FORGIVE OR FORGET --him?

[TEDA]

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i have an amigo for 1 year kapin. super duper amazing kau ang flow sa among friendship though naai awai and selos2 usahay (pro wa ko ngpakita nia nga gselos ko sa iyang uyab, and for that 1 year kapin wala psad q nka open up ug talk nia about nilang duha sa iyang uyab). mu ari siya sa amo and most of the time, hatid-sundo ko nia sa school since we came from the same school. and by last year, nagpakita na siya sa iyang motive nko. i let him choose between me or his girlfriend, and he said.. ako... i told him nga buwagan nia iya gf and after pila kweeks (probably 6weeks), he said nga buwag na sila... nanigurado jud q nga wala na sila..and then i made myself believe nga wala njd sila so mau akong gsugot...after 1month kapin (sige rmn sad mig away. then ni attempt q ug buwag nia 3times).. nkabalita nlng q nga WALA d.i xla gbuwag sa iya gf. i let him explained and the truth came out. ako siya gbalik sa iyang uyab jud.... i hated him so much that i dont wanna talk about him or about us before. after few weeks, nka decide ko nga iforgive nlng siya BUT nkadungog kog mga storya nga ni ingon daw siya sa iyang uyab nga ako ang ngsamok2 nia, siya kuno nkigbuwag nako, ika isa ra daw siya naka anhi sa amo and etc.. so it was like a EEEENNNNGGGGKKKK for me! big bang blast just happened i guess! after what i heard, gkatawa nalang ko and i was thinking then kung unsa nai sud sa utok atong lakiha! naa ghapon ang hatred and for the sake sa among friends i want unta nga ok nami because as what his gf showed to me for the past days kai ok rmn mi both. ngtalk nsad mi sa situation sa iyang gf. but since katung gubwag mi sa guy, NEVER pmi nag commu.

as of now...
galibog ko if ako iFORGIVE or DILI?
para nko kai iFORGIVE for the sake sa friendship
dili kai dli lalim and sakit jud to iyang gbuhat nko and so dapat iFORGET nlng to xa

[Maikeru]

Forgive and forget. But it doesn't mean nga makigbalik ka. Forgive his wrong-doings and forget the pain you felt from him

But, I think it is also a good lesson for you. Ky in the 1st place maski unsa pa ninyo ka-amigo or close, you shouldn't have entertained him while naa pa xa uyab. Respect lang pud ta sa iyang uyab ba.

[targus]

forgive him but don't get close to him again. may uyab jud sya and i think he need to know who's really mas impt sa life nya.

[TEDA]

Forgive and forget. But it doesn't mean nga makigbalik ka. Forgive his wrong-doings and forget the pain you felt from him

But, I think it is also a good lesson for you. Ky in the 1st place maski unsa pa ninyo ka-amigo or close, you shouldn't have entertained him while naa pa xa uyab. Respect lang pud ta sa iyang uyab ba.

mai mn kau xa mkdala ug atik gd. like halos everyday nlng jd xa naa sa amo or everyday nlng jd mi mgkuyog. bxag sunday, mgkuyog mi usahay. then i thought ngka laboan na xla sa iyang gf kai if mgkuyog mi. dli nmn siya mgunit sa iyang phone. not like sauna katung first month pa nmu nga pagka amigo

[TEDA]

forgive him but don't get close to him again. may uyab jud sya and i think he need to know who's really mas impt sa life nya.

i let him choose bia bfore. and he choose me.
and now, nbalik siya sa iyang uyab....
maybe iyang uyab jud ang imprtnati sa?
mglisod sad q ug forgive nia aie

[ricardo042386]

4giv sis and 4gt...that's the easies way para pa peace u mind ang for that problem,u need to pray that somehow or whatever,,,sana ma okey na.lain mana nakay gidomtan ryt?

just pass away..live like a child nga wa probs perme..

[TEDA]

lisora pd iforget sa iyang gbuhat nko oie

[jforzado85]

likay nlng sis... for now if dli pka mka forgive nya naay ryt tym for eveyrthing. basta for now ayaw lng sa ug duol nya ky samot ka complicated... give space and tym.

[TEDA]

likay nlng sis... for now if dli pka mka forgive nya naay ryt tym for eveyrthing. basta for now ayaw lng sa ug duol nya ky samot ka complicated... give space and tym.

thanks sis. well actually, we havent talk personally since we broke up, neither txt or phone calls
and i think im not yet ready to face him kai basin nia msamot ra akong kalagot kita sa iyang nawng
ahehehehe. i cant control myself bia if mglagot jud mau

[annerhexian]

sis... can i do a bracketing judgement... the guy is playing u emotionally.. He might be good to u pero pait baya.. na bsag unsaon nimo limpio sa hugaw - kagaw japon.. I understand u sis na ni ana ka - na before mo nag overboard sa in ung friendsip.. nakig klaru jud ka sa LAKI na walay uyab.... but then as the situation goes on - ikaw noon ang nabali ug nahimong daotan.. tsk tsk..

I might say - some situations daghn jud sayup2.. dili sa imo part pero sa situation mismo... ug sa dagan sa storya..

If u want to forget and forgive coz of the sake of friendship - then so be it... pero if sakit pa imo na FEEL.. din yaw sa.. yaw jud... kay basin mo complicte pa ang usa ka butang na daan na complicated daan..


Bitaw, what jud imo like? what do u want to prior..?

ur self? [ i think, give ur self worth for everything ]
friendship? [ respecting the guy and the relationship u have, but dd he respect the relationship u offered to him?]


choice wisely sis.. if na sakitan pa ka.. then think unsay BEST nmo og dili sa situation neither sad sa guy or sa relationship nin u sauna which is friendship..

its about time na IKAW mo think sa imo SELF.. ug dili sa uban pa man..
i know that is selfishness.. but better na mo give tag worth sa atong self.. before others...