How to survive, forget, recover and get over cheating and betrayal in a relationship

[lynnkin_park85]

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I've found out that my boyfriend/partner has been cheating on me and has been having an affair to someone else.
It's been 3 months already but til now i still feel the feelings of anger, pain, anxiety and depression though were already trying to work our relationship again. I want to hear something from you istoryans.... pls help me di ko gusto mwala xa nko after 2yrs and a half of relationship mahulog lng sa wla. maybe i was too jealous and nagger sometimes but i still keep on changing myself for a better me now.

[zhrike]

just give him a chance to change...

[deniseismyname28]

if he can do it once, he may do it again.. but if you still love him enough, then give him a chance.. but one thing na dili na ma restore is the trust man gd.. mag sige nalang ka ug duda ana.. mag sige nalang ka ug selos ana..

but if ang time together lang ang imung nasayangan, dili jud siya worth it.. invest your feelings nalang with someone else.. it's easy said, but so hard to do..

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

ur in a state of confusion right now...u might need space to think and weigh things out properly...the reason why ur feeling like that is because ur trust to ur bf is broken and thats the hardest to regain...if u go on with the relationship just because of the length of time that ur together, i suggest u better think twice or more because to be honest with you, the lenght of time is not how you measure love but eveything you spent together despite how long or short uve been together...now, if u think that u still really love the guy, u can give him another chance...the questions are: are u still willing to take the risk? are u ready for the consequences that might happen? ---- because usually, not always though, once a person had committed that mistake the tendency is he might be doing it again... but we'll never know... it's all up to you now...

[zhrike]

mao pud lagi magkabalik tuod pero full of doubts... lisud kaayo e-gain balik ang trust...

[beyee]

I don't wanna burst ur bubble TS ha? But in most cases, once a person cheats, there's no guarantee that he/she won't do it again... ur lucky if the person would do otherwise.

The question is how would you handle another indiscretion from him (if ever it's going to happen again).. would u turn the other cheek and pretend that it didn't happen just because ur afraid that ur gonna lose him or would u be firm and let him go this time?

Just remember that there's a thin line difference between keeping a relationship out of love and out of fear of losing the person... and most of all in any given relationships, love is always bound with trust and respect between partners... Anyway, just my two cents

[beyee]

sorry... double post...

[maitoots]

did it once, he can do it again.. but if you really love him let go of the things that hurt you. cge pman ka huna2x sa iya gbuhat gud mao na dli ka mka get over. lisud na ang relationship nga kulang na sa trust, every now and then motumaw jud na imo mga pagduda and the hurt and anger would come flowing all over again. learn to let go of those maybe then.. you can move on.

[lynnkin_park85]

did it once, he can do it again.. but if you really love him let go of the things that hurt you. cge pman ka huna2x sa iya gbuhat gud mao na dli ka mka get over. lisud na ang relationship nga kulang na sa trust, every now and then motumaw jud na imo mga pagduda and the hurt and anger would come flowing all over again. learn to let go of those maybe then.. you can move on.

yes i think i should.... but the qstion is HOW?

[PipayNove]

yes i think i should.... but the qstion is HOW?

simple. lift it up everything to God.

a sincere prayer s d best medication among all.

we'll help you pray with your burden.. i knw u knw that many people do love n care for u.
der cud be reason to be sad,bt in fact a million of reasons behind to be happy.smile beautiful

love u sis!



God go with you