae is if ang lalaki is murag walay plano sa future.try to ask her if nahan ba siya na kamo magkadayon and have family or kids.then unsa iya gusto na good sa inyo relationship. i pa feel niya na she part of your life like himo mo mga plans. i just broke up my with bf kay insecure pud ko and dili cya ganahan sa akong pagka-insecure.it started when na feel nako na daghan kau siya or friends na girl and wala pa cya plano sa future.siyempre if love nimo ang tawo nahan gyud ka mo feel na special sad ka niya.wala guro niya na feel na special siya.

[sHenZee03]

I'll kiss her every time she starts to get insecure, if she was my gf. :P

[sushikandi]

Your girlfriend is ridiculously insecure and she is very unreasonable bro. She is still immature, you tell her and give her assurance that she doesn't really have any reason to be insecure. Tell her how you really feel about her being confrontational. I mean, bro ka ulaw man lang ana oi kalit lang cya ug sugod. For me lang bro ha, its very unlady like of her. Think about it, if imu pana ipa dayun ingana na kina iya, don't you think it will get any worst? Basin ang selosan pud ana kay imung family and all.

This is going to be an issue in your relationship if this will not be resolved. ASAP.

[Su-Hae]

mas insecure ng girls Bas..mao bitaw conscious ky mi sa among looks..hehe..

ani nalang if naay motan.aw nimo nga mga babay or bayot..imong gf ra juy tanawa..ay na to sila pansina..hehe..

[TEDA]

bantug ra wala nakai txt2 ug kuyog namo ahp!
OTHERS! hahahahahahahahah

bitao, if nai mlingi nmu, akbayi siya ey. to let that someone na ntanaw nmu na naa nkai uyab and siya mau tag.iya nmu. ingani mn sad ko sauna sa past nko, but everytime nai mlingi nia, imbis na ipakita nko na insecure or nglagot ko, ako nlng nuon xa iduot or sungugon. labi na kung bayot, hahahahahah. mgkbuang njud kog katawa. xa nlng gud msuko. hahahahaa