Advice you would give to your "Love Ones"

[Ginalyn]

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Its quite frustrating to say things and repeat advices to your family and love ones
when the things you are saying were not being heard.
As a parent and spouse I usually try to correct them
but there are times it will just makes you sound like a nagger.

I would like to make a social experiment on how well we can express those advices
and how would it affect the way they listen to those advices.


Advice you would give to your "Love Ones".
--is a thread I designed to help us express to our loved ones
the things we wanted them to do,
that they just usually ignore.

Here we express the things we want them to do
but are tired of saying it over and over.

Just so we would not sound like a nagger,
I like to express it on this thread hoping they would read this
and would finally make an impact on them.

Feel free to add in all your advices to your love ones.
Advices are all welcomed.
You may also ask questions to have better understand of the situation.

No debates please.
And keep those comments down to the serious and the necessary.
Respect everyone and do not judge.

[Ginalyn]

Let me start

To my son:

Minimize playing Dota.

As a child your time should be spent on things that will enhance you in any way.
Dota and other online games only gives you temporary high, boost on your confidence
and a feeling of accomplishment.

But, in the real world
you wasted your time and money on an activity that has no value.
It would be better to play basketball, badminton, or any actual games and sport,
than to play virtual or computer games.

[Ginalyn]

To me eldest daughter:

You got yourself pregnant at a young age and married before you finished school.
I let you enroll this year hoping you would take your studies seriously.
But you still are into Dota and you neglect your baby.

A mother's job is not just providing breast milk for your baby
and take her pictures and posting it on facebook.
You need to spend quality time with her.
You need to bond with her by doing things for her (bath her, feed her, dress her and give her the care she needed).
You need to lookout for her future too. As well as your own.
You have a little person now that depends on you.

Be responsible

Do not just sit in front of a computer, play wastorm and facebook with friends while you leave your daughter in front of the tvwatching backyadigans and little einsteins.

Find productive things to do.
Clean your room.
Do not leave everything to the helpers.
Rest during nighttime while your baby is asleep.

You always stays up at night on your computers and sleep at 4am
just in time for your baby to wake up.
and when your baby wakes and cries in the early dawn ---- you are deeply asleep.
Leaving your baby awake and crying ---
--which also awakes the rest of the house.

[annerhexian]

TO MY MAMA:
Ma if wala tay kwarta, yaw sd pag yaw2 dira.. ang ang pugson nato na wala man jud tay warta.
Kabalo kow ang pinalanggang baboy nimo kay nag hangus2 na sa kagutom
chill ma.. maka pangita tag paagi ana.

TO PAPA:
Pa, pag excercise oi kay imong sakit dili lalem.. Daghn kaayu ka sakit ron... nagbalik2 pa jud.
ampingi imo self pa. Kaon maayu.. daghn utan dira diba? uu eat veges para sa imong health.
bsta wala blema if bntay ko ospital pero manta maayu na ka pa para atlest lag sik pa ka kay wala pa baya kay apo.. umaabot pa.
dont get me wrong, im not preggy. hahahaha ang asawa n manoy akong ghuwat na ma mabdos na tawn..

TO MANOY:
oi pas pasi tawn para maka anak namo. wala jud tay niece/nephew ane. dugay na kaayu mow. hahahaah!
bahala gd ga skwela kag ETEAAP bsta naa ka usa ka bby dira para among duwa duwa an. hahaha

TO MANANG:
Nang, nus a ka pakasal? hahha asa na imo uyab? hahaha btaw mo larga jud ka? btaw btaw kung unsa plano nmo.. be careful and be healthy always

TO PETOY:
HOy amaw... yaw na shift! kapoya nmo oi.. hahhahahh yaw cgeg inom2 ug fb addict dira. pag tarung pra maka minyu na ni atong usa ka maguwang. hahahhaha

TO MY FRIENDS:
Friends na close ug wala na close nako, amping mo.
if U needed some advisor, minaw ra ko.
yaw lang nang financial kay parehas ta galisod jud. hahahaa

TO PEOPLE WHO NEVER PART OF MY LIFE:
huwat mo.. ma part ra ko ninyu.. hehe huwat lang jud mow.. hahahha if dili mow kahuwat... aw wala ko mahims ana.

to someone who special but no longer part of my life.
Be happy with ur new relationship.
bless U. take care.

TO MYSELF:
hahaha tabiana nmo oi.. hilomi b..
bitaw aja! life is so short so enjoy it!

[WEI?]

kalma lang rhex...hahahaha!!!!

-WEI?

[annerhexian]

kalma lang rhex...hahahaha!!!!

-WEI?

hahahaha dili madalag kaLma sam..
hahah santong pas pasan na ni.. haahahhha

[melay24]

hahhaha tawa nalang ko

[WEI?]

hahahaha dili madalag kaLma sam..
hahah santong pas pasan na ni.. haahahhha

hahaha! hinuon nindot manang paspasan nato...hahaha!!!

-WEI?

[jimmy128]

very very interesting thread.. love it

kinsa kaha akong ma yaw yawan ani?

[Peenut]

To Peenut Valentine:

Build and gather confidence within.
Get enough faith that burns you deep down inside.
Never lose hope.
Cause life is a journey.
Journey to one's dreams and destination.

And you are not feeble, weak and frail.
Tread softly.