What HURTS when We LOVE and Why?

[KaTzKi]

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it hurts right at this very second..

[crinkle]

is this a friggin question??

[The Dreamer]

Yes it really Hurts!

[thisbe.ara]

yes.. but the scars make you a better person.. once you choose to be one.

[AnInO]

its not love unless it hurts

[AVriLRockZ!!!]

you would really know that it's really love when it hurts.....

[cYbOrG]

if love hurts, then its selfishness....

loving is being happy at giving away the worlds most important gift: LOVE..

so if it hurts, you are trying to hold it back.

give it wer it belongs...and be hapi...for you have loved and thats wat makes u human....

[sHe]

Being in love is supposed to feel great. But sometimes it just feels confusing....

[luv2luv]

sure way it does! it wudnt be that "special" if it doesnt hurt... it will jst fall down to all d oder categorical and ordinary things of our so-called life...

[thisbe.ara]

just wanna share this with you.. basin ma-enlighten ka.

For those who have loved and been
hurt, those who haven't loved at all, and those who
are just about to discover the beauty of this
moving experience.

In thinking of your past love, you may view it as a
failure. But when you find a new one, you
suddenly see this failure as a teacher. In the game
of love, it doesn't really matter who won or lost,
What is important is you know when to hold on
and when to let go! You know you really love
someone when you want him or her to be happy,
even if his/her happiness means not you being
part of it.

"Everything happens for the best. If the person
you love doesn't love you back don't be afraid to
love someone else again; you'll never know if it will
be returned unless you give it a try. You never
really loved unless you risk for it.
"Love strives
and grows in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't
learn how to love.
"Love doesn't hurt all the time.
The hurting is there to test you and help you grow.
"Love is not destroyed by a single failure or
won by a single caress. It is a lifetime learning,
discovering and growing.
"Love's greatest irony is letting go when you
need to hold on and/or holding on when you need
to let go. Loving people means giving them the
freedom to choose whom and where they want to
be, regardless whether those choices lead toward
or away from you.
"We lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
even more than we can love ourselves.

"Don't find love, let love find you. That's why
it is called falling in love.