HELP The GF is pregnant for 4 months & the fling too for 1 month!

[rare _phoenix]

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guys eto yung kwento huchh------

Si barkada/batchmate have a Girlfwend for almost 3 years and she is now pregnant for 4 months---not a shocking revelation when we heard about it.

2nd part
Our "barkada" has a fling-------------and now she's pregnant too! for one month!

best part:
He's Gf has no idea about it not even their family!

Problem:
He ask us what to do?? weh sa totoo lang tameme kme lahat,guys help?! how can we help him?

As a girl ala me idea.........still blank isip nmen on what to do to help him.

Additional fact:
He's 20 years old pa lang.

[r3roble]

whaaat

naunsa man tawn ni pagkaunsaa oi...
angay ni siya padaghanon....

[nadine eidloth]

tagbaw na sya sa iyang biga. mirese na nya. mga bata gyod karon ambot lang. kinahanglan gyod na sya mamili ana duha alangan man ug moipon sya na duha. ka pyter sad ana nya oi ang duha man gyod. nganu man sad tawon nga duha duha mana. suportuan gyod na nya kung kinsa ang dili niya ikuyog sa ila kay responsibilidad gihapon na niya sa iyang katanga. akong manghod maingon ana ibitay ko gyod

[nadine eidloth]

whaaat

naunsa man tawn ni pagkaunsaa oi...
angay ni siya padaghanon....

kaTAW anan bro sa? bata pa kaau bigaon na kaau sus ang ginikanan ani unsaon nalang. bitayon gyod ni bataa unya

[jimmy128]

uso lagi ang buntis buntis karon noh?? its a tough choice... we cant change what has already happened so n ow they gotta deal with it.. as adults (over 1 they should be responsible for their actions and therefore take responsibility...

in my honest opinion, they should find ways to support their child.. her parents are bound to find out anyways.. and for sure they are gonna be furious.. you cant avoid the heat any longer.. they should face the music..

and to all girls out their.. be responsible...

[diem]

guys eto yung kwento huchh------
Problem:
He ask us what to do?? weh sa totoo lang tameme kme lahat,guys help?! how can we help him?

As a girl ala me idea.........still blank isip nmen on what to do to help him.

Sometimes, SILENCE is the best answer.

Why should you help him? Did he ask for your help (or guidance) with getting intimately involved with his girlfriend and the girl on the side?

So if he didn't ask any help from you then, I don't see any good reason why you should respond to his call for help right now. He made his bed, he should lie on it.

But if you still feel the need to say something to him, then let him decide on the only two possible choices:

1) Hide the existence of the pregnant fling,

or

2) Come clean with the Truth.

That's it. The rest is up to him. He's 20 years old, legal age, he's an adult and he better rise to the occasion of being a man who's responsible for the consequences of his actions or just remain a dude who can just "rise up" between the bed sheets.

[r3roble]

kaTAW anan bro sa? bata pa kaau bigaon na kaau sus ang ginikanan ani unsaon nalang. bitayon gyod ni bataa unya

pwerte ka kataw-anan....

if wala pa sya work, kabuang sya pangita work kay duha na dayon iya buhion... alangan man ug pasagdan lang ni niya ang duha ka girl nga mubuhi sa iya anak...

iya unta ni gihuna-huna b4 nya gipaslak... how sad...

[diem]

and to all girls out their.. be responsible...

To all the girls AND guys out there... be responsible for yourselves. If you don't want to be a mommy or a daddy yet, then get used to the idea of contraceptives.

[r3roble]

To all the girls AND guys out there... be responsible for yourselves. If you don't want to be a mommy or a daddy yet, then get used to the idea of contraceptives.

or abstain lang usa or if dili jud mapugngan, be creative nalang...

[jimmy128]

abstinence is really the best way from becoming pregnant.. + you lessen chances for STD..

sure condoms can work but its not 100% safe...

control lang gud.. sure ko mas meaningful jud ang eloping when you save it for marriage