i know someone who is a single mom by choice and circumstance.. her story is like a telenovela
she is from a chinese clan while her bf worked in their company. they have been secretly together for 5 years. the girl's parents strongly disagree with their relationship and even terminated her bf from the company just to keep them apart. they are both in their late 20's and are both financially stable.
since the girl loves her bf so much she decided to be pregnant coz this is the only way she knows that they can get married. question, does that make her what you'd call "gi-una ang biga or a bitch"?
now, their plan succeeded. they will be married. but a tragic thing happened to the guy. a day before the wedding, he died of heart failure. question again, since the girl is not married, is it right to call her "disgrasyada"?
she once said that she will never love any man again. she can raise the child alone. does that mean she is selfish that she chose to raise her kid fatherless?
i just hope we'll be matured enough and open minded and not discriminate single moms and calling them names.
there are things in life that are just not meant for others or for ourselves.