Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[sinbad123]

let go na lng and start a new life.. hehehe

[freesoulyra]

yes no choice but to let go otherwise you will hurt your self the more

[maddox_pitt]

i believe in letting go if the time is not yet right..if the situation doesn't permit.... if it's a way of meeting the world..
but i'd hold on and never let go if i believe it's my only shot to happiness with the said loved one.. i'll try to fight...and that is if the guy wants me too..

[bUrbY_dUll]

yes i will let him go....if his happiness doesnt include ME,then why stay?

[frenchfries]

in my case, dili ko unana. dili ko "martir" kuno para i-let go ang ako lav, while kaya, otong jud.
but if ang guy na ang dili naku,,, ay! unsa may dugayan, alangan imong pugngan if dili na jud siya nimo?
sakit biya sad.

[C.aught.I.n.T.he.A.ct]

Love should never be selfish. It is never about one's own happiness. There is nothing more painful than seeing the one you love unhappy and asking her/him to stay, when you both know that there is nothing more you can do but to let go and let things be. They say it's better to let go of someone or something to see if there is anything worth holding on to. Easier said than done, right, but it's not impossible. Maybe your love is meant for someone else.



"We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

[kerel09]

I don't have a choice but to let go... There is no point on holding on to someone who is no longer in love with me.. I think i should be better accept the fact that the best for him just isn't me than live in a lie that he still loves me...dili jud tawn ko masokista..

[sassy_gurL]

if this is the case, then i would have to let him go. what's the use of fighting back if the person you are fighting for tells you that you already lose the fight even before it has started.

[aiko_kawaii]

make busy to yourself.. makalimot lagi ka naa ka heart hehehe..

[xiaomai]

1. Avoid the former love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be.

2. Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get everything out so that you won’t hold it inside. Your friends may get sick of hearing you talk about the situation but you need to let out all your feelings and thoughts or they may come back to bite you later.

3. Cry if you want to. It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex. You don’t want your tears to be used as a guilt trip. Their purpose is to cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back.
4. Let go of mementos. Put away or give away anything and everything that reminds you of the relationship. Hide them out of sight so they will be out of mind until you are able to remember the relationship without longing for it to still be going strong.

5. Don’t slip up and get together with your ex. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with so why would you want to rekindle things?

6. Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying. Think about these things often and replay them in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and that there are things you won’t really miss.

7. Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life.

8. Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.

Mending a broken heart is not easy but it can be done. Just stick to the game plan outlined above and before you know it you’ll be just fine. Good luck!