What to do if my bf had a 3rd party relationship who is 1 month pregnant?

[eureshka]

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Here's my story.

We are 2 years na with my bf. He is the guy I've waited since elem? Hilarious but he too admits that he is waiting for. We had no communication during highschool and college. If naa man gani that was the time na ngcourt siya nako wherein graduating ko and wala nako siya gisugot (study first man daw ko).

After grad, nagmeet mi sa reunion and that where our relationship started. on our first year, a girl txted me saying uyab sila sa akong bf.. I had a confrontation sa akong uyab and was so certain na buhian nako siya. The day after, ni msg balik ang ngclaim nga gf sa ako saying she was only after my guy and he only made use of me para magbuwag mi..

After a few months, someone befriended my family and said na ako daw ga paskwela sa akong uyab.. gipasagdan ra nako..

karon, on our 2nd year, the same girl sent my brother a message saying nakabuntis daw akong bf sa iyang amiga (1 month preggy). Ni stop ang girl sa pagskwela. My bf just graduated but is working). I don't know if unsa ang tinuod. I don't know kung kinsa ang amigo sa akong uyab nor am i close sa iyang family. He always mentioned na all of his time kay naa nako.. Nglibog nako... Tabang ug unsa akong buhaton.

Wala pako nakigmeet sa girl cause i dont know where to start. Right now, i want to focus nlng sa akong job.

UPDATE: Dili magpakita ang girl. She deactivated her account. Now, i told my BF about this. He as denied the message and told me nga buhat2 ra daw to. How can he meet the girl if all he did was work. Iya mama kay suko sad. Now, I only wish to meet the girl para mahuman na ni nga issue.

[yudaz]

nahan ka tabangan taka ug meet s gurl TS? ipa XXX nato hehehe btaw mejo lisod2x ni..

[eureshka]

mahadlok ko mgmeet niya.. would it be best if magmeet mi or pasagdan ra na nako? basin ngbinuang ra siya..

[alphafemale]

i guess dili ang makipag kita nia imu kahadlokan, kung dili ang resulta kung unsa na katinood iya gipanabi. kung need ka og back up ingna lang ko.hehehe

if nagbinuang rana cia for what reason man pud? much better mag talk mo in person or ngita ka other way bsta pag storya jud mo duha, yaw sa pahibaw.a imu bf kay basin pugngan ka or cia..

[brian joshua]

replyi ug "miga, ipa-kidnap nako imo mama ugma"

[kageron]

gi unsa man pag buntis sa girl nga naa man kaha permi imong bf nimo? nag meet sila sa damgo?

[pinkpumpkin]

usahay naa lang gyud mga tao nga ganahan mosamok sa relationship kay suya. pero who knows tinuod diay.. confront ur bf. pero gamay kaayo ug chance nga moangkon na sa tinuod. lels

[i_am_fairy]

the only way nga ma answer imong mga pangutana is to talk to the girl nga napabuntisan kunuhay sa imong bf.
i know it's hard but once magkita namo and you talk and all, dili nana lisud.
i tell you, mas makatabang na nga ma clear kung unsa ka tinood ang mga tabi2.

i should know kay mao ni akong gibuhat adtong nasakpan nako akong ex nga naay gikabuangan lain..

[mrvs19]

confrontations.. communicate wth ur bf.. klarohanay nlng gd mo.. kaysa maminaw ka sa lain tawo.. maau n deretso ka sa imu bf, mangutana..

[bleedingboi]

5 Fs.

*Forget that girl. It's not you who's pregnant, right?
*Focus on your job. Get your career jumping to higher grounds.
*Find a better guy. I know this would be the hardest part- forgetting him, but anyone who keeps throwing problems at you, needs to be replaced.
*Fix your life. Socialize with friends, climb a mountain, swim a river, read a book. Do not revolve around him.
*Figure out a way to get you busier, if not busy. Collect stamps, plays online games, etc...